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Ellie vid Ellie 03/25/2018 (Sun) 05:33:39 No. 3659 [Reply]
Does anyone have ellie videos?
Please share
I have just this
https://mab.to/CqqwaaHRe
If anny one have ellie please upload
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One That Got Away. KiloMikeSierraNineOne 11/03/2018 (Sat) 17:18:52 Id:fd9aa9 No. 5748 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
I used to be on BBWCupid alot, at the time so was ColourMeArtistry before she had her social media presence. I remember I messaged her first, she was living in Manitoba and I am living in Ontario. It went from messages to phone calls and texts to Skyping. The only problem was, I was talking to too many women at the time, I wasn't emotionally available, plus I couldn't financially afford to travel from Ontario to Manitoba. She also was having a rough time in her life, she had just been in a car accident and was not in the greatest state; I didn't know how to deal with it and things slipped away. She moved on and her career is doing awesome I can see. I could've done better, oh well.

Do you have any stories of people that got away, that you regret not holding onto?
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>>5874
You definitely made the right call. Sounds like the kind of girl that will be starting up shit on fat sites and constantly complaining about how awful men are a few years down the road.

The juice definitely isn't worth the squeeze.
>>5875
Agreed. Never stick your dick in crazy.
>>5875
>complaining about how awful men are
>The juice definitely isn't worth the squeeze.

are you beginning to understand?
>>5886
>I was going for "The amount of negative consequences that would come from the relationship makes the relationship not worth the effort"

No, I can't say I do.

Is it ok to be fat Anonymous 11/23/2018 (Fri) 21:10:01 Id:9e9060 No. 5879 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
Is it ok for fat couples aka obese one to be together then a skinny guy to be with fat/obese girl I see skinny couples to be together why not fat/obese one?
>>5879
Talk about preaching to the choir
Report to the inclusive progressive diversity course in room 4728.

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Bbws + plastic surgery Anonymous 07/07/2018 (Sat) 06:07:56 No. 4740 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
looking at some plus size models and ended up having the linked video, which looks surprisingly a lot like Sofia rose getting her double belly into a single. What are you thoughts on bbws getting plastic surgery?
YouTube link: https://youtu.be/D3jBSLknaxE
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>>4764
its stuff like this that makes me afraid to get anything done to my areas
>>5768
I know one thing and that's I'm glad I'm not married to this woman, the fact she thinks that looks good is enough to tell'ya she's three fires short of a happy meal in the head.
>>4942
>>5830
Fucking these. It's a damn shame because she was my favorite BBW model at her heaviest.
>>5830
This is the kind of thing that can only be found erotic *because* it's a total mess.

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Anonymous 09/12/2018 (Wed) 18:23:17 Id:8795e7 No. 5251 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
I'm curious as a white guy, but how do you guys deal with the heavy interracial aspect of this community? How do you feel that, as a white dude, you have much less of a shot scoring with a white BBW than a black man has?
This question isn't coming out of racism FYI, it's something I've just genuinely noticed. I've been rejected a lot of times by fat white chicks by them telling me they only fuck with black dudes. Also a majority of the good HC BBW pornsites are interracial. So I was just wondering what the overall standing of the community was like on this topic.
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>>5492

>do you see lot black guy date fat white girl

yes

>or white guy date fat black girl?

less often but occasionally
Hmmm... this in an interesting subject, in my country there's very few black people, and the ones that are rarely date white people native to my country. But I had a gf who was huge and she had previously dated an African-American who had immigrated here.
Black guy here, and honestly I think this is one of those "Self-Fulfilling Prophecies". At some point there had to be a spike in witnessing White BBWs with Black Men, which then became a low key stereotype , which then go blown up by being a joke made in every form of media, leading to more White BBWs pursuing Black men because they where told that Black Men were they only people who would pursue them. But that's just my theory.

High toxicity levels detected Anonymous 10/22/2018 (Mon) 21:28:46 Id:376b7b No. 5629 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
BBW-Chan used to be a safe haven for FAs of all kinds and tastes, but as of late, there's been a steep increase on the toxicity around here. People have become more aggressive towards stuff that shouldn't annoy or anger them that much. People lash out on rookie mistakes and call names without real need.
Without having to resort to the mods, couldn't we bring back the love and focus on what's really important, our love for the chubbies, the fatties and the tubbies alike?
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>pretending to be retarded
Well, I was (badly) pretending to be one of you fags, so yeah, you're actually right. But damn, why are you poofters taking this shit so seriously and personally? lol is this an imageboard? You guys sound more like triggered tumblrinas. Should have made a subreddit or some gay shit like that instead of a chan. But alright, I'll leave you to your obesity glorifying circlejerk.

