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a67db No.3316[Reply]

I am in a bit of a conundrum and wanted to see if anyone out there has any advice or insight on this. I am currently dating a girl that I have been on and off with for almost 3 years. She has everything you would possibly want from a life partner. She is loving, selfless, deep, understanding, openminded–I could go on and on. The issue for me is the mere fact that she is thin. Very thin– about 110 pounds to be exact. The source of my pain and confusion is obviously the fact that I have a predilection toward larger women. I care for this girl immensely and we align on so many levels but I feel guilty having to focus on other things that turn me on when we are intimate. I feel like I am living a lie. Another issue I have is that I am very active and extremely health conscious and always wanted to be with someone who shares these ideals. This girl I am dating fits this to a T and unfortunately these health conscious ideals (generally) don't seem to fit larger women (from my experience). This makes things just more confusing because most aspects of my life make sense with my current partner. Part of me feels very shallow about feeling the way I feel because I am focusing on the physical aspect of attraction which is ephemeral by nature. But I'm am 25 and I also can't bare the thought of never actually being physically attracted to someone I am with for the rest of my life. I'd be fighting my biology which seems like an uphill battle. I'll sum this up, a wise part of me knows that physical beauty and that initial attraction inevitibaly fades over time and that you must be in love with the persons soul but with this knowledge I still can't seem to see past the fact that I am not attracted to her body and do not look forward to sex. It's taking a toll on me emotionally and she has noticed. Has anyone gone through something like this? Any advice?
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ea2fc No.3715

I met a girl like this on okcupid a while back. She was a bit over 170, not the skinniest girl in the world. Nevertheless this very conventionally beautiful, California blonde became my girlfriend.

Wanted to fuck on the 3rd date, couldnt get there and blamed coming from a long term relationship and not being used to condoms.

Just purely didn't look forward to sex w her. Her legs were very curvy and there was a little visible belly outline when she'd wear her little black dresses.

She'd scream 'fuck me like you mean it', when we would be doing it. And our weekends needed Cialis for the support.

It didnt last long, I ended up putting up a revolving craigslist ad, and an email search alert. The ad was a few lines complaining about what I'd gone through and stating that the woman I really wanted was supersized. Since then, I've met quite a few. Looks like my sweet spot is 5'6" and about 325.

cbb80 No.3720

There has been a lot of good advice on this thread, but I want to add.

Do you know why she works out? Is she trying to stay at the weight she is or does she enjoy it for what it is?

What is her relationship with food? Does she only eat really healthy stuff, and "cheat" with fatty/sweet foods, or does she gorge on fats/sweets? Or anything in between or something different.

What does she do if you want to treat her with something like going out for ice cream, eating cookies/cake/donuts, etc? Does she enjoy it or do you think she is thinking about how to get to the gym to work the calories off?

Does she get compliments about how skinny she is? Does she seem receptive to them?

If you are as invested as you are I think it is worth the time to probe her out and see if she would be willing to gain some weight. She can get to 200 I would say and still easily be healthy and still work out.

She may be conforming to what society considers attractive or maybe there are/have been pressures from family/friends to stay skinny.

I don't think you should just come at her and tell her you want her to be fat. Take your time.
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c8264 No.3729

in the tech industry we'd say "you got a lot of runway there"

3c8bf No.3758

Just pitching in here: what worries me in your post is that you really want a girl who is both fat - and perhaps more than just hefty, maybe outright obese, if you're on this site - who is also healthy, active, into exercising, etc. Now I know that that combination can exist, but the fact is it's pretty rare, and even more rare would be a signficantly overweight woman who can keep up with a man who, like you, is very fit and active. Thinking about the whole picture, my humble advice would be

1. Yes, tell her about your preference. Do NOT under any circumstances frame it in terms of wanting her to be fatter or to make her fatter. It will probably be shocking enough to her to hear that you prefer BBWs without making it more threatening.

