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Anonymous 04/18/2018 (Wed) 14:25:42 No. 3998 [Reply]
User was banned for this post?
I feel like we are not getting the full story here. What was the context of the post? What was said with it? Was it relevant to the thread or was off base and a jab at the overall quality of the thread?

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Dancing Solar BBW Bobble head Anonymous 04/15/2018 (Sun) 19:10:46 No. 3962 [Reply]
Eh, every one in the community should have one of these. These are like those solar dancing bobble heads - they are usually hula dancing girls. But these are BBWs holding burger and fries!
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you can even get a "yuuuuuge" Trump one.

Circulation while Sitting Anonymous 04/07/2018 (Sat) 14:24:25 No. 3794 [Reply]
Sup! This is more a question for the BBWs/BHMs here. I'm married to a BBW and she's talking about wanting to diet because when she sits down, her stomach sitting on her legs cuts off her circulation in her legs. If she really needs to, all power to her, but does anyone have any tips other than weight loss to help with the problem?

Pic semi-related but obv not her.
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>>3810
no, that's a different kind of circulation problem.
stick to the topic. ;-)
>>3794
This is concerning…but hot.
If she's that big I wouldve thought her legs would naturally spread so the belly can hang down between them. Tell her to sit with her legs apart to an open stance while sitting, and her belly should only go against her inner thighs instead of covering her whole lap.

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Anonymous 04/10/2018 (Tue) 16:15:46 No. 3852 [Reply]
What are the pixiv tags you guys use the most to scavenge for good art?

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What if PrinceSpoopyCakes quit? Anonymous 04/05/2018 (Thu) 19:59:01 No. 3768 [Reply]
What would y'all on this site think if this legendary manz quit drawing?
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>>3797
and? <v<a

>>3801
Ya gonna deny that the people here are fuckbois?
>>3802
why do you do it
>>3821
A lotta times i think like, tonality can be misunderstood through text~
I slap them in to help kinda what i wanna convey <v<
>>3828
This is a Chan, that's the job of reaction images.
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>>3832
Ooo, well I've never really ever replied to a chan board before~
How's this?

Seeking wise advice Anonymous 03/02/2018 (Fri) 04:01:04 No. 3316 [Reply]
I am in a bit of a conundrum and wanted to see if anyone out there has any advice or insight on this. I am currently dating a girl that I have been on and off with for almost 3 years. She has everything you would possibly want from a life partner. She is loving, selfless, deep, understanding, openminded–I could go on and on. The issue for me is the mere fact that she is thin. Very thin– about 110 pounds to be exact. The source of my pain and confusion is obviously the fact that I have a predilection toward larger women. I care for this girl immensely and we align on so many levels but I feel guilty having to focus on other things that turn me on when we are intimate. I feel like I am living a lie. Another issue I have is that I am very active and extremely health conscious and always wanted to be with someone who shares these ideals. This girl I am dating fits this to a T and unfortunately these health conscious ideals (generally) don't seem to fit larger women (from my experience). This makes things just more confusing because most aspects of my life make sense with my current partner. Part of me feels very shallow about feeling the way I feel because I am focusing on the physical aspect of attraction which is ephemeral by nature. But I'm am 25 and I also can't bare the thought of never actually being physically attracted to someone I am with for the rest of my life. I'd be fighting my biology which seems like an uphill battle. I'll sum this up, a wise part of me knows that physical beauty and that initial attraction inevitibaly fades over time and that you must be in love with the persons soul but with this knowledge I still can't seem to see past the fact that I am not attracted to her body and do not look forward to sex. It's taking a toll on me emotionally and she has noticed. Has anyone gone through something like this? Any advice?
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I met a girl like this on okcupid a while back. She was a bit over 170, not the skinniest girl in the world. Nevertheless this very conventionally beautiful, California blonde became my girlfriend.

Wanted to fuck on the 3rd date, couldnt get there and blamed coming from a long term relationship and not being used to condoms.

Just purely didn't look forward to sex w her. Her legs were very curvy and there was a little visible belly outline when she'd wear her little black dresses.

She'd scream 'fuck me like you mean it', when we would be doing it. And our weekends needed Cialis for the support.

It didnt last long, I ended up putting up a revolving craigslist ad, and an email search alert. The ad was a few lines complaining about what I'd gone through and stating that the woman I really wanted was supersized. Since then, I've met quite a few. Looks like my sweet spot is 5'6" and about 325.
There has been a lot of good advice on this thread, but I want to add.