Which reminds me
>encouraging women to get fat, knowing fully well what consequences this will bring
>health issues, diabetes, shorter life spans
>even getting off to that shit (yeah I saw the threads for that)
>basically this site is a death cult
>thinking I'm the weirdo

Somehow I believe the majority of people, but especially outside the US, would think differently. Instead of jerking it to cellulite 24/7 you guys should enter the real world from time to time, just to get a little bit of healthy perspective back.
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>>5867

this is another brilliant trolling method. go to a site that you are embarrassed about going to and pretend you are there just to troll and have no actual interest in that type of content, even though you specifically searched for it on google and knew exactly what to look for.

it's like guys who go to anime conventions just to "make fun of all the nerds", despite the fact that they paid hundreds of dollars for the hotel room and the registration fee.
>>5872
Next I bet he'll try and find spelling errors in our posts so he can say that invalidates our opinions.

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Love and Lust Question Love and Lust Question 11/05/2018 (Mon) 08:53:31 Id:d5710d No. 5762 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
I'm glad to see that in this board there's friendly users in this community! I've enjoyed the questions and answers people have posted and I think I have one that hasn't been covered yet. If it has, please link me.

To ease the discussion, I'd like to clarify two terms: Love and Lust. Love being an intense feeling of deep affection while Lust is very strong sexual desire. To elaborate, the first is non-sexual and more so geared at companionship and non-sexual attraction while the latter is completely sexually driven.

So in this scenario a man always falls in love with generally skinny/healthy weighing women. Love in the non-sexual way. He has crushes and developes deep relationships with them but it never becomes sexual. His sexual desire is in the form of obese women. The only problem is it's lust and immediately after masturbation and sex with the obese women, the man is disgusted by the obese women. It's not conceivable to form a loving relationship with the obese woman. Part of the lust to obese women involves weight gain and a theme of a beautiful thin woman gaining weight and 'disfiguring herself', thereby losing her beauty.

I believe possible causes of the disgust with obese women is that psychologically, beauty is attributed to the healthy appearance.

Now my question isn't how the man can tell the skinny/healthy women that he likes bigger women or how he can avoid the pressures of society.

How does he deal with his disgust? Has anyone ever felt the same as what was described?

Food for thought questions: Is a solution to become sexually attracted to healthy weighing women? Or would that prove more difficult then shifting the association of beauty with healthy weighing women to obese ones?

The image I attached to this thread (?) can further illustrate the scenario. The man feels an extreme non-sexual attraction (love) towards Tiffany Cappotelli but it immediately becomes sexual (lustfull) in the right and the previous non-sexual attraction (love) is gone and filled with disgust. She's lost what I would call her *girlfriend material*.

I would appreciate any answers!
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I'm not 100% sure what you're asking here, but

>Food for thought questions: Is a solution to become sexually attracted to healthy weighing women? Or would that prove more difficult then shifting the association of beauty with healthy weighing women to obese ones?

You can't "Become" sexually attracted to a specific body type. You're either attracted or attracted, and the latter can be divided into "Is open about being attracted to them" and "Is closeted about liking them"

Openness about liking a certain type of girl is certainly influenced by the standards of beauty and societal pressure in general, which is why liking fat girls is something a number of guys refuse to openly disclose.
I think I understand what you're saying. Although in my personal case, I am not really "disgusted" by fat women, but I do find myself only falling for typical slender pretty women, and only lusting after the fatties.

I think it's some kind of subconscious realization of the realities of dating fat women, all the stigma(honestly this doens't really bother me), the inevitable/already rearing their ugly head health problems(this one does.), all the way down to being depended on to do the majority of menial housework simply because they're too fat to do it properly or something like that. I know that some people are totally okay with that, and that's fine I guess.

I would rather date someone that I know I have a deep personal connection with and will be able to match my lifestyle decisions(Like not sitting around all day just stuffing their face and watching netflix.) then to be both the breadwinner and the caretaker of the household. I know I would grow to resent said person, and honestly, why would you want to support that kind of lifestyle? Just to satiate your fetish? Shits fucked up.

Wish I was gay.
I think you also need to accept that sexual attraction on some level is needed for true love. It's a difficult thing to accept for people- even in the body positivity movement- but on *a* level you need to want to bang your partner. Otherwise... well, whats keeping them from just being a great friend you're married to for tax benefits?

Any time I hear this, I just say- accept yourself. This board is FULL of people who haven't, and I don't think anyone should be like them.
>>5764
I can understand your confusion. I believe my views aren't shared by the majority. It's seems like a contradiction but I have it :/

>>5766
I have read in some psych journals that you can create neural pathways involving sexual triggers. They say it is not entirely impossible to rewrite yourself.

Referring to your later statements, I can see how standards of beauty have influenced attraction.

>>5793
It doesn't seem we're alone. Someone else posted a separate thread citing similar things. Interesting stuff on your thoughts of subconscious disgust. This seems probable to me. Some might not find it relationship material.

>>5864
Pretty good point. Maybe this is a way to deal with the disgust: acceptance. Pushing through all of it might grant acceptance.

Thanks for all the responses.

