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58ac9 No.2421[Reply]

I always liked fat girls. From when I was a teenager. I have also dated chubby cheeks and fat girls. But, when I dated obese girls I was always worried for their health, they were lazier and they ate a lot of junk food. (in a feederistic way is just a turn on, but in a realistic way, I loved them and I was always a bit (or more) worried about their health since I know more you gain more you can have diabetes and other disease… Also some girls were unhappy being obese and I kind helped them lose weight (I know, feeder again but sometimes I feel like my fetish is totally a burn…) thoughts? Anyone on this situation? Like maybe the small fat its the best, you can still play with it , but it is less dangerous for the chick health…But, my dream is being with a ssbbw or see my chubbygirlfriend become a ssbbw gaining a lot of weight. I'm a freak? Lol You can be fat and healthy or is just a silly slogan for fatties who wanna just eat all the time and avoid movement?
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5467c No.2438

Everyone's said it already.

If I HAD to play devils advocate:
The only thing I can honestly think of that would universally be an issue as you approach higher weights would be knee/ankle stress. Even then low impact exercise is usually the best sort anyway and honestly everyone as they age runs into these issues (plus robo knees are going to be on the way soon as the surgery becomes more common and also cheaper to perform).

Not everyone is genetically lined up to be healthy fat as others have mentioned. Idk if there's a way to predict issues or not though, would be interesting. I'd imagine women with naturally wider hips will gain weight more safely but that's just a guess with no science backing.

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eff8c No.2441

>>2438

why you think women with naturally wider hips wll gain weight more safely?

e2ead No.2443

>>2441
That seems to be the scientific consensus, that "gyno" fat, the kind that sits just under the skin and usually defines pear shaped women, is safer all around than the "andro" kind that's deeper inside the body. However as Anon2438 pointed out, put enough weight on your joints year after year and you'll wear them out even if your "numbers" are all good. I had a friend who made it to 50 and was very healthy despite being in the mid- to high-300s (and very short) for most of her adult life. Then one of her knees gave out and she was forced to have WLS to have a replacement or else wind up in a wheelchair. (The better ortho docs won't do replacements on people who are morbidly obese because many can't do the necessary PT to fully recover, and risk needing more dangerous follow-up surgeries.) Several otherwise-healthy BBW "celebs" have been through similar situations - Nancy Goddess and Deborah Harper aka Whimsical Angel (who later died from a surgical complication) come to mind.

d8abd No.2446

>>2443
Yeah, some surgeons won't even perform surgery on someone who is 5'6" and 186 lbs, since they are classified as obese - which seems ridiculous since that's barely even chubby according to our standards

5467c No.2448

>>2441
>>2443

Subcutaneous fat (waist, thigh, ass, lower belly) is healthier than visceral fat (stomach area and side rolls) so naturally pear shaped women tend to be healthier. There is also research that shows eating healthier but just in large portions generates this healthier fat, and that visceral, internal fat is first to go when exercising.

However what I was referring to was just the bone structure (as in if they weren't fat, would they be curvy or straight waisted) and not even where the fat comes from. This is where I admit I have no science backing on this aspect, but it just seems through general browsing of the chubby and lower bbw range (the only way you'd be able to notice bone structure) that the wider girls of this size range tend to move and breathe better.



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d668b No.2403[Reply]

My girlfriend has a doctor's appointment tomorrow, and she knows her size will be a subject. She weighed herself here today, just to know how much she has gained since her last visit in July, and turns out she's put on 11lbs, making her 292lbs. She loves to eat and being fat, but she knows no matter what she's going in for, her weight will become a topic. I'm very turned on by someone talking about her fat, but off course I'm not going with her. But does anyone else share this? I can't wait for her coming back tomorrow and what she'll tell about it.

364af No.2404

I've been through three different doctors, hoping to find one that doesn't have a weight bias but they all told me to lose weight (even my first doc recommend that I go on a diet when I had only gained like ten pounds). I love hearing about other girls experiences, but I personally hate going to the doctor now because they always lecture me about my weight and try to scare me with horror stories about obesity related illnesses, etc.

d668b No.2405

Ok, I'm not overweight myself, so I don't get that, but it's just turns me on knowing she'll get the talk. And I also like it when others comment on her size. She doesn't mind, but I'm rather turned on by that as well.

fdd9c No.2416

Oh absolutely. In the FA community, nothing at all unusual about that.



