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Feedback from the survey responses here: >>>gen/8273

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Survey feedback and responses. LtBarclay##FuufeZ 07/13/2019 (Sat) 10:33:20 Id:91d636 No. 8273 [Reply]
Gonna break this up into a few posts. First, direct response to the actual survey questions.

Ads: Most people are fine with them or have never seen them due to an adblocker. Interestingly, 40% of respondents use an adblocker which is really unforunate. We have a single banner ad on the homepage, the tops of boards, and when in-thread. Now, I've only spoken to my mods about the ads since I introduced them, but here's the deal. They actually do pay for the site. Bitcoin has been absolutely wild lately but the payments from a-ads are fairly regular and even with 40% of people blocking them, they can still pay the bills which is fantastic.

Do you think it's worth adding a script that pops up a message for people who use an adblocker to please turn it off for BBW-Chan, or does the average adblock user just leave it on, 100%, no matter what (I generally do) and it's not even worth trying to change their mind? We could do a lot with that extra 40%, but considering how precarious the site's livelihood is already, I'm hesitant to disrupt the status quo any more than I -have- to.

Bump Lock/Auto archive settings: This one surprised me a bit. About half of you are completely fine with the way it is... that is... threads easily last for 6 months to sometimes a year+ and hardly ever get automatically perma-saved via the archive. The other half of you would like to see changes, and it's pretty even between those who want a fast moving-board, those who want a medium pace board, and those who want something just a hair quicker than what we have no, but not much. While combined the 'I wanted changes' group outweighs 'it's fine' group, because there was no definitive alternative choice, I think it's safe to say we won't be changing these settings, unless it starts to come up again.

Rating lynxchan as a whole: Yea this seems about accurate. Slightly above average and that's probably due mostly in part to the speed (which is way faster than our vichan setup ever was / could be), but clearly there's alot of work to be done. What I'm going to do is try to get the current front-end on a repository that any tech-minded anons can view and request changes to. More on that later.

Link to storefront on new requests rule: Again, basically cut right down the middle, half of you think it's a fine idea, half of you think it wouldn't matter or is a bad idea. With that in mind, what I might do is just edit posts myself to include the storefront (with a link anonymizer like was suggested) if I feel like it's warranted, but not make it a rule.