2. If I'm right that, setting this girl aside for the moment, you want two fairly incompatible things - a highly active lifestyle you can shared, and a (SS)BBW - I think it's worth remembering that nearly the entire time you spend with your partner you are NOT having sex. You could ask yourself, what will make me happier: sharing my active lifestyle with my partner? Or not doing that, but having great sex? Maybe this way of framing the issue can help you to choose.

eeb4c No.3765


It's a pity the OP isn't looking at this thread but I'll throw my response in in anycase.

Seriously, a 110lb girl who is intensively working out isn't likely to to succumb to your desires by gaining weight. If you're on and off regularly I'd suggest staying off and remaining on good terms. Don't under estimate how good an ex relationship where you've split with dignity and there is mutual respect there. It does exist.I thought I was there with an ex, but I always had dated very large breasted girls previously, and whilst she was slightly hourglassed and maybe 160lb she always wanted to diet, honeymoon period over we practically became housemates who went out together socially.

It was about then I started looking at fat bigger girls online and realised how much I actually liked much bigger girls. Not looked back since.

Don't feel shallow about an attraction, if you think you like a bigger girl, go date one. As others have said, you don't have to do everything together, and an active 300lb girl is able to do a lot if she is so inclined, a 250lb girl more so.

My partner was much heavier when I first got together with her, she realised how inactive she was and lost some weight. She's hit a plateau and wants to be the same physical level of fitness and doesn't mention about being bothered she's at 250. It's a compromise you kind of make in your head. I would prefer her fatter, but she's happy where she is, will never be that slim and we work well together.

Go date some bigger girls, you'll find someone. Split with your present girl and she'll probably be a great friend, and she'll rib you and have a sly private joke with you when she realises you like big girls.

As Heather's website used to say, fat is where it's at.


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e18f5 No.3671[Reply]

Does anyone know of any other site where bbws and ssbbws could be found for some fun? Not really looking for hookers, just a night of fun.
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de145 No.3708

>>3707
There are plenty of ways to not come across as a creep for specifying your fetish on a fetish website dude.

78d40 No.3712

>>3707
Yeah what I found was that a lot of messages came in just because of the groups I was a member of–people will scan your profile and not pay as much attention to your "fetishes" as your groups list. Join what interests you and look up whatever other things are sexually interesting to you, it's much more likely you'll find someone who's interested in the same things.

e18f5 No.3717

So, it has come to my attention FetLife is basically face book.
Would anyone mind sharing some tips of how to meet new people? Besides the obvious taking part in boards and that sort of jazz.

f598b No.3718

Feabie?

Tinder is almost 100% useless to me. I have a wide age range and distance but it seems like I keep getting skinny nurses.

A busty fat girl here and there but nothing really enough to super-like. I guess I could pay to see who likes me but I'm just not that motivated or wanting to spend the money.

b7562 No.3736

When I was single, Tinder and CL were pretty successful for me in a reasonably sized midwest small city.

Most of the women I met on CL were either married or attached so I assume they won't be migrating to Tinder. Tinder is weird in that there are women looking for relationships and women looking for just hookups but none of them looking for a hookup or something casual are ever explicit about it so you have to ask the right questions.

OKCupid was good for casual dating for me a couple years ago. I'm not sure how that site is doing now. I know they have a casual option in their "looking for" section of profiles.

But as far as a straight up CL alternative, I would have no idea.


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dc948 No.3609[Reply]

Has anyone else noticed that Curvage censors almost every other site related to it, and deletes most threads critical of it?

I don't know about you guys but this makes Curvage look pretty scummy.

The only reason I noticed was because I made a thread asking why Curvage continues to advertise their dead sister site CurvyCatch when there is tons of profile dick pics on there that are months old and clearly hasn't been moderated since god knows when. Opening it up to the risk of being a child porn haven like what has happened to many abandoned sites with image hosting capabilities.

But they deleted the thread and banned me.

Why is Curvage ran by such shitty people? Anyone else have any stories related to Curvage being a scummy site?
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4aed5 No.3680

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>>3673
We are in a transitional period. The two remaining mods are coming to grips with the new rule changes and we are slowly but surely getting over our old ham-fisted ways. Stick around. You might like what everything looks like on the other side.