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51930 No.1770[Reply]

This is probably a weird question…so I've recently gotten the urge to splurge on commissions. I'm not new to the fat art scene, but I am very new to art requesting in general, so I don't really know what artists to try and go for…

I'd love to know your thoughts and experiences on which artists are the best generally who take commissions, and also which ones take them the most regularly, reliably, and that can deliver in a reasonable amount of time (as in, less than two months or so). It would be a great help. Thanks for your time!

b6b48 No.1773

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Kurocaze-S is really good. I commissioned him, got a rough, and the final drawing all within 48 hours. I think he clears his commission queue faster than it fills up. He's a goddamn madman.

95777 No.1930

>>1773
I love his art, and he seems like a nice and honorable man. But his prices aint cheap.

a3f77 No.2287

I've had commissions from multiple artists: JayKuma, Axel Rosered, Kurocaze, Bubble Biscuit and Axlwisp.

I'd say they were all fast enough and they all did well. I think Bubble Biscuit had some delay but it was still done in the month. Two of them simply posted the results on their DA telling me they were done. JayKuma, Axel and Kurocaze gave me roughs before completion. JayKuma made my thing a Patreon exlusive so far and Axel didn't publish it at all, but they both sent me full-res versions directly. Kurocaze did that and published it on his DA shortly after.

JayKuma asked me to join his Patreon for the commission. That was a bit annoying but I did it anyway. I've dealt with the rest of the artists only in DA notes or email.

So yeah, as a former regular commissionner, those were my experiences with these 5 artists. You can't go wrong with any of them, but sadly, Bubble Biscuit retired…

c9418 No.2401

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>>2287

Bubble Biscuit is still around, he's "bubberoni" now. He's had a lot of trouble getting stuff done lately, though, thanks to a combination of drawer's block and his tablet breaking. A weight gain drive he planned starring Callie and Marie (from Splatoon) never went anywhere, and a friend of mine commissioned him but Bubberoni cancelled the commission due to inability to get himself to draw. It's too bad because he does great work, hopefully someday he'll get fired up again and make some new content.

0fbc9 No.2412

Three Questions:
What's the longest you ever had to wait for a commission?
Is it inappropriate to ask for a update on your commission?
Has anyone else been in the situation below?

I've commissioned an artist over a month ago and haven't heard anything back yet. I would really like to see the progress of my commission, but I don't want to annoy the artist or make the artist feel like I'm rushing them.



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3a430 No.2307[Reply]

We all have fantasies, whether its a fantasy for just one night in bed or an entire lifestyle. Many people here, such as myself… we understand not all of our fantasies are practical, safe, or will be great in the long run. Many of us here decided to follow those dreams, recieving mixed results depending on who you are.
I want you to tell me your fat lifestyle fantasies- you being fat? Partner being fat? Both? How fat? How do you want it to affect you? How do you want it to affect your future goals unrelated to fat? And finally, which of these fantasies are you going to/have you integrate(d) in your lives?
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5db1a No.2372

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>>2307

I'd never wish this on a real life person, but my hottest fantasy is having an athletic friend who breaks their leg and had to spend months in a cast, and so they laze around the house and eventually get so fat by the time they have the cast removed they're too out of shape or lazy to go back to being fit, so they continue to be lazier and get fatter.

c83e7 No.2373

>>2372
That actually happened to me lol. I was a professional athlete, had an injury and ended up gaining 30 lbs in three months. Even though I was always thin, I became seriously addicted to binge eating during that time and couldn't get back to my normal weight because of the food addiction and lack of exercise.

5db1a No.2389

>>2373

Huh, very interesting.

If you don't mind me asking, besides being able to binge eat, was there any other incentive that motivated you to not lose the weight? Things like body size, lifestyle changes or something like that?

c83e7 No.2390

>>2389
I desperately wanted to lose the weight but I would starve myself for days, then become so physically & mentally drained that I would end up eating everything in sight. I also became lazy after being laid up for months, and couldn't get motivated to go back to working out every day. The injury also didn't heal properly which made me even less interested in exercising.

ac3ff No.2391

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>>2307
Unrelated, but I have another feederism related gf that I made myself, though I think that one's better than mine.