The array: awww this made me sad. A full third of respondents don't even know what the array is/was which means is it basically falling out of the group consciousness. There was a time from 2015-2017 that it was regarded as a staple of the site, uploading over 1000 videos a day from multiple models and I viewed it as the pulse of the site. Whelp, if I take the 'go for it' plus the 'switch it up' responses together, that's almost 50%. So perhaps I will try to come up with something similar but different.
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The other stuff:
>Id like to apply for a mod position my email is xxxxxxx
You used a gmail address, which we can't reply to because hotmail/gmail have blocked our subnet.
>As for the array, I'd like to see it come back temporarily at random times. Sort of like how Empornium has unannounced "free-leech" days. That way some lost content is reintroduced back into our ecosystem and you're not continually getting fucked in the ass by the constant, massive bandwidth usage.
So, this would have worked in my previous residence where I had 300mb/down 50mb/up and could run the array's software from my own house on VPN whenever I wanted. That's about the only way to run it randomly, because there are no (that I know) hosting providers that literally let you pay by the days you're actually using something. They all take monthly payments. With my current pitiful internet, the entire array would need to be converted to h265 and even then, eh idk. If I ran it myself, I'd probably have to set the filesize limit wayyyyy low. Like 200mb or less.
>Not sure about what software powered the array, but there might be better options.
Yea, currently, I'm entertaining the idea of a streaming service that can be influenced in what it shows and what it provides for download via the chat. Basically something like a 24/7 stream of curated content (with the model's site clearly overlayed), but the bot could be micro-tipped with crypto to have basic control of the stream for a limited time, or cause it to auotmatically upload it's currently playing video for the next 2-4 hours, something like that. It would take a bit of programming, but honestly I miss coding and it would be fun to try to work it out.
>I feel like at this point if someone doesn't know how to decode a Base64 file then it's a bit fishy. Seems to be normies trying to find out how we're sharing the files and potentially looking at ways to stop them. Could be me being paranoid but yeah maybe try to stop people from helping these retards?
Alright I want to end this here and now: base64 is just a deterrant. It's NOT a lock and key. Everyone's new at some point, not everyone will catch the sticky guiding them to base64decode.org. It's no use trying to keep newbs from learning or old heads from trying to teach them. What I WILL do is make the line about base64 on the sticky BRIGHT ASS RED, so maybe we have fewer people asking about it.
>It would be great if the site had a seperate database that could run bbw related ads with links to models sites. Somthing similar to stufferdb but without the content and just links to bbw content that's verified by other users.
Ehhh, idk about that. Wouldn't that just be a blog at that point? A few other people have wanted to start something similar but I just don't see the draw.
>Love to see timestamps and last 50 replies come back.
Timestamps are only hidden on vertical mobile, but I've seen enough people asking for it back that I'll adjust it. Last 50 will come back on lynxchan 2.3.
>A very useful feature would be to link a 'search by image' for the 'who is she' threads images;As for the mobile version of the site it's got some bugs like the reply menu not being entirely visible in smaller screens
I'll look into putting in a tineye or sauce search, that's a good idea. As for the mobile version, I haven't had a ton of time to work on the UI but hopefull once I get the repository up we can move forward with it
>Sometimes images don't expand when clicked
Yea I've seen that, definitely a bug, I'll make the dev aware.
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The praise:
>As a long time lurker, I just want to let you know that i appreciate all you do for the board and its continued existence. BBW-chan is still a regular visit for me, despite the ups and downs of the last six or so months. Either way, your dedication and perseverance for the cause is laudable, and I just wanted to let you know you are appreciated, Barclay. The Emperor Protects.
*BROFIST*
>You're doing an absolutely amazing job keeping the chan going. OK, so back to lurking now, just wanted to say that!
If you do everything right, they won't know you've done anything at all.
>array was dank af
Thanks man, I thought so too.
>Keep up the good work! / Thank you for all you do LTBarclay!
Thanks, I really do try to do what I can.
>This site is awesome, thank you for all you do for the bbw fans out here
There are dozens of us, DOZENS!
>you're an amazing admin
Only in death does duty end.
>Thanks for your work and efforts keeping this board alive so that us damn degenerates can indulge in our deviant fantasies.
It's not deviant baby, it's 2019: fat is mainstream!
Hey man, I also appreciate the shit you drag yourself through to keep this place trucking. Also glad to see some of the server cost situation sorted at the moment.

I'm finding myself going through /gen more often than not and enjoying the community (except for the odd moron here and there - which is to be expected). Also it's cool to up videos (unique names) and then see them uploaded elsewhere for others to have as their own. It's a good place for sure.
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Thanks as always for your hard work, Lieutenant. You run a damn good imageboard.

(I don't have any good Trek or 40k memes, so have this panel of 1950s Batman and Batwoman trippin' balls instead.)

>>8729

I'm really happy with the quality of discussion in /gen/ right now. It's a slow-moving and small enough board that we can have real ongoing discussions, and the userbase is pretty good at self-policing and ignoring obvious bait. We have a couple of /pol/acks who try to hijack discussions, and a couple of SJWs who take the bait and get indignant that the rest of us aren't as upset by this as they are, but the majority of regulars here are good at self-policing and ignoring off-topic derails outside of the /bbwpol/ thread.
>>8273
> ads
I would definitely put a small request to disable adblock, in something like the same place the ads would go. It is kinda easy to leave it on all the time, and if a website asks me to turn it off I usually give it a try to see how intrusive their ads are. A reminder couldn't hurt -- but don't make it too in-your-face.

> archive settings
I answered this and honestly I barely even understood wtf it was asking. I never go digging past posts, though. I suspect most people who answered "it's fine" don't either.

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AXELROSERED Anonymous 07/17/2019 (Wed) 18:26:33 Id:838e3a No. 8316 [Reply]
well its here folks...feel free to bring the rage over 2019s CattyN...
To be honest with ya'll, axel's might be the gateway that got me into the fat/inflation art world of DA but damn, he is scummy.
>>8317
Same here man...
Well, let's get an archive of links, images, screencaps, etc., that might concern PayPal or Patreon enough to do something about their practices.

