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Anonymous 01/31/2019 (Thu) 02:23:17 Id:68c587 No. 6638 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
Whats your perfect world?

Gotta be a fat one though since this is a BBW site...

Health issues, extremes, etc. Anonymous 01/23/2019 (Wed) 02:09:55 Id:21f7b8 No. 6546 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
How far is too far for you? Is seeing a model become immobile a turn-on or is it crossing the line?

Also, who besides Echo has reached this point?
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>>6584
What I found most interesting about the study was that the risk of early death was highest in young people
"Too far" is so subjective. Echo's not there yet for me. I think it's important to push boundaries and for women to eat as much as they can, so let's take this train as far as it can go!
It's that divide between reality and fantasy for myself. In a fantasy world, and indeed in weight gain fiction, extremes are great. It let's someone like myself enjoy things that would be impossible unless we someday invent the holodeck from Star Trek.

In reality, I'm conflicted. In terms of models and other women online, I guess it depends on if they want it. This goes back to the earlier thread here about which models seem to be genuinely into gaining and who are just faking for money. With Echo, I have some trouble being turned on because I'm not convinced she's into being that big. Heather on the other hand is more into it than her own husband, so if she becomes Echo-sized someday, it'll be a massive turn on.

For my own partner, I wouldn't ask her to specifically gain weight unless she wanted to, and even then I find that 500 lbs is kind of my reality limit because it begins to impact common things we want to do together. At the same time, she knows I'll love her whether she loses or gains weight (though gaining is more of a turn on).
>>6625
I'm not much of a caretaker so immobility would be a turn off for that reason alone

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Feeling Torn Apart Anonymous 10/21/2018 (Sun) 07:54:59 Id:76cb91 No. 5610 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
Hey everyone.

So I have what’s going to sound like a pathetic sob story, but I can’t think of any other place else to go and I don’t have anyone to talk about this with. I only wish for some legitimate advice from anyone who shares this fetish and who may be able to understand.

Let me set the stage. I’m a very introverted person in my 20’s. I’ve never had a girlfriend, and have had this fetish for as long as I can remember. Because of these things, I’m somewhat socially awkward; I can easily have conversations with people, but I’m never in circumstances where I hang out with or talk with anyone, therefore I don’t have much experience even just hanging out with friends. I both go to college and work full time, and don’t have any time for anything else. I purposely fill any potential free time I could have with my job to distract myself from the fact that I don’t have any friends and (unsurprisingly) am depressed all the time. But I feel so different from everyone else that I don’t really want to make friends.

My real issue is this: I said that my entire life I’ve been turned on by fat girls. But I get crushes on girls that are perfectly thin as well. I’m attracted to fat girls because, of course, they turn me on, while the thin girls I get ordinary crushes for. And this leaves me divided. I know that if I ever date a fat girl, it would be mostly for sexual gratification. I would really care about her, but ultimately, I would be with her because she turns me on. But I want more from a relationship than just sex. And I would always be left wondering if I actually care about this person or am with her just because of my fetish. On the other hand, if I dated a thin girl, I know that I would really care for her, but she would never be able to fully satisfy me sexually, and things would never work perfectly between us because of my fetish. Perhaps I would have a better handle on this if I had ever dated someone in the past, but I never have. In addition to this, I feel so far behind everyone else in the dating scene. For all of these reasons, I feel that I wont ever be able to fully commit to anyone or find anyone who can understand me, especially when I don’t fully understand myself. This is why I work so much and intentionally have no social life. And all of this has all nearly driven me to suicide. I feel so torn that I’ve been trying hard to just let go of the thought of ever being with someone, but I can’t.

Maybe this just sounds stupid to everyone, but I was wondering if anyone has any advice for me being like this.
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That's all very encouraging, thank you.
Notice that it’s easy to feel a ‘crush’ on a girl you’re less sexually attracted to? It’s a safety mechanism when you’re feeling less than confident. I’ve always found it hard to talk to really attractive people (which for me is fat women) because it makes me feel more vulnerable to rejection.

I’d recommend getting some practice in (perhaps through online dating?), just so the mechanics of it all doesn’t seem complicated anymore.