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14dc8 No.2184[Reply]

>Find chubbette
>Get with her
>Get her to eat herself to obesity
What's so hard about it, anons?
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19767 No.2326

>>2324
Ameena is currently looking for a husband, will be interesting to see who she chooses

534e4 No.2328

>>2325
Then people are just being picky, I dunno what to tell you

b5a4a No.2330

>>2323
Feabie is mostly a way for fat chicks to monetize their weight gain. Guys complain on there because the girls just want you to buy shit on their Amazon wishlist and the girls complain because it motivates desperate guys to buy stuff for them.

19767 No.2333

>>2330
Five years ago the concept of gaining and asking for money didn't exist. My theory is that girls like CGV popularized the concept of making money from gaining and now it's become a thing. Makes it really hard to find genuine feedees. I refuse to donate until a girl has reached 250+

d3d9e No.2337

>>2330
whatever man, I've gotten laid a handful of times on there and haven't spent a dime lol, they're fine in my book lol



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7dcb1 No.1797[Reply]

We've all experienced it…

The Sight: the wrinkled, flabby rolls of mismatched, discolored flesh of different shapes and textures.

The Smell: the piss and shit of a not-all-the-way-wiped ass, mixed with the sweet and sharp tinge of a horny waiting pussy.

The Sound: the liquidy squish of fat ass cheeks being pulled apart, sounding like the Alien egg opening up before the face-hugger jumps out.

Yes, you have just come face to face with THE NASTY CRACK!

Did you dive in? Did you run away? What did you do?
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b7518 No.2130

Im kind of an ass collector. I try to get em as big as possible but variety drives me crazy too. I eat the booty every time, and I go to bashes in Chicago, Vegas, Atlanta and Jersey.

I don't at all mind the discolored skin, or the flab, or the sound when the cheeks are peeled apart.

The smell is something that has not been an issue with me. A little hint of her essence is a nice detail anyway.

The look of it, although unsightly, has always at that moment felt like an accomplishment. If she's bigger than anyone I've had and she's exposing all that nasty ass for me, then Ive done a good job with getting her comfortable and willing open up, so to speak.

TL;DR, The prettied-up fatties tend to have hygiene on point. And the ones that aren't so meticulous aren't deal breakers for me. It's all about the size and you gotta accept some things with that.

ad920 No.2134

>>2130
> The smell is something that has not been an issue with me. A little hint of her essence is a nice detail anyway.

Pits, pussy, bloody pussy, even feet smells turn me on. I draw the line at inefficiently wiped anus.

Poop is gross, even a film of micropoop.

ceea8 No.2167

So I have some expierince here and thought I would ad my two cents. My fiance is approaching 500lbs, and for a while we had problems with it being smelly down there. First thing was we got a bidet, since she could no longer wipe, and while I love her I was not up for that. It helped a lot with her nasty crack. Her pussy still smelled horrible though. Nowadays I scrub between her folds and in her pussy for her at least once a day, and the smells are mostly under control.

3a0e7 No.2329

>>2130
>I eat the booty every time, and I go to bashes in Chicago, Vegas, Atlanta and Jersey.
i live near atlanta and also want to do this. should i go to a bash? i'm only 22 but i think i'm pretty decent looking since the 4 girls i've done stuff with all said i was pretty attractive. i just feel like every woman there is gonna know every guy there wants to fuck them and is gonna be creeped out by anything i do. the entire situation is so foreign to me since college parties are really my only experience around a lot of people trying to hook up. do you have any tips for how to succeed? or about anything else?

ceea8 No.2336

>>2329
Being so young might be a bit of a negative for you, most of the people that go are in their 30s and 40s, with the youngest usually being in their late 20's. I went to one at 24 and Im pretty sure I was the youngest person there. I sill had a great time though.

With that said, dont be a creep and treat the girls like normal people and its pretty easy to laid at these. Theres always a handful of super thirsty guys at these who never get laid, dont be one of them. You should try to get to know people before you go through like facebook groups and stuff, you will have a much better time and might even have some people already interested in you before you get there.