Asian chubby model Holmegolud 07/16/2019 (Tue) 08:46:15 Id:075c94 No. 8310 [Reply]
Some of you might be aware that I have a youtube channel, to share Asian BBWs videos from Kuai.
This platform restricts the posters' video length to a max of 1 minute
One of these girls contacted me, she wants to sell some of her videos (tight clothes, belly stuffing, feeding, etc).
What would be the simplest ways to help her?
Here are a few tips I'd give to anyone wanting to make money in this fetish:

1. Start gaining weight. Document your gain on Youtube. Post videos of yourself eating, trying on outgrown clothes, rubbing your belly, and talking about how much you enjoy getting fatter. Post weekly weigh-ins and measurements to show off your progress.

2. Once you've gained 10+ lbs, start a thread on Curvage and post your "before" photos and links to your Youtube videos there. Respond to fans and stay active on the forums. Guys get turned off if they think you're just using Youtube and Curvage as a platform to make money, so it's very important to make it seem like you are just gaining for personal reasons, because you want to get fat/more curvy.

For this reason, it's best if you don't immediately start selling videos on Curvage. Give the guys time to get to know you - otherwise they are going to think you joined just to make money. Your fans will encourage you to start a Patreon and/or become a Curvage model. Make it seem like it was their idea, and that you had no intention to become a model but are doing it because that is what your fans want.

3. Don't ever ask for donations or make it seem like you're doing this for the money. This is a HUGE turn off for most guys, and they will be less inclined to fund your gain if you seem too greedy. There are so few thin women who are willing to go from thin to fat that your name will be widely known throughout the feedist community without your even trying. No advertising is needed.

4. Once you've gained to the point where you look adequately chubby, start a Patreon. At this point you should only use Youtube to post short previews of your Patreon videos. It's a turn off if they think you're just using YT to advertise your paid content though, so don't add a link to your Patreon in the description. You can add a link to your Patreon in the "About" section, but don't post it in your video descriptions.

5. Never let any of your non-paying fans know your current weight or measurements. They will feel compelled to donate just to find out how much you've gained every week. The same goes for outgrown clothing, stuffing and fat chat videos. Those are going to be your main money makers. It's fine to post these types of videos on YT and in your Curvage thread in the beginning of your gain, but once you're chubby, save them for Patreon and/or your paid Curvage content.

6. It is very important that you make your customers think their money is getting spent on food and new clothes. Make stuffing vids from time to time so guys will think you're spending all their money on food. Your goal is to make it seem like you have an insatiable appetite and are constantly stuffing yourself. As long as you make it seem like you're constantly starving and can't get enough, guys will literally beg you to take their money and spend it on food. Feeders want to feel like they are personally responsible for making a girl fat and this is the only way for them to fulfill this desire.
>>8313
Duly noted. Thanks for these precious tips

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Artist Talk Halloween Oreos 05/05/2019 (Sun) 22:06:03 Id:959507 No. 7404 [Reply]
I'm interested in the experiences of other people who have had a go at drawing BBW/weight gain art.
I always find myself pretty drained by it--like it provides a chemical rush, and afterwords leaves me feeling weirdly depleted for a couple days. My theory is that the act of drawing is like super-porn, and sort of depletes dopamine/serotonin levels or whatever.

I wonder if anyone else has experienced this and found ways of managing it. I can't manage to make more than a WIP without that mental recoil.
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>>7820
'Then I either get impatient and just wank to the 1/2 finished sketch'

I've often wondered about whether the artists who draw fat girls wank to their own content, and your remark (and those of others) seem to confirm not only that they do, but also that their primary motivation might well be allied to wanking. I love wanking to all fat girl porn, but artwork provides that fantasy element that would be difficult, if not impossible in real life. The thought of all those guys like Trinity Fate, Jaykuma, Primesui and Kurocaze fapping like maniacs to their own work is curiously arousing...
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>>7964
"If I don't have an erection when I'm doing a drawing, I know it's no good" - Tom of Finland

Granted, this guy drew buff men instead of fat women, but I'd imagine a lot of artists of different fetishes use their own arousal as a measuring method
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>>7965
>that pic
inflationfags BTFO
>>7404
I don't do the art myself.

I do primarily photoshop, whether you call that an art form is your opinion because I wouldn't call it an art form.

I do morphs and I do edit other artists works to make the art even bigger, though I thought the editing of their art was disrespectful and I stopped. I wish I could draw but I don't own a tablet, and I don't know where I'd start with drawing fat women really.

