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In what cities or states do you CASUALLY see skinny guys dating bbw and ssbbw women? Anonymous 06/13/2019 (Thu) 00:30:53 Id:0d3e15 No. 7846 [Reply]
just curious
I would say the south.
>>7846
Amsterdam
Isn't this a normal thing everywhere where you can see BBW's?
Not rare at all in my city in Norway and I never got stares when I used to date a 140+ kg girl.
>>7901
Where the heck do you find big girls like this in Norway?
I dated a girl that I met on Feabie for a while, she was 150 kilo, but she was like the exception. Stunning and smart, tall and fat, confident, everything you could dream about just not serious about relationship.
>>7912
There are some this size North

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Would you stay or leave? Anonymous 06/19/2019 (Wed) 01:20:42 Id:c2215b No. 7904 [Reply]
Fellas, after all of the negatives comments by family and friends, rude glances from society, you ignore them and get married to your preference; the only type of woman you like. The BBW or SSBBW of your dreams.

Years later, she decides to slim down.

What would you do in this situation?

stay? leave? stay and cheat? ...etc

let me know below.
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Married guy here with an effortpost.

If you're serious about a lifelong, monogamous marriage, you have to be psychologically prepared for the possibility of her losing weight. (Obviously it's different if you're in an open relationship or if you're not really committed to trying to make the marriage work for life no matter what.)

I wrote about this before in the "one that got away" thread, but one of the major FA experiences I had when I was younger was a serious relationship with someone who was a perfect match physically (a 500 lb pear with ass and belly for days), and who had a good potential wife personality (sweet and kindhearted), but who I didn't actually have any interests in common with outside the bedroom. Eventually I had to admit that I wouldn't be compatible with her if I didn't find her body so attractive.

She had weight-related health issues (diabetes and knee stuff), and I realized that if I were serious about staying with her for the long term, and if I cared for her as a person and not just a sex object (which I did, even though we eventually broke up), she would probably have to lose a significant amount of weight at some point to make her own life bearable, and that would make things really difficult for me because it would take away the main reason we were a couple in the first place. She did eventually end up getting WLS a few years after we broke up.

I knew I was serious about wanting marriage, so when that relationship ended, I made a hard rule for myself that I wouldn't get into a serious relationship with a woman unless I could honestly say that I would still be interested in them as a person if they weren't fat. I was enough of a "good catch" (open about liking fat women, solid job/education, introverted but not a total neckbeard) that I had to learn to turn down romantic attention from girls I found physically hot but who had incompatible personalities. As a male with normal male levels of horniness, this was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. But it was the right thing to do. Fat women get enough shitty treatment from closet FAs and men in general that I didn't want to be part of the "I'll fuck you but I'm not serious about a relationship" game, even just in the context of casual dating.

The question I always tried to ask in the initial stages of getting to know someone was: if they were skinny instead of fat, so that raw sexual attraction wasn't on the table, would I still find them compatible enough to be romantically interesting? Sometimes, if I was being honest with myself, the answer was no.

This actually made the social stuff a lot easier in the long run. I'm open about being into fat women, but when I finally met my wife, she was such a good fit for me in terms of education, interests and personality that even casual acquaintances who didn't know this could see "yeah, it totally makes sense why the two of them would be a couple," without her weight even entering into the equation.

No marriage is perfect, we fight more than I wish we did about the usual shit couples fight about (money, politics, sex stuff unrelated to her fatness), but that baseline level of compatibility and trust is strong enough that I have faith in our ability to overcome our differences and keep our marriage solid. I'm confident that if she ever did have to lose weight, our marriage would still survive, for the same reason it has survived other tough times.

All that said, if the "before" pic is what your actual gf is built like, you need to chill out a bit because she's not even that big.

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>>7906
#DeflationSagPride
>>7908
this was some good insight.

"The question I always tried to ask in the initial stages of getting to know someone was: if they were skinny instead of fat, so that raw sexual attraction wasn't on the table, would I still find them compatible enough to be romantically interesting?"

what you put in quotations if what I should be asking myself when thinking about settling down.


This might be an asshole response but I feel like I need to ask it.

I've spent from age 15 to my mid 20's basically avoiding sexual interactions with bbw/chubby women (with the exception of sex with one girl, a kiss from another, and sexting one) because of what what my friends, family, and society might react to it. I'm in my late 20's now and i'm unapologetically pursuing the women I prefer(bbw/cubby) women.