1f7f1 No.3684

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>>3680
>We are in a transitional period.
This chan has been a transitional period for years now.

>The two remaining mods are coming to grips with their own inferiority complex
I've seen more bans since Jess left than when she was trying to turn this place into tumblr 2.0

>Stick around. You might like what everything looks like on the other side.
I've got a fairly good idea of how things will turn out. Another comfy place ruined by sjws

dd683 No.3686

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>>3684
>I've seen more bans since Jess left than when she was trying to turn this place into tumblr 2.0
Either you left right after she came into power or you can only count to potato.

Correct on the other two though.

f5ebe No.3710

>>3689
Snitches get stitches

3e0c5 No.3714

>>3710
Go away SuperJ, no one likes you here


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ef6be No.3683[Reply]

This is just a thread about discussion on content creators that you feel need more love. Personally, Lily is my favorite model, despite the fact that she doesn't get talked about much. She's gained so much from when she started.

afb36 No.3692

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I think Ruby is one of the best, you can tell she's gained a little since starting Big Cuties. I don't think she's gaining on purpose so I'm skeptical she'll make any more substantial progress, but thats ok

054bf No.3693

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>>3692
Agree with you on Ruby. She posted these tonight and she's gained way more than I'd realized. I've chatted with her briefly and seemed genuine enough.


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21169 No.3659[Reply]

Does anyone have ellie videos?
Please share

21169 No.3660

I have just this
https://mab.to/CqqwaaHRe

37a6e No.3666

If anny one have ellie please upload


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81047 No.2114[Reply]

Just curious, are we allowed to post info on BBW escorts/sex providers/call girls/etc? And if so, is anyone interested in sharing?
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81047 No.2223

>>2221
BP & CL still have their escort ads. They are just not in the "adult" or "escort" section anymore. They are posting ads in the Casual Encounters section of CL, and the Women Seeking Men section of BP. You can find lots of escorts, a few BBW escorts, and maybe one or two SSBBW escorts in those places.

There are lots of other sites out there too, but there are three that I use like skipthegames.com, nightshift.co (not .com), and escortbabylon.net. You will find a fair number of BBW escorts, but again not many SSBBW escorts.

6016c No.2267

>>2223
Craigslist is the truth anons, I've had some wild fuckin' times with CL hookups, just don't be stupid about it.

bc5da No.2327

Anyone in the UK have any reports? There are some seriously hot BBW/SSBBW providers up there and I'm jealous from across the pond.

682a0 No.3652

Craiglist has taken down personals: https://www.craigslist.org/about/FOSTA

81047 No.3656

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>>3652
Yep, and it's not just Craigslist either. My understanding is that any website that hosts personal ads for consensual sex can be charged with prostitution, human trafficking, etc.


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c35df No.3367[Reply]

Lately my girlfriend, who's around 150 lbs. has gained a little weight, no more than 10 lbs, but she's unhappy with it. I told her I like big girls and that I appreciate the added thickness and expressed my interest in her gaining more. I didn't flat out tell her about feederism because I didn't want to scare her away, but frankly I really want her to feel comfortable getting fatter. what should I do to get her to give weight gain a conscious try?

e100e No.3369

It's all about being hot or cold to an idea.
Hates it <Cold<cool<indifferent>warm>Hot> Loves it
If your gf is thin and is unhappy with a 10lb gain then there is very little chance of encouraging her to gain. She's going to be resistant and resentful if you try to push her in this direction. You need to find someone already a size you're happy with or warm/hot to the idea. Stop getting so deep into these relationships with fixer upper chicks before revealing something this important.

a3baf No.3630

>>3367
keep telling her she looks sexy and buy her some skimpy outfits to boost her confidence then try to have bad influences on her diet. a month or two later she will probably put on another 10. then she will be more adjusted to being heavier. keep doing this till she is fat

d83e4 No.3631

>>3630

Have you ever tried that in real life? Unless she says she is up for gaining it ain't gonna happen.