With the photoshop, it isn't draining at all and it's really fun to experiment with things. Lets say a strap is on the belly, you can dig it in more to show how much the belly presses against it. It can be fun but a long work.
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>>7965
>good at anatomy
>single waifu
>only quality moe
>developed OCs

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What's your race and what race of woman are you sexually attracted to the most? Anonymous 06/13/2019 (Thu) 00:05:45 Id:8d47c0 No. 7845 [Reply]
i'll start. i'm black and i'm VERY sexually attracted to white bbw's and ssbbw's. If i wasn't so insecure about what society thought about me, I would probably be in a relationship with one now
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I'm white. Personally, I've seen/met women of all races that I'm attracted to.

As a general rule, I tend to have a slight lean towards white women, just because my walks in life have had me meet more white women, and my brain is naturally more comfortable with the familiar. My SO is white.
White guy,

Latina
Black
White
whites only but i heard hispanics are nice

changes my mind...
I'm black. I can find beautiful specimens in most any race or nationality. I have no actual preferences.

Beyond that it gets complicated. I prefer rock to rap and I'm generally a punk/indie art nerd hippie. Most of those in my circle and on my wavelength, growing up were white. White women are my go to. They're the easiest to snag by proximity. Not a preference, just the path of least resistance.

However the saddest thing now is the development of the Snow Bunny. White chicks are pretending to be 'down'. It's not a good look. Don't like their taste in music or much else. Them I don't even want to talk to no matter how good they look. If a white girl tells me she only dates black, we're probably not gonna get along.

Asians, life's to short to search for fat ones in the US. Plenty of gorgeous small ones, and yeah, they are getting a little thicker, but I'm an old man and times' a wasting.

Hispanics. Plenty of hotness. Never dated one though. Close, but no cigar.

I really get turned on by fat Middle Eastern, Indian and Pakistani women. Big booty and my favorite cuisine all in one place.

The heaviest women (500-700 lb) I've been with were black, btw.

Style and compatibility:
White
Asian

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would find black bbw or ssbbw attractive to be in a relationship with, even if they have ugly face ?

Pet Peeve's thread Anonymous 05/29/2019 (Wed) 22:12:34 Id:046dfa No. 7720 [Reply]
There was a pet peeve thread awhile ago and I and I'm really curious what grinds your gears in this community again now.
Lemme start by saying:
>needing to have premium for certain videos that are literally only under a minute or even a few seconds ling on a certain website makes my blood boil.
>long time models that lose weight and all of sudden those anons feel entitled that they deserve better
>videos with models just dancing to some shit music
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>>8219

The decline of realistic weight gain erotica really gets me down.

These days it seems like most active writers, especially on DA, write fanfic or genre fiction. I don't keep up with anime or current video games (nothing against them, I just don't have the free time on top of work and my other hobbies), so it's hard for me to get off to stories where I don't know who the characters are supposed to be or why I should care about them. And even with original content, I'm not particularly interested in reading someone's sci-fi or fantasy or zombie apocalypse worldbuilding just to get to the weight gain parts.

And on the other hand, you have "realistic" fiction where the weight gain and sex are pushed so far into the background that you might as well be reading a mainstream romance or literary novel. After sixty chapters you've learned all about the main character and her boyfriend and their roommates and their jobs and their vacation plans, but there's been 5 pounds of weight gain and nothing actually sexy has happened. You'd think "something's gotta give," but it never does, amirite? The handful of people who still post stories on Dimensions eat this kind of stuff up, but it does nothing for me.

Obviously all this is just my subjective taste, clearly a lot of people enjoy both these kinds of stories or they wouldn't be reading and writing them. But it does grind my gears when I'm digging through new releases looking desperately for something that will actually press my kink buttons. I just want realistic erotic fiction about extreme weight gain, like "Vast Tonnage" or the old StudioFA stories. These days, finding stories like this which are actually written well is like finding a needle in a haystack.
>>8219
>>8292

Also, it gets on my nerves that so much fiction writing takes place on DA. The DA interface is designed for visual art and is TERRIBLE for sharing and discovering text writing. Case in point, the story you linked to is really good, but I had never even HEARD of this writer before!
The term "PAWG." It's just fucking stupid and annoying.

The term BBW has past its prime. Can we just call them "fat women" now? BBW is really tough to pluralize properly and let's face it, many of us'll bust a nut on a two-bagger if she's got that bass anyway (If you don't believe me about that last point, hang around Wal-Mart for awhile.)

The vast number of people here whose idea of an insult is 'retard', 'autistic,' or 'SJW.' Hanging with that crowd makes me feel dirty.