If she slims down a bit to get healthy, cool? being completely skinny? idk about that.
I would definitely feel some kind of way...

I know myself very well, so i'll probably stay but we might have to work something out.
Respectfully, I would ask for a "cheat pass" in the marriage.

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What's your race and what race of woman are you sexually attracted to the most? Anonymous 06/13/2019 (Thu) 00:05:45 Id:8d47c0 No. 7845 [Reply]
i'll start. i'm black and i'm VERY sexually attracted to white bbw's and ssbbw's. If i wasn't so insecure about what society thought about me, I would probably be in a relationship with one now
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>>7882
Me too! But they're out there haha. I did get a few, from her being Asian as well as being a bbw. But I take their critique lightly, so all is well.
>>7883

Represent.

Only negativity we got was from her mother, who wanted her to lose weight so she could get some grandkids faster...
>>7894
She basically got the same comments, but she's been big for most of her life and knows how to deal with her moms comments.
>>7879
how liberating does it feel to marry a BBW? even calling her your wife. Because at that moment it's solidified. Everyone knows you love them.
im white generally only attracted to white women
i can acknowledge when a woman of another race is "pretty" but no i dont find them attractive sexually usually and with all that being said im married to a slav

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SolitaryScribbles Grunt 06/16/2019 (Sun) 21:38:56 Id:c414ba No. 7889 [Reply]
What happened? What are the details? I only recently saw that they had deleted everything including the post as to why.
>>7889
They just said they felt burnt out on the WG scene, and that real life was taking it's toll. Nothing dramatic, just that they didn't want to keep drawing fatty stuff while they worked through some personal business.
Man, I just wonder now why they deleted everything from everywhere. Sats went MIA a while back but left up their images for people to see. Same with ShubiJubi off the top of my head.
Obvious "he"

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/bbwpol/ - Fat Chicks and Politricks Anonymous 04/08/2018 (Sun) 15:00:44 No. 3806 [Reply]
Let's start a nice comfy containment thread, shall we? If you feel the urge to derail an active content thread with discussion of politics, take a deep breath, step away from the keyboard for a minute and post it here instead.

>why are so many fat girls obnoxious SJW dangerhairs?

>is saying "obesity is unhealthy" really a civil rights violation like racism or homophobia?
>will there be a national shortage of thicc Latinas if Trump builds the wall?
>if the fascists win, will they throw all the BBWs into weight loss camps because "muh degeneracy"?
>if the communists win, will there be no more BBWs because we're all starving in a mass famine?

Discuss! Here, and not there!
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>>7840
I have a job, pay taxes, smoke weed, and live in the great state of Washington

washington has its problems to be sure, but it has pretty good healthcare services and no state income tax
>>7862
Good for you, tell everyone south of Seattle to knock it the fuck off

T. The rest of the country
>>7848
go dilate and back to reddit.
>>7840

you, uh, know that you're already subsidizing everyone's healthcare, right?

so instead of cutting out the parasitic middlemen that are health insurance companies, you want to continue to subsidize them to provide a more expensive, lower quality of care than literally anywhere else in the "developed world".

that about right?
>>7900
Arguing with Fwoomph is like arguing with a pouty racist 5 year old don’t even bother. He’s the community’s resident incel troll

Pet Peeve's thread Anonymous 05/29/2019 (Wed) 22:12:34 Id:046dfa No. 7720 [Reply]
There was a pet peeve thread awhile ago and I and I'm really curious what grinds your gears in this community again now.
Lemme start by saying:
>needing to have premium for certain videos that are literally only under a minute or even a few seconds ling on a certain website makes my blood boil.
>long time models that lose weight and all of sudden those anons feel entitled that they deserve better
>videos with models just dancing to some shit music
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A big pet peeve of mine are these feedee girls who eat themselves massive, and then wonder why the amount of people who want to date them seriously drops off a goddamn cliff. Like how hard is it to understand that a long term commitment with a super huge woman is pretty much signing up to be a caretaker at some point? Obviously nobody actually wants to do that, aside from those super fucked up people who want someone completely dependent on them.
>>7787
I don't get it beyond profitable? How much money does it take to get in front of their camera phones and move around a little? Most of the time they barely even do anything interesting with their fat, so its not like they put any effort into that either. Honestly what I would do is just make 4-5 minute long low effort videos and sell them for $5 bucks. I'd rather have a hundred dudes pay me 5 bucks than 10 of them pay me $20.
if you left the fucking TV on in the background while shooting your video, at least have the decency to say so in the description so I know not to buy it.
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>>7814