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college bbw dilemma Anonymous 10/08/2018 (Mon) 23:58:33 Id:9bfb66 No. 5471 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
So, basically i'm in college right now and I see a few potential bbw women who I would love to get to know and bring to my dorm room. The only issue is *sigh* I embarrassed to be seen with them and sign them in. Also, being that i'm in a majority white school the "skinny black guy and fat white girl" stereotype always pops up in my head. I personally have no issue with it, I just care too much about peoples opinions. How do I own this attraction and get over this?
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>>5755
>imagine being this retarded
>>5829

he's the one who said he's embarrassed because of the stereotype. fat white women are just as embarrassed to be with black guys for the same reason. and he's worried about what his friends/family will think when he's dating a fatty, and fat white women are just as worried about how their parents are going to react when tyrone comes over for dinner. just saying, the prejudice goes both ways.
>>5853
>he's the one who said he's embarrassed because of the stereotype.

Friend, there is only one way to fight a stereotype.

Like you >>5471 I used to worry about what my friend thought. And then one of my best friends got married to his ~300lb. girlfriend in the positivity community, and I learned he was open about being a chubby chaser. AND THEN I learned that a few other friends of mine- the "hot girl" troupes in the group- knew that I was, since they knew how I "looked" at bigger women.

It's far more obvious than you think. It'll take time- the heaviest gal I've been with was only around 200 at most, and I like them big- but soon you'll realize all those claims about "who you are inside" are completely true. So fuck stereotypes, get a jucy borger and a fishing reel, and pull in a few. Life is MEANT to be enjoyed, my guy.
>>5862

liking fatties is far more common than people think. these fools need to get off the computer and get out more.

and idk about other people, but i'm not friends with people who would talk shit about my girlfriend. and even if i was and one of them did that, i would beat the shit out of them and the friendship would be over. if you're worried about whether or not your friends will approve of the person you're dating, it's time to get some better friends.

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BBW Hentai Anonymous 11/01/2018 (Thu) 13:52:33 Id:c38365 No. 5732 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
Why is there no BBW Hentai?

I don't me doujin or pictures, i mean fully animated action. This isn't the case that's there's no good bbw hentai out there, i mean there's no bbw hentai out there full stop. No chubby, not even a weight gain OVA, nothing.

Why are the japs so adverse to doing anything sexual with a girl who's BMI is higher then 25? I know of hentai for just about ever other fetish under the sun yet i struggle to find even a vanilla hentai featuring a chubby girl I don't mean someone thicc, i mean having a non-flat stomach Is there some social stigma against liking big women in Japan that I'm unaware of?

If I'm wrong and there's some kind of treasure trove of incredible bbw hentai somewhere that i'm just ignorant of then by all means link me. But otherwise my question remains, why is there such a sever lack of bbw hentai, lacking everything from straight up sex to even just a chubby girl binge eating
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You have lot a chubby Japanese girls they
>>5769
okay, but i'm not asking for every hentai artist to go ahead and become a fat fetishist and produce content exclusive to my desires. I'm just asking for one or two hentai's to serve my not unheard of fetish. There's plenty of just straight up bbw porn out there, certainly jot hard to find professionally produced feature lengthy porno's staring plus sized women, yet in the hentai world this is unheard of
Unlike the crazy west, the culture of Japan still has a somewhat collectivist culture that concerns for the health of the people as an organic whole vs viewing everyone as perfectly equal and autonomous special snowflakes.

Being a fatty is not as tolerated.
>>5817
>Unlike the crazy west, the culture of Japan still has a somewhat collectivist culture

I... think you've got it, actually. Much of the world- when we aren't acting like complete dipsticks- love America for our individuality. Here, it's celebrated if you express yourself and is considered normal- whereas Japan (and some other nations) has the phrase "The nail that sticks out gets hammered down."

Also, most Hentai artists are single individuals working alone and constantly. Making a work that is specific is a monetary risk that they might not be willing to take, a fact that drives discussions in venture capitalism for hours on end.

Anonymous 10/28/2018 (Sun) 11:37:13 Id:a9b640 No. 5698 [Reply] [Last 50 Posts]
>only find chubby girls hot
>only find thin girls cute
>a chubby girl can never be cute to me
>a thin girl can never be hot to me

surely i can't be the only one?

pic unrelated
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>>5698
I feel the same way. Big girls can have cute faces too, so they still win
Chubby girl cuteness is a combination of looks and personality to me, moreso the latter. I've known plenty to be cute. On rare occasions, I'll even find skinny girls hot.

That said, I will say that I've never found the "pixie cut" cute on fat girls, whereas I like it on a lot of skinny girls.
sounds like you're just coming to understand your own physical attractions versus an aesthetic socially developed version of attractiveness.

The bottom line is that we're socialized to appreciate a certain appearance. Thing is, attraction runs deeper than just your socialization. Think of it like a gay man, who finds a pretty girl aesthetically pleasing. It doesn't do anything for him sexually, but he still enjoys looking at her.

In the same way, you appreciate a thin and conventionally attractive girl's appearance, but your biological impulses want the fatties.

It sounds a little bit like I'm talking about women like they're slabs of meat, or in some creepy reductive incel way. I promise you it's a normal thing. Aesthetics are prevalent everywhere. You're constantly making unconscious judgements and that's alright.

At the end of the day though you gotta ask yourself what you appreciate, and what actually makes you hard. And it's okay, there's room for both.
>>5698
But if french citizens are mostly of african descent it don't matter

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