Aside from that: twerking or dancing (boring and it opens the the door for bad music), body positivity, complaining about what content models SHOULD be putting out like its a mandate. The bulk of anime style drawings that look shiny and gradient shaded. And of course, the inevitable yearly psycho who plans to rape and pillage a BBW bash somewhere.
>>8305
>The term BBW has past its prime.
I wouldn't say past it's prime, I would say though that every woman who is 5 lbs overweight claims they're a BBW.
>>8311
And further than that, every woman 25lbs overweight thinks they're an SSBBW. Go look at /r/ssbbw.

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What was it like the 1st time you saw a ssbbw that made your jaw drop? The Porn Addict 06/20/2019 (Thu) 13:07:44 Id:502a24 No. 7917 [Reply]
I was 16 and was working as a plumber for work experience. (If your not from the UK it's when you take a week off school to experience a job your considering). I had my lunch break at subway and as I was eating my sub this gorgeous fat woman walked in. I'd estimate her to be 410-450ib region. She had a big beautiful round belly like bc Lucious's only bigger. An ass like Julie ginger. tits were average size for a ssbbw but still sexy. She was wearing a tight skirt which allowed me see her beautiful fat legs. Which imo are better legs than any ssbbw model out there. They were so sexy and fat like Juicy jackie's only smaller. I couldn't stop staring at me. She saw me doing multiple times and definitely thought i was a creep. I could get my eyes away. It was like my eyes were metal and she was a powerful magnet. 12 years later and I never met a woman like that before. If I was at leasr 2 years older I definitely would of asked her out
When I was in the US, I saw this girl that lived in the same dorm. Don't remember if she had a pretty face, but damn she was huge. I was surprised she could walk at all, her belly hang to her knees, and she was just fat all over. Enormous ass and legs as well. I would guess she was around 500. I saw her mostly in the cafeteria, but also met her in the hallway once. Was almost impossible for me not to stare. Dunno, but I think she figured I liked how she looked, as she smiled and said hi, even tho I stared her down like an idiot. Never seen anyone that size in my own country, was amazing. I was too self conscious at the time to talk to her though, and my friends were talking shit about her, but I definitely looked for as long as I could at every opportunity.
A few summers ago there was this girl working at the Starbucks in my town who was very large. I’d say her body was almost identical to caitidee’s so she was somewhere in the 400s. I took the bus back from an internship I had that summer almost every day and my stop was a few hundred feet from the Starbucks so I was able to see her on a fairly consistent basis a few times a week. The first time I saw her, I went outside to sit down, listen to some music, and have my coffee and she walked out to sit down and chat with a new hire. She didn’t have her Starbucks apron anymore so I could see every fold of her body through her tight leggings and clingy gray tank top.

Additionally, another time my jaw dropped from seeing a bbw but not quite in this way was in senior year of high school. There was an already fairly fat blond girl in our grade who I didn’t see from June of one year until January of the next because of summer break and her taking a semester away in Europe. In that timespan, she probably gained close to 100 pounds. Before she left she had been fairly popular, people considered her still somewhat attractive because most of her fat was in her thick legs and ass and her big tits (she had a decently sized belly but it was small compare to her tits) and she played softball. When she got back, her tits and arms had grown a bit, but most of her new weight was in her large, soft, hanging double belly. I remember seeing her walk into history class with her big belly jutting out in front of her, every crease visible through her tight shirt with a sliver of tan skin visible under the shirt as it had risen up a bit, and that’s when my jaw dropped. After she got back, she stopped going to parties, quit softball halfway through the first tryout, and started hanging out with some less popular kids who were also on her semester away. Because of this slight reclusion, she probably gained another 50 before graduation.
I was probably 5. My ma told me not to stare.

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Anyone else really turned on by a bbw lifestyle more than the actual fat? Anonymous 07/10/2019 (Wed) 18:22:59 Id:98d68b No. 8246 [Reply]
This is a chain of thoughts I've been having recently on this particular attraction. I wanted to share to see if there are any like minded people.

First, I was brought up in a fairly controlling and disciplined environment. Catholic family, went to Catholic school for a long time, not allowed to have snacks very often, quizzed nightly to make sure I aced my tests in school, parents never so much as passed gas in front of me. That sort of thing.

Long story short, I grew up to be a person who likes to have all my ducks in a row. I hate holding debt. I need things to follow a plan. I do preventative maintenance on my car to minimize any surprise risks. I save money aggressively. On and on...

