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Plus-Sized Gatherings TheNamelessLoser 04/23/2019 (Tue) 17:48:55 Id:aec8a5 No. 7282 [Reply]
Thread for sharing stories, asking questions, and having discussions about Plus-sized Social Events.
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>>7762

Good question, I've been off the market for a while now so I'm no longer a regular. Living Large Chicago seems pretty active but beyond that I don't know. Heavenly Bodies shut down because Heather (of Big Cuties, who also ran HB) moved to the west coast.
>>7757
All the women in the club indulge gallery are pretty butters, that's a bit shit.
From what I've been told, these events are basically pointless for single people since most of the women there bring dates. Seems like the kind of thing where if you're male and showed up without a date expecting to hook up with someone there, you'd be treated as just another thirsty creep and curse yourself for being born male as you leave the building feeling even more lonely than before. In other words it doesn't sound fun.

I could be totally wrong though.
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>>7923

>From what I've been told, these events are basically pointless for single people since most of the women there bring dates. Seems like the kind of thing where if you're male and showed up without a date expecting to hook up with someone there, you'd be treated as just another thirsty creep and curse yourself for being born male as you leave the building feeling even more lonely than before. In other words it doesn't sound fun.

All I can say is that this hasn't been my experience, and that you should probably consider the source of the guy who told you this before assuming it's accurate.

A lot of people do come as couples just to catch up with their friends from the scene. And obviously, bashes aren't orgies where women will throw themselves at you just because you have a dick. If you go in thinking that, you're going to have a bad time. If you have poor social skills and actually do come across as thirsty and creepy, then women are going to pick up on that and avoid you. So if you would be standing awkwardly in the corner not talking to anybody at a normie party, going to a bash isn't going to fix that. But if this is a problem for you (not you personally >>7923, just people in general) you should already be aware of it and working on self-improvement.
I've been going to the Vegas bash for nine years in a row. (Ten coming up this summer.) And several of the Jersey bashes before Stu took them over.

They're pretty fun. Lots of attractive women and like >>7754 said, a lot are really friendly and willing to make new friends. That said, I would personally avoid going just to fuck solely. It's a bit skeezy. (Have I gotten laid at a bash? Absolutely, but I didn't go just to get my dick wet.) Bashes aren't primarily for fucking, but that doesn't mean one can't get pussy (or dick) if they want to find it.

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Would you stay or leave? Anonymous 06/19/2019 (Wed) 01:20:42 Id:c2215b No. 7904 [Reply]
Fellas, after all of the negatives comments by family and friends, rude glances from society, you ignore them and get married to your preference; the only type of woman you like. The BBW or SSBBW of your dreams.

Years later, she decides to slim down.

What would you do in this situation?

stay? leave? stay and cheat? ...etc

let me know below.
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>>7908
this was some good insight.

"The question I always tried to ask in the initial stages of getting to know someone was: if they were skinny instead of fat, so that raw sexual attraction wasn't on the table, would I still find them compatible enough to be romantically interesting?"

what you put in quotations if what I should be asking myself when thinking about settling down.


This might be an asshole response but I feel like I need to ask it.

I've spent from age 15 to my mid 20's basically avoiding sexual interactions with bbw/chubby women (with the exception of sex with one girl, a kiss from another, and sexting one) because of what what my friends, family, and society might react to it. I'm in my late 20's now and i'm unapologetically pursuing the women I prefer(bbw/cubby) women.

If she slims down a bit to get healthy, cool? being completely skinny? idk about that.
I would definitely feel some kind of way...

I know myself very well, so i'll probably stay but we might have to work something out.
Respectfully, I would ask for a "cheat pass" in the marriage.

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>>7911
>Am I not being logical? is thing an emotional a-hole response?
Aside from the cheat pass, no I don't think so. When men who aren't into BBWs marry women and they get fat, no one complains when they want them to lose weight, there's even marriage books that go on to tell women that they have to or it's fair game if the guy leaves her.

So why can't the inverse be true? You like them chubby, the woman you want will eventually know that. So long as she keeps enough so you don't lose your physical attraction, what's wrong with that? Obviously I'm not talking about SSBBW sized women, just your general fat women.