As much as 'fixer upper chicks' could have been better worded, 1st Anon is right on the money. If you love her and you're cool with her how she is
nothing wrong with keeping the fat fantasy for your head.

Otherwise, chase and date the a woman whose size you're attracted to and to fuck with other people's opinions, they're worth shit.

If you like fat girls, date fat girls who are fine with being fat, I do.

d4058 No.3650

You've told her you like it. Now, show her. When she eats a lot and is really full, eat her out or fuck her. If she's not full, meh, you're not interested. But don't ever tell her why. She'll eventually figure it out without even knowing she is.

dfbda No.3653

You've already done all you can. You've expressed your interest clearly, and if she isn't into it, she isn't into it. How did she respond when you told her? Did she seem interested? Did she ask you more? Or did she try to nervously laugh it off? If she doesn't bring this up again on her own, then she's probably not interested, and it's up to you to decide whether you're okay with that.


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5c72d No.3623[Reply]

Anyone want to share pornhub accounts? Got some videos up and looking to get some invites and maybe get a community going.

Add me at pUmKinBoM

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55281 No.3614[Reply]

A lot of spam advertising faux kiddy porn and skinny hardcore cams popping up in BBWReal and a few other places.

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bdaa3 No.2334[Reply]

Post fetish or subfetish combos with fat/wg/expansion you'd love to see more of or just all around love. I know I hear alot about people wish there were more wg and hypnotism combos, but to add to that
>mythical humanoids/ monsterpeople
>enunciated out of shape and exhausted
>wg and weed (extra emphasis on this one)
>weight role reversal
>globalized wg
>humiliation
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ce099 No.2716

>WG and smoking cigarettes
>WG and cardiophilia (recording/sharing heartbeat)

ca2b7 No.3598

Weight gain and corruption; slob, drug use, darker sexual appetites relative to waistline

Sadistic feeders are hot too. Flipping between inflicting pain and humiliating the feedee and then luring them back in with rubs and food until their super full tummy is painful but the massive pressure would make the tummy rubs and kisses feel even better. Agony and ecstasy my dude.

a14f2 No.3605

>globalized wg

What do you mean by this?

e947c No.3606

This probably isn't entirely in the spirit of this thread, but it's close enough: Heather showed up in here a few months ago and posted about this sort of alternative to vore where a girl gains weight by absorbing other people directly into her body. Not gonna lie, I do not fuck with vore but I've fapped to this idea at least five times since then. Thanks Heather!

72eda No.3611

>>2410
>>2517

You two are after my heart, I swear.


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e6c84 No.3400[Reply][Last 50 Posts]

So, chalk that one up to trying something to appease some people that ended up backfiring. Anyway, lets talk about some issues with the site.

1. Should we re-enable captchas to prevent apocalypses like we just saw, or just call that as a provoked response to an ill-advised change that probably won't come up that much?
2. With Jess and TSG gone, I think it's time we re-evaluated the rules. It's clear that some people want moderation that includes things that other people find frustrating. What rules can be changed, what rules can be removed? What rules do you ALWAYS want mods to follow, which ones do you want lax enforcement on? Do you think each board should have it's own set of rules, with a mod who oversees it personally as their own little kingdom?
3. What does everyone think of the nullrefer service? Is it worth possibly making files.fm links last a little longer when it fucks up links to other sites like mega?
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daae7 No.3559

The reason this board get less and less posts per year is because Jess bans people like crazy. /trash/ is essentially /fat/ anyway and there is no moderation there save for for 2 rules: No CP and No spam. This is the job of a mod.

daae7 No.3560

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>>3400
>2. With Jess and TSG gone, I think it's time we re-evaluated the rules. It's clear that some people want moderation that includes things that other people find frustrating. What rules can be changed, what rules can be removed? What rules do you ALWAYS want mods to follow, which ones do you want lax enforcement on? Do you think each board should have it's own set of rules, with a mod who oversees it personally as their own little kingdom?
There need to be only 2 rules
1. No CP/shota/loli - instapermageoip ban
2. No spamming
3. Posting Robot001, Mistystuffer or Virus-20 art should be deleted on sight

This is all there is needed.