>Another one that popped into my head: The women who complain about guys not being interested in them because they constantly have emotional breakdowns
>Given how fat women are treated in society, it's only fair that they're not perfectly emotionally stable. Having no mental issues is unrealistic, but there's a huge gap between that and having meltdowns on a daily basis

This is a tough one. The American health care system is terrible at treating and supporting mental illnesses, we should all try our best to be more aware and forgiving of people who suffer from them, and fat women in particular really do get treated like shit by society in a way that can be psychologically damaging. So when people (of any size) overshare about their mental health on social media, I always try to step back and remind myself that I shouldn't assume it's just attention whoring -- it could well be that social media is their only lifeline because there are no therapists/psychiatrists in their area, or their insurance won't pay for one, or they don't have insurance. I've been there too.

BUT... I agree, there's definitely a type of girl who seems like she's constantly going through massive psychological crises EVERY SINGLE DAY and is compelled to overshare about them in inappropriate ways. Sometimes it's hard not to conclude that this is straight up attention whoring. Other times, I get the sense that it's a sort of subconscious defensive reaction, the inverted version of "I'm a goddess and all men are trash," where she's preemptively trying to drive men away out of a subconscious fear that high-quality men aren't attracted to her:

>if I'm constantly ranting about how I'm a flawless perfect goddess (YASSSSS QUEEN SLAY!) and how all men are worthless fuckbois who aren't fit to lick the lint from my asscrack, maybe the low quality men I actually attract will stop bothering me and eventually Mr. Big will come save me from my shitty life
vs
>if I'm constantly oversharing about how I'm a literal dumpster fire of human garbage who cries in her car fifteen times a day because she doesn't deserve to be loved, maybe the low quality men I actually attract will stop bothering me and eventually Mr. Big will come save me from my shitty life

In many cases, of course, the line between these two alignments is actually very thin (see also: every newsfeed regular on Feabie.)

At this point it's an established fact in demographic psychology that increased social media use correlates positively with depression and anxiety. Obviously, there are complex causation questions here -- does spending more time on social media make people depressed, or are already depressed people more likely to self-medicate with the dopamine hits from social media? Probably it's a little of both. But it's sad to see people using a fetish site to try and address issues that clearly require the intervention of a professional therapist.

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>>7896
>BUT... I agree, there's definitely a type of girl who seems like she's constantly going through massive psychological crises EVERY SINGLE DAY and is compelled to overshare about them in inappropriate ways. Sometimes it's hard not to conclude that this is straight up attention whoring. Other times, I get the sense that it's a sort of subconscious defensive reaction, the inverted version of "I'm a goddess and all men are trash," where she's preemptively trying to drive men away out of a subconscious fear that high-quality men aren't attracted to her

This is basically the kind of girl I'm talking about. I was definitely thinking of the Feabie newsfeed when I made that post. It's one thing to occasionally have emotional issues, but another entirely to have them completely dominate your life.

>At this point it's an established fact in demographic psychology that increased social media use correlates positively with depression and anxiety. Obviously, there are complex causation questions here -- does spending more time on social media make people depressed, or are already depressed people more likely to self-medicate with the dopamine hits from social media? Probably it's a little of both. But it's sad to see people using a fetish site to try and address issues that clearly require the intervention of a professional therapist.

Honestly, I'd imagine it's mostly the latter reason. Social media vastly expands the pool of people you can communicate with, making it more likely for the super emotionally unstable types to find people they can actually communicate with, if that makes any sense. Plus, there is that dopamine factor. A lot of the optimism seen on sites such as Feabie seem to be extremely fragile, and can go down the tank as soon as the breeze blows the wrong way. I honestly feel like social media echo chambers make people more fragile in general in the long term, not too far off from not trying to put pressure on a broken leg eventually to aid in recovery.