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86ae1 No.1435[Reply]

So, is there any chance that we're going to get some ssbbw vr content? VR porn looks really cool, however most bbw vr videos out there seem pretty generic and makes me hold off on getting a headset. 360 cameras are getting more and more affordable. I feel like any of the more popular models could really tap into that market while there isn't that much competition. Thoughts? Picture is from Ash's IG.
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0a986 No.2225

>>2220
>>2222
>clothed /d/-sized breasts
I fucking need this. Source?

9d51d No.2226

>>2225
It's Custom Maid 3D 2 and Sybaris AIO mod pack

You train maids and teach them how to have sex. Which is pretty lame but it's perfectly possible to use it just for sex scenes and ignore any "plot"

Supports VR headsets and controllers

Sex and lewd scenes work better if you make the girl normal sized or modestly thick.

8392c No.2245

I certainly don't think VR is a fad. I have an Oculus and enjoy several titles with it, with more coming out all the time. Even 3D video watched in VR is pretty awesome, I've noticed it can help give a sense of scale to some ssbbws. I have added pseudo-depth to some videos to test in VR in a 2D→SBS/OU process, and they sort of work but not anywhere near as well as real 3D. I can only imagine how good actual VR porn would be for this stuff. Regardless, saying VR is a fad is a bit short sighted.

6606c No.2315

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Closer than ever, kids…
https://vr.google.com/blocks/

ae2d7 No.2317

You know when I first saw this thread, I was under the impression we were talking about BBW/BHM POV for VR.



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25d1e No.2263[Reply]

Happy Thanksgiving !

25d1e No.2264

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25d1e No.2265

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daa7f No.2269

What

9461c No.2270

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Erdogan approves

795a3 No.2284




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e277a No.2271[Reply]

How do you hypnotize your S/O to just be absolutely turned on by their own weight.

My gf likes to gain weight and wants to be really fat but in the bed room she doesn't get turned on by growing bigger and such and she wants to because I am if that makes sense.

Is there anyway I could help her she just likes having her belly grabbed and all her fat grabbed. She wants to be turned on by her bodies movements and jiggles and eating food.

please no ban, If I was trying to do something underhanded I would just pretend to be her.
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e277a No.2279

>>2277
that's a really good idea I'll pitch this to her.

I was thinking something Pavlovian would also work but I don't really know how to facilitate it. Like Do I need to give her food while shes climaxing or just keep feeding her as she's having sex?

What if she masturbates and doesn't eat?
Will food make her crave sex or will sex make her crave food?

some of the questions I have, but probably can't be answered

e277a No.2280

>>2277
Should I do something like say a phrase to keep reminding her of her body as we have sex or like keep her eating as we fuck?

cdfda No.2281

>>2271
Torrent Mark Cunningham's "Renegade Hypnotist Project". It's a program that teaches you how to hypnotize girls to be more sexually responsive and open to your ideas. He also has a YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7p9wYVXLbTY
Just replace the stuff he's talking about with feedism stuff and it would be perfect. I actually happen to be teaching myself hypnosis right now, so seeing this thread is exciting! Good luck OP!
Oh, and if you're wondering about conditioning, that's basically what the whole program is based around ;)

cdfda No.2282

Torrent Mark Cunningham's "Renegade Hypnotist Project". It's a program that teaches you how to hypnotize girls to be more sexually responsive and open to suggestion. He has a YouTube channel as well: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7p9wYVXLbTY
All you'd have to do is modify what he's saying to include feedism. I actually happen to be in the process of learning hypnosis right now, so seeing this thread is exciting! Good luck OP! Also, if you're interested in conditioning, that's basically what the whole program revolves around ;)

cdfda No.2283

FUCK I DOUBLE POSTED. Sorry.



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283aa No.2148[Reply]

What do you think, will Echo be immobile in next year?
How much she weights now? I remember that she cant weight herself becouse she was too heavy for her scale - about a month ago.
She has gained a lot in 2017, what is her goal? 1000lbs or more?
Lets discuss! :)
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23f94 No.2241

I personally don't give a single fuck whether she wants to be fat or not. As long as she keeps getting fatter and does a good job of showing it off, i'm happy!

55717 No.2242

>>2241
Yeah seriously, we're not talking about whether she wants to be fat or not. Point is she's fat as fuck and looks awesome being fat as fuck. Lets discuss that shall we? I love that waddle of hers personally

23f94 No.2249

>>2242
Her latest update doesn't seem too exciting though. I still don't know if it's worth paying for.