Do you know why she works out? Is she trying to stay at the weight she is or does she enjoy it for what it is?

What is her relationship with food? Does she only eat really healthy stuff, and "cheat" with fatty/sweet foods, or does she gorge on fats/sweets? Or anything in between or something different.

What does she do if you want to treat her with something like going out for ice cream, eating cookies/cake/donuts, etc? Does she enjoy it or do you think she is thinking about how to get to the gym to work the calories off?

Does she get compliments about how skinny she is? Does she seem receptive to them?

If you are as invested as you are I think it is worth the time to probe her out and see if she would be willing to gain some weight. She can get to 200 I would say and still easily be healthy and still work out.

She may be conforming to what society considers attractive or maybe there are/have been pressures from family/friends to stay skinny.

I don't think you should just come at her and tell her you want her to be fat. Take your time.

Ultimately if you feel her out and she seems receptive to weight gain and you are honest about what your physical preferences are I think it would be worth a try.

Otherwise you either need to accept her as she is or move on. To be fair to her and yourself.

It's tough at least for me because I think that having physical preferences can seem selfish in a way, but hey, we like what we like.
in the tech industry we'd say "you got a lot of runway there"
Just pitching in here: what worries me in your post is that you really want a girl who is both fat - and perhaps more than just hefty, maybe outright obese, if you're on this site - who is also healthy, active, into exercising, etc. Now I know that that combination can exist, but the fact is it's pretty rare, and even more rare would be a signficantly overweight woman who can keep up with a man who, like you, is very fit and active. Thinking about the whole picture, my humble advice would be

1. Yes, tell her about your preference. Do NOT under any circumstances frame it in terms of wanting her to be fatter or to make her fatter. It will probably be shocking enough to her to hear that you prefer BBWs without making it more threatening.

2. If I'm right that, setting this girl aside for the moment, you want two fairly incompatible things - a highly active lifestyle you can shared, and a (SS)BBW - I think it's worth remembering that nearly the entire time you spend with your partner you are NOT having sex. You could ask yourself, what will make me happier: sharing my active lifestyle with my partner? Or not doing that, but having great sex? Maybe this way of framing the issue can help you to choose.

It's a pity the OP isn't looking at this thread but I'll throw my response in in anycase.

Seriously, a 110lb girl who is intensively working out isn't likely to to succumb to your desires by gaining weight. If you're on and off regularly I'd suggest staying off and remaining on good terms. Don't under estimate how good an ex relationship where you've split with dignity and there is mutual respect there. It does exist.I thought I was there with an ex, but I always had dated very large breasted girls previously, and whilst she was slightly hourglassed and maybe 160lb she always wanted to diet, honeymoon period over we practically became housemates who went out together socially.

It was about then I started looking at fat bigger girls online and realised how much I actually liked much bigger girls. Not looked back since.

Don't feel shallow about an attraction, if you think you like a bigger girl, go date one. As others have said, you don't have to do everything together, and an active 300lb girl is able to do a lot if she is so inclined, a 250lb girl more so.

My partner was much heavier when I first got together with her, she realised how inactive she was and lost some weight. She's hit a plateau and wants to be the same physical level of fitness and doesn't mention about being bothered she's at 250. It's a compromise you kind of make in your head. I would prefer her fatter, but she's happy where she is, will never be that slim and we work well together.

Go date some bigger girls, you'll find someone. Split with your present girl and she'll probably be a great friend, and she'll rib you and have a sly private joke with you when she realises you like big girls.

As Heather's website used to say, fat is where it's at.

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So Craigslist Personals is down... Anonymous 03/26/2018 (Mon) 04:25:19 No. 3671 [Reply]
Does anyone know of any other site where bbws and ssbbws could be found for some fun? Not really looking for hookers, just a night of fun.
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>>3707
There are plenty of ways to not come across as a creep for specifying your fetish on a fetish website dude.
>>3707
Yeah what I found was that a lot of messages came in just because of the groups I was a member of–people will scan your profile and not pay as much attention to your "fetishes" as your groups list. Join what interests you and look up whatever other things are sexually interesting to you, it's much more likely you'll find someone who's interested in the same things.
So, it has come to my attention FetLife is basically face book.
Would anyone mind sharing some tips of how to meet new people? Besides the obvious taking part in boards and that sort of jazz.
Feabie?