There was a recent British study too that showed that as long as a woman was getting regular exercise it would offset most, if not all of the negative effects of obesity, at least for women. So it is not like being overweight if necessarily unhealthy.
I'd stay. If I decided to commit myself to someone for life, it's because their personality clicks with mine, and them being a BBW would have just been a nice little bonus. Answer would remain the same if they decided to get muscular as well.
>>7916
>There was a recent British study too that showed that as long as a woman was getting regular exercise it would offset most, if not all of the negative effects of obesity
Cite plz?
>>7904
I'd never get married in the 1st place

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What's your race and what race of woman are you sexually attracted to the most? Anonymous 06/13/2019 (Thu) 00:05:45 Id:8d47c0 No. 7845 [Reply]
i'll start. i'm black and i'm VERY sexually attracted to white bbw's and ssbbw's. If i wasn't so insecure about what society thought about me, I would probably be in a relationship with one now
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>>7894
She basically got the same comments, but she's been big for most of her life and knows how to deal with her moms comments.
>>7879
how liberating does it feel to marry a BBW? even calling her your wife. Because at that moment it's solidified. Everyone knows you love them.
im white generally only attracted to white women
i can acknowledge when a woman of another race is "pretty" but no i dont find them attractive sexually usually and with all that being said im married to a slav
i'm black and i could se myself impregnating a hispanic bbw, easily
>>7852
Man, I love pears too bruh. Problem is they're so rare.

Pet Peeve's thread Anonymous 05/29/2019 (Wed) 22:12:34 Id:046dfa No. 7720 [Reply]
There was a pet peeve thread awhile ago and I and I'm really curious what grinds your gears in this community again now.
Lemme start by saying:
>needing to have premium for certain videos that are literally only under a minute or even a few seconds ling on a certain website makes my blood boil.
>long time models that lose weight and all of sudden those anons feel entitled that they deserve better
>videos with models just dancing to some shit music
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Not really sure where to put this so I'll just put this here. Is it just me or is the feederism (and other fetish groups) becoming increasingly extreme? Like go back to 2007 it was a lot smaller and the fattest girls were around what 250-300 lbs? Now there's not only more people but it seems like there always a push for MOAR BIG MOAR FAT. Girls who aren't even in their thirties waddling around at 500lb and growing even fatter and less mobile. While it might seem hot at first its extremely self-destructive. People's metabolisms tend to slow down when they hit the 30s and since they're already so huge it's worrying that many of them will either end up like Echo, get WLS, or end up dying.

Worst of all, people don't even seem to care about the potentional human misery as long as they get to jack off to it.
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>>7924
I'm not criticising you personally - you've made an apt observation! Funny though how it's possible for people in general to understand a destructive course of action on an individual level, but it never occurs to them ( - maybe it does to you? - ) to examine whether a course taken collectively and governed basically by the same principle, i.e. a global econimic system of ever moar growth and consumption, may lead to collective self-destruction through systemic collapse, causing human misery in biblical proportions. The other way round, feedism in a way can be seen as an exemplification of a highly non-sustainable system on a personal level. So I venture to claim that feedists are no less short-sighted than I guess 99% of humanity, who firmly believe that eternal growth on a finite planet is possible.
>>7930
I think a lot can be said about that for sure. Those two phenomena may very well be a product of behavior in the same category. Though I'd argue the behaviors differ greatly in both degree and fathomability.
Still, I, as someone infatuated with morbid bmi women, can hardly fight back against it--not unlike the person who heats and cools their entire house and drives everywhere--it's just too natural.
>>7930
>>7931

It certainly works as a metaphor, but I don't think the two are actually connected at all. "Fat chicks eating" is an extremely uncommon fetish that probably has more to do with subtle neural miswiring and/or early childhood experiences.

You could make the same interpretative leap with any other obscure niche fetish. The latex skin suit fetish? Metaphor for how humanity has replaced the natural world with an artificial plastic environment. That fetish where women in stilettos crush bugs? Metaphor for the immiseration of the global working class under capitalism. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar, sometimes a weird kink is just a weird kink.
I swear every thread just becomes the most autistic version of itself in this site

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Anonymous 06/22/2019 (Sat) 01:39:22 Id:9908ed No. 7926 [Reply]
Did tumblr finally crack down on ALL fetish content, not just porn?

Because suddenly every single bbw/feedee/weightgain/stuffing/inflation tumblr is gone. EVERY SINGLE ONE. I thought they were just shutting down porn and nudity, what the fuck?
That seems to be the case.
Softcore is still up.