The one kink in all of this? I'm turned on by the idea of a woman with minimal self control or inhibitions. The idea of an attractive woman who just does what feels good, and damn the consequences. Somehow, at some point in my life, I made the association that that means she'd eat whatever the hell she wants no matter how fat it made her (and would embarrassingly pass gas in front of others without care if that's what her body needed to do), would laze around in a generally slobby kind of way instead of being disciplined and exercising because lazing around is easier, and would have sex multiple times a day just because she wanted to.

The idea of a person like that, particularly one that I'm in a relationship with and helping to live that uninhibited lifestyle, is what I'm attracted to. Someone pursuing instant gratification all of the time, because it's not something I can ever allow myself to do.

The fat itself is more of a testament to the lifestyle. When I see a larger woman, my mind immediately goes to "wow, she must not exersize much and probably eats whatever the fuck she wants," so it's more of a secondary signifying trait.

When my SO (bbw) makes plans to get a bunch of stuff done or exercise but I get home and see her watching TV with a crumpled bag of fast food at her feet, that turns me on. When I watch models, I get off by thinking about their probable lifestyle in tandem with their actual bodies. When I read erotic literature, the pieces that delve into lifestyle always do the most for me.

Does this sound familiar to anyone out there? Is anyone else this particular flavor of FA?
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The lifestyle thing, as well as all the other aspects you've listed are definitely a big part of it, even though the fat is just as much a part of it for me.

Having a positivity towards going against social norms is something that I like in general, so this goes for skinny girls just as much. Breaking rules and having a "don't give a fuck" view of lifestyle and choices is just really satisfying. I guess this goes somewhat outside or further than what you're talking about, but I can still relate to everything you said. Also somewhat the growing up part, just not as strict.

The girl being chubby or fat is definitely the biggest factor for me though. I guess it also could be more of a sign that some of the other aspects are present in a girl's personality before you get to know her.
I totally get this for similar reasons, I feel like it's a huge part of the appeal. I grew up with a strict, structured, and polite family. Religious, extreme emphasis on manners and self-control, health freaks, and my mom has always been obsessed with losing weight despite never being fat. I've been told that it's "unladylike" to eat as much as i go, or that a girl like me needs to "learn to eat a salad." Also was constantly hounded about being "productive" all the time, and not being lazy, and still get slutshamed for not being ashamed about my adventurous sex life.

The whole aspect of letting yourself go and living freely is one of the hottest things to me, and already thinking fat is hot goes hand-in-hand with it. Nothing is hotter than a big girl who embraces her body, does what she wants, eats what she wants, and isnt embarrassed about being a bit of a slob or a sex fiend. This goes for other women I'm into, and also for myself. I do my best to live that lifestyle of living freely and doing/eating what i want, although it's kinda hard when I have chronic anxiety and have had stuff about healthy eating and living to plan for later drilled into my head. Still though, it's so freeing and kinda hot, and so much nicer than having every aspect of yourself determined by holding yourself back.

I do wish more girls could be like this too. I've dated girls who were heavy but massively insecure about their weight, and refusing to eat at all or even refusing to let anyone (even their gf) see their belly out of embarrassment. A confident, empowered, free-living fat girl, slobby or not, is one of the hottest things.

That said tho, I might also have a liiiiittle bit of a slob kink...
>>8246
This rings very true for me. Honestly, when I watch stuffing videos, I spend half the time just wishing I could live with at level of freedom. To just say fuck it all and stuff my face with my favourite foods 24/7.


I don't have a religious or overly-strict family background other than my parents hounding me about academics. I'm a pretty instant-gratification person already: I have shit self-control and no long-term planning ability. I constantly beat myself up about not being more organised, put-together, physically active, etc, but I know I'll never do anything about it, as has been the case all my life.

And I fucking love food. There's a very weak thread of self-control holding me to my half-assed attempt to vaguely estimate my daily calorie intake. I'm scared that if I stop paying attention, I'll end up like these models. It's so exhausting and depressing to have to hold back. When I watch them do stuffings, I feel like I'm watching the manifestation of true happiness. I spend every waking hour stressing and slaving just to bare-minimum pass the impossibly-hard discipline I chose to study, and then I come home to jerk off to "tee-hee, I just spent the whole day lazing around in bed eating cake :^) " I'm so jealous.