Tinder is almost 100% useless to me. I have a wide age range and distance but it seems like I keep getting skinny nurses.

A busty fat girl here and there but nothing really enough to super-like. I guess I could pay to see who likes me but I'm just not that motivated or wanting to spend the money.
When I was single, Tinder and CL were pretty successful for me in a reasonably sized midwest small city.

Most of the women I met on CL were either married or attached so I assume they won't be migrating to Tinder. Tinder is weird in that there are women looking for relationships and women looking for just hookups but none of them looking for a hookup or something casual are ever explicit about it so you have to ask the right questions.

OKCupid was good for casual dating for me a couple years ago. I'm not sure how that site is doing now. I know they have a casual option in their "looking for" section of profiles.

But as far as a straight up CL alternative, I would have no idea.

Excessive censorhip on Curvage Anonymous 03/20/2018 (Tue) 16:54:03 No. 3609 [Reply]
Has anyone else noticed that Curvage censors almost every other site related to it, and deletes most threads critical of it?

I don't know about you guys but this makes Curvage look pretty scummy.

The only reason I noticed was because I made a thread asking why Curvage continues to advertise their dead sister site CurvyCatch when there is tons of profile dick pics on there that are months old and clearly hasn't been moderated since god knows when. Opening it up to the risk of being a child porn haven like what has happened to many abandoned sites with image hosting capabilities.

But they deleted the thread and banned me.

Why is Curvage ran by such shitty people? Anyone else have any stories related to Curvage being a scummy site?
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>>3673
We are in a transitional period. The two remaining mods are coming to grips with the new rule changes and we are slowly but surely getting over our old ham-fisted ways. Stick around. You might like what everything looks like on the other side.
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>>3680
>We are in a transitional period.
This chan has been a transitional period for years now.

>The two remaining mods are coming to grips with their own inferiority complex

I've seen more bans since Jess left than when she was trying to turn this place into tumblr 2.0

>Stick around. You might like what everything looks like on the other side.

I've got a fairly good idea of how things will turn out. Another comfy place ruined by sjws
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>>3684
>I've seen more bans since Jess left than when she was trying to turn this place into tumblr 2.0
Either you left right after she came into power or you can only count to potato.

Correct on the other two though.
>>3689
Snitches get stitches
>>3710
Go away SuperJ, no one likes you here

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Underappreciated Models, Artists, Writers, Etc., Anonymous 03/27/2018 (Tue) 05:54:58 No. 3683 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
This is just a thread about discussion on content creators that you feel need more love. Personally, Lily is my favorite model, despite the fact that she doesn't get talked about much. She's gained so much from when she started.
I think Ruby is one of the best, you can tell she's gained a little since starting Big Cuties. I don't think she's gaining on purpose so I'm skeptical she'll make any more substantial progress, but thats ok
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>>3692
Agree with you on Ruby. She posted these tonight and she's gained way more than I'd realized. I've chatted with her briefly and seemed genuine enough.

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BBW/SSBBW escorts, callgirls, providers??? Anonymous 11/08/2017 (Wed) 06:35:34 No. 2114 [Reply]
Just curious, are we allowed to post info on BBW escorts/sex providers/call girls/etc? And if so, is anyone interested in sharing?
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>>2221
BP & CL still have their escort ads. They are just not in the "adult" or "escort" section anymore. They are posting ads in the Casual Encounters section of CL, and the Women Seeking Men section of BP. You can find lots of escorts, a few BBW escorts, and maybe one or two SSBBW escorts in those places.

There are lots of other sites out there too, but there are three that I use like skipthegames.com, nightshift.co (not .com), and escortbabylon.net. You will find a fair number of BBW escorts, but again not many SSBBW escorts.
>>2223
Craigslist is the truth anons, I've had some wild fuckin' times with CL hookups, just don't be stupid about it.
Anyone in the UK have any reports? There are some seriously hot BBW/SSBBW providers up there and I'm jealous from across the pond.
Craiglist has taken down personals: https://www.craigslist.org/about/FOSTA
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>>3652
Yep, and it's not just Craigslist either. My understanding is that any website that hosts personal ads for consensual sex can be charged with prostitution, human trafficking, etc.

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