35f05 No.3582

Moderation seems harsher than it was before? Which seems like the opposite conclusion this thread made about what the users wanted.

I'm all for keeping spam and thread requests in /bbw/ down, but draw's seeing a lot of bans for just people insulting each other. It's an anonymous image board, who cares if everyone's insulting each other.

4361f No.3590

>>3560
I can understand Mistystuffer but why Robot001 or Virus-20?

>>>3582
This, because someone has a favorite artist that others seem to hate the most

f5f3b No.3601

>>3590
I can't say anything about Robot but Virus's work is utterly abysmal.

Guy has been drawing fat furries for over a decade and has NEVER improved.


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3d42e No.3323[Reply]

Has anybody got this yet and is it worth buying? I don't expect it to be greatest porno ever, but it can at least be a bit of a laugh (if nothing it would probably make a great cinema snob episode)
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bb783 No.3509

New thread idea: greatest fat porno ever

28150 No.3513

>>3509
1. Citizen Fatso
2. Fatsablanca
3. The Godfatty

37068 No.3518

>>3513
Goodfatties

99353 No.3543

Fatizen Fat

Fatzard of Fat

Fat With the Fat

Fatty Fat Fat

37068 No.3586

Reservoir Hogs


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61944 No.3563[Reply]

As I write this I'm at a bash after never going through with wanting to for years. Its a ton of wallflowers in an event poorly planned in terms of icebreakers. Free fucking booze and like 40 beautiful big girls, some seriously big, in a coulple of rooms in the middle of nowhere.

speech to text sucks so sorry for typos, I'm
also almost drunk.

TL;DR
Im at a bash, I always wondered what it was like. Weird but awesome. Some of the most beautiful chicks you'd ever see.
If you ever liked Layla or Adeline you'd like it at one of these…

Ill be here for about 48 hours.
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74a79 No.3579

>>3572

I’m a woman, and I’ve been to many bashes. Ugly does matter. Fat women still have standards and I wouldn’t let my friends talk to a sleezy creep who posts to bbw-chan.

07bc8 No.3580

>>3579

SO goddamn glad I avoided the meat markets and met a woman out in the real world. This boyz v. girlz shit is for the birds.

7a0bf No.3581

>>3579

do you have a boyfriend

f618b No.3583

>>3579
You sound like a real peach

d31fc No.3585

>>3579
..yet here you are..?


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97a3f No.3080[Reply]

Big fat SBBWS are beautiful but there are some models that tbh got uglier once they got fatter, which bbws do you think got uglier as they gained? for me the main one is Big Beccabae, britt also a strong contender.
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00846 No.3546

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>>3545
I find her a lot more unattractive now yet, I still consider her BAE and want more of her recent content, too :(

> Literal perfection in pic related
> Fantasize about the timeline where she still got fat as fuck but stuck to her Pearchan look.
> Current timeline
> nightmare_goggles.jpg

96873 No.3549

>>3541
But he just said that he isn't that.

418d7 No.3561

oh the hair is gonna grow back eventually

also if you're gonna fuck around with fat women you might as well fuck around with butch fat women sometimes, what's the difference

7178d No.3571

>>3561
One looks like a woman, and the other looks like >>3545 .

418d7 No.3577

it's your mind that associates long hair with femininity, not reality


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d804b No.3520[Reply]

please bring moderation back. or double the number of threads that can exist before being deleted. we're getting a ton of low quality threads.
this wouldn't matter normally. I could click hide. However these low quality threads are spamming high quality threads into being rapidly deleted.

that said I've been temp-banned before, and I'd gladly be re-banned in exchange for having this lawless nonsense end :(

100d3 No.3533

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Working on it, no ban necessary. A lot of these fall into the 'spam' category. Please report it if you see it.


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