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What was it like the 1st time you saw a ssbbw that made your jaw drop? The Porn Addict 06/20/2019 (Thu) 13:07:44 Id:502a24 No. 7917 [Reply]
I was 16 and was working as a plumber for work experience. (If your not from the UK it's when you take a week off school to experience a job your considering). I had my lunch break at subway and as I was eating my sub this gorgeous fat woman walked in. I'd estimate her to be 410-450ib region. She had a big beautiful round belly like bc Lucious's only bigger. An ass like Julie ginger. tits were average size for a ssbbw but still sexy. She was wearing a tight skirt which allowed me see her beautiful fat legs. Which imo are better legs than any ssbbw model out there. They were so sexy and fat like Juicy jackie's only smaller. I couldn't stop staring at me. She saw me doing multiple times and definitely thought i was a creep. I could get my eyes away. It was like my eyes were metal and she was a powerful magnet. 12 years later and I never met a woman like that before. If I was at leasr 2 years older I definitely would of asked her out

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2.2 Upgrade LtBarclay##FuufeZ 05/27/2019 (Mon) 10:10:11 Id:760ced No. 7692 [Reply]
Alright, we're on the latest front-end and backend for Lynxchan. Sorry about the downtime, a bunch of other supporting software also required upgrades.

This is still a work in progress and you may see errors and reboots, etc etc. I just wanted to get the site back up so no one would freak out. We're not finished customizing and fixing yet.

I'll try and document the changes:
Last 50 posts was removed, however, it will still how a link on old posts. I can cludge it back in, but it's coming native in 2.3 so...
Webm support on mobile has been improved
Threads now auto-archive and get saved when/if they get to 600 replies
Better mobile look when in-thread

Etc etc. You can post any feedback, comments, or bugs here.
Edited last time by admin on 05/27/2019 (Mon) 10:11:19.
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>>7694
This should be fixed.
>>7696
This might have been when we forgot to clear the cache, is that still happening?
>>7697
It's been entirely removed, but will come back with lynxchan 2.3. The version of that we had was old and buggy. As for highlighting the posts made by that id, did we have that on 2.2? I feel like we didn't...
>>7699
Still working on themes, we'll get there.
>>7700
There is no mirror, but there's the official discord in our links section.
>>7703
Fixed.
>>7708
The dev's replacement for expand all images was the gallery mode. Once in thread, click the little camera at the top. Then you can flick through expanded images with the left / right arrow keys. Not the same, I know.
>>7768
Still working on mobile useability.
>>7775

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What happened to the thumbnail view for mobile client when looking at bbw-real
I've found that the catalog view is easy to access without it's icon

You just add /catalog.html to the end of the URL

Eg Https://bbw-chan.nl/bbw/catalog.html
Looks like it's been fixed already thanks
ok is it just me or were all the older posts from before April on this board wiped out when the upgrade was done?

I had an old thread from December I wanted to bump and it wasn't even halfway towards getting 404'd, would suck if it's gone forever :/

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In what cities or states do you CASUALLY see skinny guys dating bbw and ssbbw women? Anonymous 06/13/2019 (Thu) 00:30:53 Id:0d3e15 No. 7846 [Reply]
just curious
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>>7846
Amsterdam
Isn't this a normal thing everywhere where you can see BBW's?
Not rare at all in my city in Norway and I never got stares when I used to date a 140+ kg girl.
>>7901
Where the heck do you find big girls like this in Norway?
I dated a girl that I met on Feabie for a while, she was 150 kilo, but she was like the exception. Stunning and smart, tall and fat, confident, everything you could dream about just not serious about relationship.
>>7912
There are some this size North
>>7887
Shit, really? Is that a good place for meeting fat girls? I thought dutch girls were all gym bunnies.

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SolitaryScribbles Grunt 06/16/2019 (Sun) 21:38:56 Id:c414ba No. 7889 [Reply]
What happened? What are the details? I only recently saw that they had deleted everything including the post as to why.
>>7889
They just said they felt burnt out on the WG scene, and that real life was taking it's toll. Nothing dramatic, just that they didn't want to keep drawing fatty stuff while they worked through some personal business.
Man, I just wonder now why they deleted everything from everywhere. Sats went MIA a while back but left up their images for people to see. Same with ShubiJubi off the top of my head.
Obvious "he"

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Fantasyfeeder Anonymous 06/12/2019 (Wed) 23:52:08 Id:60d818 No. 7844 [Reply]
Unless i'm being retarded... why the fuck can't you filter photos by gender on Fantasyfeeder anymore?
You still can, go to search and set the gender to female.
>>7844
They just designed an extra step into the process.

Because it's FF, they apparently can't help but "upgrade" the site every few months by implementing the most nonsensical things in the world, then decreasing the view limit on messages/pics/everything on the site.

For real though, the way they implemented this new system is horseshit, and they basically broke the site for a few days- there's been several forum posts where people have said their profile is effectively shadow-banned, despite them not doing anything wrong, because the sites HTML is broken as hell.

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