444d3 No.2252

>>2249
Yeah you're right latest set is boring, but the last few before were great. The dancing one, walking one, basically any of the ones where she moves around are sexy af

3ab57 No.2273

How long has it been since the update in OP's pic? Seems like its been longer than usual even for echo



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56e71 No.2219[Reply]

I've never posted here before so forgive any formatting issues.

I've been with the same woman for over a decade now and I've never told her about my BBW/feeding fetish. I want to finally be honest with her but I'm afraid it's too late.

The problem is my wife has always been very sensitive about her weight. She was teased for being overweight as a child, and worked hard to get herself in shape, which she was when we first started dating. But a few years back she had surgery that put her on bed rest and required her to take steroids, and she put on about 50 pounds over the next year. She hasn't been able to lose it since then. Secretly I'm loving it, but she hates the way she looks, and thinks I find her repulsive. Any time I try to tell her I find her attractive she dismisses it as being nice to not hurt her feelings. I'm afraid if I tell her the truth she'll react poorly and take it personally.

I've been trying to help her lose weight despite my personal preferences. Her happiness is more important to me than this fetish.

Long story short, how do I explain to my wife that I've been keeping this from her for years, still find her attractive, and don't want her to look like the women I watch (usually in the 350-450 pound range) because she'd be miserable and unhealthy, while at the same time avoiding destroying her self image and convincing her that when I tell her she's attractive I don't just mean she's fat?

Thanks in advance. As tribute, here are some Marilyn vids. I'll post more if someone gives me some good advice.

https://files.fm/u/k4tnnyee
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f00d9 No.2233

>>2232

You're totally fine; I get where you're coming from, which is why I added the disclaimer in the first place.

I just wanted to expand upon a little bit of my original post in response to your concern about calling her attractive = calling her fat. Don't feel obligated to respond or post videos, because I get that you want to hear some different viewpoints on the matter (instead of just me, who won't leave this thread alone :) )

"… after you finish the anecdote, remind her of how she was when you first met: skinny. Yet you still fell in love and married her nonetheless." I feel this part is probably the most pertinent to your situation; when you do go into the direct option, you could put more emphasis on this aspect. Because I'm really big on dichotomies for some reason, I see another one here in that you've got two main angles with this. The first is the whole concept of inner vs. outer beauty, looks are secondary to personality, etc. but that might come off a bit trite and doesn't exactly address the situation. The second, which I think is the crux of what you're trying to express, is that you found her attractive when you first started dating (i.e. skinny) and will continue to do so no matter her weight; the fact of the matter is simply that for you, that attraction happens to increase when she is heavier. I don't think there's really any way to get around stating this in some form or other, and it's not your fault because it's just how you're wired. Basically what I'm trying to say is that when you do breach the subject, make sure to emphasize that your definition of attractiveness doesn't rely exclusively on weight, that your attraction to her is multifaceted in this way, and that that's why you married her when she was skinny: her attractiveness was such that you were overcome to the point of essentially pledging the rest of your life to her without weight even factoring into the equation.

Again, sorry for jamming my foot into this closing door, but I just wanted to get my last two cents in on what seems to be your biggest issue in this dilemma. Also, sorry if it came off a bit brusque; it's past midnight where I am and I really should be sleeping by this time of night. But yeah, feel free to ignore this post, and once more, best of luck to you!

ee89c No.2238

My $.02: First off, based on what you wrote, I don't think you should tell her about your feeding fetish. She's either going to think you're manipulating her or she'll be self-conscious about the fact that you fantasize about women significantly bigger than her - or both, and then you'll really be fucked. A lot of FAs think they're doing their unhappily overweight partner a favor by announcing their appreciation for their fat but all it does is call attention to their fat, which is literally the last thing they want. If your fetish is strong enough that you don't think you'll be able to stay with her if she loses the weight, get out. Seriously. If you stay in out of marital duty or because "she's your best friend" you'll both wind up miserable and probably split up down the road anyway.