I agree about getting out of your comfort zone. Fake it til you make it. Fear of rejection will keep you from way more than it deserves.
Beauty is a human construct. There is no such thing as beauty. If you look at a dolphin, they all look the same. Grey, some fins, and they make clicking sounds. It would be no different from a dolphins point of view when looking at humans. We're all fundamentally the same from a top down view. That is how you need to look at it, the harder bit is finding someone mentally slcial attractive inside. This is deep, but we only occupy a tiny fraction of space and time. Our presence in this vast, vast universe is only fleeting. Nothing will matter in 100 years. All the matters is here and now and tomorrow.
honestly, i'm in the exact same boat as you are

I'm 20, and can relate word for word with what you've said. I've currently been crushing on this thin girl, but I can't help myself but browse this site and similairs every night.

I feel like I'll find a girl who would care for me, and I for her, and at one point tell her about my fetish, and work from there

I also hope this fetish can become numb or like, be done away with

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bbw dating sites Anonymous 10/15/2018 (Mon) 07:39:42 Id:a6356a No. 5562 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
I tried finding a bbw focused dating site but they were all pay sites. fuck that. any free ones out there?
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Where are you from OP?

I can call myself one of the lucky few people who found a beautiful and special woman via (ss)bbw dating sites.

She's not only really good looking (which is what everybody is here for at bbw chan), but also a truly beautiful person I want to spend all the time that I have with..

We're together for over a year now (had one short little break inbetween, due to some long distance related issues, but realized we can't go on without each other and made things work..)

If things go right I might even go a step further, at the end of next year or in 2 years maybe, and seal the deal.. If you know what I mean ;)

I could recommend you some websites if you're from Germany.

If not, good luck OP
You'll get there too :)
Which are those german sites? if youre still seeing this
>>5988
Are you me? I regularly check a few just see what's out there, and even with the max distance checked, and all my preferences relaxed, I always end up with the same two women, of one who's old enough to be my mother.
>>6585
Turns out, it was me, I just forgot I made that post.

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Anonymous 10/09/2018 (Tue) 15:56:47 Id:43229f No. 5479 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
TL;DR Good subtle food for incredibly rapid weight gain/ stuffing

There's a girl that i regularly attend class with, and over the past year and a half she has absolutely exploded with weight to the point that where even considering the difference for myself is incredibly arousing.

I'm casual friends with her and we occasionally grab lunch together which usually results in me Happily paying for a large meal for her and something for myself and while she talks i get to watch her eat her fill. This has worked for the while, but I'm now moving away in just four months and I'm looking to get in my last few "sessions" with her

Essentially, i want to see just how big she can get before i leave, i know four months isn't a lot of time, but I'm hoping i can make some kind of impact, in this sense, I'm looking for advice of foods that can be eaten in great quantity that result in the most weight gain and the best stuffing experience. Ice cream is the obvious one to me, but there's only so much of it you can eat in a sitting, so I'm looking for other things to add variety. Weight gain bars and Protein shakes would be good, but they are a hard sell to make as a casual "meet up and enjoy ourselves" food

I would just come out and tell her about my fetish and hope she's cool with it, but she's in a committed relationship and i feel like me telling her that all the time we've spent together eating I've been stroking my dick wouldn't leave the best reputation of me behind.

Any advice on the kind of shit i can buy and get her to eat and see good results?
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doughnuts
You've known her for a year and a half, she's in a relationship and you occasionally grab lunch.

But you have 4 months before you leave and want to see how fat you can make her before you go.

just eeeeeewwww dude. Stop it.
this better be RP
>>5479
> You're going online to ask how to secretly fatten someone up who's, by your description, not the closest of friends.
> She's already in a relationship.
> On top of it all, while you're hanging out with her, you're secretly BEATING YOUR DICK IN PUBLIC watching her eat and you call it your "sessions".

We're entering horror movie levels of creepy here.

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Has anyone ever had a squashing session with Kellie Kay? Postboi 01/20/2019 (Sun) 00:29:22 Id:63ae5d No. 6504 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
If so how did it go? I'm thinking of booking one.
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>>6528
Oh. I mean she's still really big though. I like a wide range of sizes anyway.
>>6529
Do you really think she's going to tell you anything else? She's in the business of selling her size and the bigger, the better, so she can't afford to admit she's not five hundred pounds anymore even if it's painfully obvious she isn't.
>>6533
She's still pretty fucking huge, weight loss or no.
>>6534
I'd generally go with bigger, though. And I don't think anyone's ever been disappointed by jae.

SSBBW memes Anonymous 08/08/2018 (Wed) 17:53:59 Id:3964ec No. 4946 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
I’ve noticed a lack of SSBBW memes, and I think there’s some untapped potential here.