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Fantasyfeeder Anonymous 06/12/2019 (Wed) 23:52:08 Id:60d818 No. 7844 [Reply]
Unless i'm being retarded... why the fuck can't you filter photos by gender on Fantasyfeeder anymore?
You still can, go to search and set the gender to female.
>>7844
They just designed an extra step into the process.

Because it's FF, they apparently can't help but "upgrade" the site every few months by implementing the most nonsensical things in the world, then decreasing the view limit on messages/pics/everything on the site.

For real though, the way they implemented this new system is horseshit, and they basically broke the site for a few days- there's been several forum posts where people have said their profile is effectively shadow-banned, despite them not doing anything wrong, because the sites HTML is broken as hell.

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Anonymous 05/21/2019 (Tue) 00:12:18 Id:ecad8a No. 7596 [Reply]
Lilith the Cenobite.
Sharing is caring
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So beat on the street is that she has a terminal illness, so she's trying to get as fat as possible before she pops her clogs. Any clue on what the disease is? Hepatitis or full-blown AIDS?
>>7646
She claimed that she died "multiple times" before and she threatened once to cut off all her fat with a saw in front of a hospital even though she once wanted to be literally the fattest woman ever.

Maybe AIDS would help her make up her mind lol
>>7646
https://meaww.com/lilith-cenobite-feedee-model-wants-world-heaviest-woman-terminal-diagnosis

I was thinking her terminal illness might have just been one of her lies to illicit sympathy, but this article makes it sound legitimate. I can't imagine someone without a medical education could just make something like that up. Who knows.
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>>7652
>She claimed that she died "multiple times" before and she threatened once to cut off all her fat with a saw in front of a hospital even though
So she's batshit insane then? Would fit the horn pic to a tee.

>she once wanted to be literally the fattest woman ever.
She still wants that right?

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2.2 Upgrade LtBarclay##FuufeZ 05/27/2019 (Mon) 10:10:11 Id:760ced No. 7692 [Reply]
Alright, we're on the latest front-end and backend for Lynxchan. Sorry about the downtime, a bunch of other supporting software also required upgrades.

This is still a work in progress and you may see errors and reboots, etc etc. I just wanted to get the site back up so no one would freak out. We're not finished customizing and fixing yet.

I'll try and document the changes:
Last 50 posts was removed, however, it will still how a link on old posts. I can cludge it back in, but it's coming native in 2.3 so...
Webm support on mobile has been improved
Threads now auto-archive and get saved when/if they get to 600 replies
Better mobile look when in-thread

Etc etc. You can post any feedback, comments, or bugs here.
Edited last time by admin on 05/27/2019 (Mon) 10:11:19.
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>>7808
Google base 64
>>7694
This should be fixed.
>>7696
This might have been when we forgot to clear the cache, is that still happening?
>>7697
It's been entirely removed, but will come back with lynxchan 2.3. The version of that we had was old and buggy. As for highlighting the posts made by that id, did we have that on 2.2? I feel like we didn't...
>>7699
Still working on themes, we'll get there.
>>7700
There is no mirror, but there's the official discord in our links section.
>>7703
Fixed.
>>7708
The dev's replacement for expand all images was the gallery mode. Once in thread, click the little camera at the top. Then you can flick through expanded images with the left / right arrow keys. Not the same, I know.
>>7768
Still working on mobile useability.
>>7775

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What happened to the thumbnail view for mobile client when looking at bbw-real
I've found that the catalog view is easy to access without it's icon

You just add /catalog.html to the end of the URL

Eg Https://bbw-chan.nl/bbw/catalog.html
Looks like it's been fixed already thanks

old archive Anonymous 05/22/2019 (Wed) 07:21:51 Id:82e2aa No. 7594 [Reply]
I was looking for some old videos/pics/gifs/web.ms from the previous bbwchan but internet wayback machine does not have them archived. Is there anyway to see them or is my hope lost?
Unfortunately, unless someone comes out of the woodwork with a site rip, that's not going to happen. I think the problem was, the old site was SO BROKEN for SO LONG, that by the time anyone was really thinking "hey maybe we should download this in case it dies" there wasn't anything worth anything left to save. People continued to the use the old site as best they could even though it was barely usable, so you'd just be saving a bunch of threads with broken pictures and links.
>>7657
Darn. That's a lot of content gone.
Thanks anyway boss.

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