As far as "normalizing" her higher weight (and possibly adding to it), it's all about trust. Though all women know we look at and fantasize about other women, if they're treated properly they are usually able to suspend disbelief to a pretty amazing degree. So you have to play the long game here: Yes, compliment her where appropriate (and NEVER about her weight) but way more important than that, demonstrate it. Don't grope her randomly like a Hollywood movie producer, but never miss an opportunity to show her physical affection where appropriate. Get really romantic with lots of gifts. If you're broke, flowers or little tchotchkes go a long way, and more expensive gifts if you can afford it, and not just on holidays or her birthday. "Just thinking about you…" Make spontaneous plans just you and her, whether a movie or a weekend away. Don't ask, just check her schedule and do it. Cook her a meal. Clean the house. Give a neck or back rub. Listen attentively but passively to her bitching and bullshit stories.

I know this is boilerplate "how to have a good relationship" stuff but you'd be amazed how many guys are selfish, self-centered, entitled shitheads and then wonder why their partner is insecure. From what you're saying she'll never be your dream feedee, and she might be miserable with her extra weight forever and/or go through drastic measures to lose it. But if she trusts your relationship implicitly she'll be more secure overall and maybe - maybe - less self-conscious about her body. She'll then be more inclined to please you, which may include staying chubby, even if it's on a subconscious level.

3795f No.2248

>>2219
explicitly tell her that you will work on her confidence
go with her to whatever plus size store, the kind where you can chat with the owner and tell her to try on different things and maybe buy some sexy underwear, joining the fat acceptance circlejerk would be perfect
find adipositivity / facebook pinup models that have her body type and tell her they are attractive, just like her
find whatever "I like fat girls" confession from the internet and send it to her, play it like it's not a big deal, that you never felt weird for it and that it's a very common thing, if you make it rare, she will feel weird
ask her to undress at home, take off her bra, wear a loose shirt, put your hand on her hips when she's standing, if she feels desirable in underwear, you won

there's no magical solution but I hope that helps

ecba0 No.2257

There's been a lot of different approaches discussed in this thread and while I think all have their good points, I'm gonna go against the grain here and suggest that you don't approach it like a confession or a dark secret. When confronted with something unfamiliar, people take their emotional cues from you. If you tell her you have a fetish for fat chicks and that it's something you've always been ashamed of, all you're doing is reinforcing the idea that liking fat or being fat is something to be ashamed of. I'd be concerned that's only going to make her feel worse.

By all means sit down and have a heart to heart with her, but don't make it about shame and secrets. The next time she expresses insecurity about her weight or rejects one of your compliments just take her aside and explain to her casually that you really do like it. If she's skeptical because you also liked her when she was thinner, just tell her that you appreciate women of all sizes, but that, if pressed, you do have a preference for curves. Laugh a little bit, act a bit self-deprecating. That's fine, and will help set her at ease if she's feeling uncomfortable. But don't give off the impression that you believe that your preferences are taboo or abnormal. Tell her it's a preference, not a fetish. Even if it's not entirely truthful, there's a lot of negative baggage attached to that word and you don't want to spend this time justifying your attraction and reassuring her that you're not a creepy weirdo at the expense of truly connecting with her. Be casual, but sincere.

62f3d No.2258

>>2257

This right here.



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234e2 No.1663[Reply]

I'm worried, guys. Growing up I was most certainly straight, no question about it. over the last few years though, I noticed I've become a bit more… open minded.
I've always been the feeder type wanting a fat gf or a gf to fatten up. Now sometime near 5 years ago, I feel like a switch just went off in me that turned me into a feedee. I wanted to be fattened, I wanted a girl to fatten me up and make fun of me for it, to treat me like a complete useless fatass that she loved. This was very weird, because prior to this I had no interest myself of being fat, just my partners. Fat girls and girls getting fat were still hot, but these self-fattening thoughts were just too strong to bear. I started gaining weight, getting a belly, and uncontrollably found any friend who was a girl to make fun of me for it. Even if it were artificial, I didn't care, I got a rush from it. GF at the time was a fitness nut and eventually broke up with me for another dude, and I think that was the primary reason why.
Now afterwards, I had gone through a fair amount of grieving and such, since she meant a lot to me. In that time, I decided I wanted to give back to the community and post my chubby self on the internet for others to wank to just as they had for me. Then I realized around that time, there was something about some types of 2d fat guys that were really really hot. Now they have to be hairless everywhere but the head, and must be somewhat a femboy (pic related). I speculate a couple of reasons why this is. One, because I really want self insert fattening, pretending these fatties are me, or two, they are just feminine to me that they are close enough to girls. I'm not a very masculine looking guy, but I'm not really androgynous. Figured the "traps aren't gay" logic applies here. Now I didn't question when I started fapping to furry (even fat ferals), but this set off some red flags in my mind.
Over time I started becoming more and more lenient to what I jacked off to as far as guys. Effeminate furries, to fat guy with skinny girl, etc. As this happened I decided to explore more myself and have been gaining weight; my once trimmed body I maintained through Highschool and college is now borderline obese. Half my clothes fit anymore, I jiggle as I walk, I'm out of breath much easier than I remember, and I've got a decent sized belly that sticks out and hangs over a bit. In public when talking to people I feel embarrassed, but behind closed doors it feels so Post too long. Click here to view the full text.
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f314f No.2093