Post some memes of your favorite fatties.
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>>4959
That alignment chart is so misaligned, it's shocking.
>>4959
why is sadie chaotic neutral? she's actually really nice
>>4946
Memes are meaningless without a social community.
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saw this on normie ig a few months ago

Discord server Anonymous 01/21/2019 (Mon) 02:10:45 Id:4e5fd0 No. 6530 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
Do you want me to make a discord server for sharing fatty porn if bbw-chan goes down?
>>6530
It's not going down, at least not for this month, but I would be very interested in an official BBW-Chan Discord, but I'm waiting to see Lt. Barclay's opinion on this.
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>>6530
>>6540
If the people here are already dumb and lazy enough to not care about their anonymity enough to use that malware piece of shit, they're already using it for fat shit and not to mention this sites IRC was killed and replaced by a Pisscord.
https://bbw-chan.nl/.static/links.html
>>6542

I already boomerposted in another thread about how much I hate that Reddit has replaced bulletin boards, but everything I said there applies triple to how Discord has killed IRC.
>>6542
>>6543
The only thing worse than discord is the userbase who creams themselves over it. It's bloated because it's a "application in a browser", also know as "We don't know how the fucking to program worth shit". Browsers are literally the most insecure pieces of shit software mankind has ever developed. And of course it's malware, everything that comes out of California tech these days is malware and bloated written by soyboys.

IRC on the other hand was written by people with big balls.

I don't know where I'm going with this anymore, but fuck discord.

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FoxFire486 Anonymous 12/13/2018 (Thu) 23:04:08 Id:2d9d42 No. 6027 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
So uh, what happened to this dude?Anybody know why his stuff got deleted?
>>6027
He nuked his world and went to join the others in the great beyond.
Apparently he got a designing job and nuked everything.

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Life support online LtBarclay##FuufeZ 01/20/2019 (Sun) 07:45:26 Id:c615de No. 6510 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
With the site receiving enough donations to make it through February, let's make 2019 count. Here are some polls. Let's get a consensus on how we want to move the site forward in regards to:

How many pages per board should there really be? https://www.strawpoll.me/17266580

Vichan classically did 10, which kept content very fresh but had the vulnerability of being subject to flooding and losing threads. After I took over, and after we moved to Lynxchan, I increased it to 20, for no other reason than I thought it was a good idea because Lynxchan has an early 404 option to mitigate flooding. What do you think is the ideal?

Should there be a bump limit on threads? https://www.strawpoll.me/17266599

That is to say, should mods only allow a certain amount of bumps before they take action? Should only one be allow per day? If a limit is exceeded, should the thread be bumplocked?

We maintain a fairly large list of auto-ban strings. What is a good ban-time for users who violate the prohibited links rule? https://www.strawpoll.me/17266603

At first it was 5 years, and has now been adjusted to 30 minutes. I get that sometimes someone might post something that they didn't really know was against the rules. What's the correct amount of time to auto-ban?

Are there any other things you'd like to get the site's opinion on? let me know and I'll add it to the op, and feel free to further discuss in the thread itself.
Edited last time by admin on 01/20/2019 (Sun) 07:48:01.
>>6510
Is it possible for the board to save 20 pages and display 10 pages?

The problem we have right now is that 10 pages just flat out isn't enough, sometimes some people who don't comprehend how chan's work will post a dozen new threads each with no content. Even if a moderator were to come in and delete those threads, the dozen legitimate threads on pages 9/10 would already be deleted for all time.

If there's no way to use pages 11-20 as an administrator buffer overflow protection setup... then I'm afraid we have to stick with 20 pages, unless we manage to lose 50-90% of our site visitors.



It would be cool if the anti-flooding protection and auto-ban string rules could be combined. Such that if someone posts two posts within say 5-10minutes of each other and the total combined number of characters in both posts is <=10 they get banned for a day.

I doubt such a rule is possible, but, any anti-bumping rule would IMO work best if it only punished annoying and pointless idiotic bumps. Actual discussion of the topic, even if that discussion doesn't contain images or links should be something we encourage.

Also if five different people all bump a thread, that shows interest in the topic, whereas if one guy bumps the same thread five times that shows rudeness and lack of comprehension of how chan's work.


Another rule that would work would be auto-saging. We could make it so that once a thread has had no activity in it for say what? 2 days? all new plaintext posts auto-sage. The only way to stop auto-saging all replies in the thread would be to post an image or a link.

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