Don't get me wrong, this is just one component of my inexplicable fetish. I have a general sexual fixation on food (e.g. I find it hot to watch guys eat, even though I'm only into gaining for girls), but I think the gratification it brings people is a big part of it. I also like to watch/listen to people masturbating, for probably similar reasons.

I was just thinking about this to myself, actually, when I was watching a stuffing a bit ago. OP you really hit the nail on the head.


>and would embarrassingly pass gas in front of others without care if that's what her body needed to do)

I'm particularly into this; the idea of someone just doing what their body needs to do to clear up more room for food without a second thought is hot. The confidence it takes to do that is sexy to me. Doing that in front of someone either means you do what you want without shame or it means you're intimate enough with that person to do embarrassing stuff in front of them, both of which are really hot ideas to me.

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Quality discussion thread, OP. Well posted.

For me, the attraction to the look and feel of fat bodies is what comes first. I get off to extreme deathfeedist/immobility stuff, but the core of the fantasy for me is always that the gainer feels the same way I do about fatness and wants to be fat so overwhelmingly that they're willing to accept the negative consequences that come with it, consequences that to the outside world look like self-destruction and loss of self-control. "I don't CARE about my cholesterol or my mobility! I want to be fatter!"

But it's ultimately not really about self-destructiveness or self-control, it's about the fat. I don't find other self-destructive behaviors like smoking or excessive drinking attractive, I'm not into "trashiness" in looks or lifestyle, and most slob stuff just grosses me out.

I've felt this way about fatness for as long as I can remember (in kindergarten I was aware that when I was around the fat girls I felt differently than around other girls), and I'm pretty sure than any related kinks I have were ones that glommed onto this already existing attraction to fat.

That said, while my family wasn't particularly religious, I was definitely raised with the "be self-disciplined and get straight As 'or else" attitude, with a lot of neuroses about money and class. (Long story, but my dad was the classic "poor scholarship kid who became successful" and had unresolved issues around it that he passed on to us.) I think that later in childhood, my complicated feelings about this stuff got mingled with my existing attraction to fatness. So I definitely get where some of the stories in this thread are coming from, except for me it's in the opposite direction:

>fat girl in a ragged t-shirt huffing cigarettes and belching out grease as she watches daytime TV, gaining weight from a diet of candy bars and cheap fast food
not hot

>SSBBW executive who's an ice cold money-motivated bitch in the boardroom and uses her hard-earned fortune to enable her lifestyle of extreme gluttony and dominant fatness in the bedroom
hot

>spoiled rich fat girl tastefully made up and draped in expensive clothes and jewelry, ordering half a dozen entrees at the most expensive restaurant in town, using her wealth to enable her fantasies of getting as fat as humanly possible

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That's kind of at the heart of it, I think. Gluttony and lust are definitely the coolest sins. And together, it's even better.

Weight struggling really turns me on too.

Where are you from? Anonymous 03/21/2019 (Thu) 19:57:59 Id:a10291 No. 7031 [Reply]
I'm Norwegian. Just curious what the others on this site is.
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Slovakia
Estonia
Norway.

Not a good place for this kink online in my experience, although going out is different. I was in the US for half a year, and that's a totally different story on all levels.
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I've just met one really fat and confident girl in my life in Norway.
>>8255
This so much. I have used tinder for a year and I've had several hook-ups, out of 4 or 5 only one of them have been fat. And even then she was in no way huge. I guess 120-130kg. Despite me having a huge bias for bigger girls, they are barely non existent on apps like tinder. Perhaps it's because I prefer girls to be close to me age wise (18-21) And they aren't easier to pick-up than thinner girls on tinder. But once I go to parties or nightclubs I will see them and then they aren't hard to pick up.

When it comes to the US I feel like the grass is kind of greener on the other side, at least for me. While yes, there are some more fat girls there. I don't find them as attractive. I would only probably date 30% of American bbws in my age range, whereas I'd say in Norway it would be 75%. But of course, that's just my opinion.

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Violet Beauregarde is dead Anonymous 07/11/2019 (Thu) 08:16:46 Id:291d9a No. 8296 [Reply]
You may or may not know that Denise Nickerson who became the unofficial founder of the inflation community, has passed away today at 62.
its been officially announced by her son Josh Nickerson.
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She will always have a place in our hearts
I remember when I first saw that scene when I was little. Changed my life forever.
How did she died?
Omg no... NO...

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