>>2085
I assume he's referring to a study last year that said soy raises estrogen levels in male children and thus hips and titties and other forms of feminization.

20429 No.2116

>>2093
People have been saying that a lot longer than a year actually. I think it's only a problem if you live on soy for like three meals a day (not to knock all vegans but there's certainly a type of them who are too lazy to learn how to cook and just live off packaged, processed food instead).

ca85b No.2117

Soy is just one tiny factor in a toxic modern lifestyle, in fact some may claim just soy is a red herring.

The average male testosterone now is abysmal. I don't even want to get in to the details because it makes me crawly and nauseous.

PLEASE just work out, avoid plastics, use glass/metal for containers whenever you can. Optimally get a copper water canteen/bottle because it's antiseptic as well. Also avoid pollution.

7115f No.2203

I used to be friends with a gay kid that used to say he will gain weight for me and stuff like that. And he was down to get really big and at first I was just playing along because I didn't want to be rude to him. but then when time went along, he started sending me photos of his belly and suddenly was just falling for him. But me and him don't talk to him after when people from my school started hearing about it. It sucks…

e939e No.2211

I have the opposite problem tbh. I am a feedee, and finding female feeders is so much harder then finding gay male ones. At the start, I wasn't sexually attracted to men, I just enjoyed how much they enjoyed my body and gaining. But recently, Ive found myself being more and more gay. Ive grown to actually kind of like cocks, and Ive met up with two guys and actually had a really good time.

TL:DR male feedee whose basically turned gay because female feeders are so hard to find.



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6dddf No.1413[Reply]

How to increase your stomach capacity?

I get full fast so I've been trying to expand my stomach by pushing air down with small gulps of water recently. Works but it's a bit slow. Although during and after when lots of air tries to come up I can feel around in my throat what muscles make the thingy open so I could try to learn to do what all those people who can burp at will can do before they burp. Does inflating through the butt hole increase stomach capacity? What's the risk of air going into your veins and killing you from these?
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10f5c No.1441

>>1439

No, I can't forcibly belch, in fact, I can't burp… at all. But I like other people burping.

9cb1b No.1451

little known fact, being fat actually reduces your stomach capacity. All the visceral fat pushing down on your abdomen reduces its ability to expand.

0054e No.1455

>>1441
No air passes out of your mouth or it's just inaudible?
>>1451
Read that too on the tips for competitive eating. Now I want to out eat some real fatsos.

10f5c No.1457

>>1455

No air passes out of my mouth, so I just fart if I get gassy, which I hardly do anyway.

0ed6c No.2182

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OP here. I'm now pushing air down to my stomach after meals so it doesn't pass to the intestines. Is this enough or would water be strictly better for stretching it? Air seems to be a bit more uncomfortable but I don't care about that.

Seems I actually have always had gastroptosis, where my stomach stretches to the pelvis and outwards. I can eat and drink pretty massive portions, BUT it's my satiety being too sensitive preventing me from eating more. Should I stuff buckets of vegetarian food, get some appetite stimulants prescribed, or just force myself to eat no matter how greasy it is? Or I think purging would destroy your satiety reflex too?

Really want to do this in the future https://www.youtube.com/user/kinoyuu0204/videos
She purges (Russell's sign, although doesn't admit it) so that's why she has no satiety.

>>1457
Oh that's bizarre. Well I have a hard time belching now too after I've done this for a while and have had to prevent myself from burping.



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