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Feabie Drama Observatory 2.0 Anonymous 01/29/2020 (Wed) 01:02:46 Id:58336f No. 165
New board, new thread. Got screenshots, complaints, gossip, drama about our favorite social media site for camgirls and cat ladies? Post 'em here. Pic related, it's an authentic real life woman talking about her 100% true real life gains. (She can't share any pics because of an ex.)
Feabie hasn’t 404’d itself yet? Shame.
Lol, I actually follow her. I have no pictures of myself on the internet due to the same reasons. Whats so dramatic about it?
She kinda talks like a femcel or like anyone of us when we were 18 and wating to look intelligent and deep.
>>181 If it's not blindingly obvious to you that "she" is a catfish, I don't know what to tell ya.
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My two favorite girls are having a catfight :3 I never thought I'd say this, but I'm siding with Big Fupes on this one
So I donated to some skinny chick, and asked her once whether the paypal dono reached her or not, and she just responded in the coldest most edgy way possible. First I thought it was a joke, until I asked for like the nth time, and she got pissed, and showed me a super vague screencap of her paypal. After that I told her that "ok probably paypal's fault, not the first time I've had problems with em... I'll send em an email and see if we can't get this sorted, so you can get the money I sent you". Next thing I know, I'm blocked, and she's made a post about how I blamed her for stealing her money, and that I called her a fat bitch... Bitch what?
guess that's what I get for being nice, and thinking the skinny fucks on the site actually are in it for the gains.. lmao, what a retard I am "hehexd"
I deleted my profile this morning, I'm over that shitshow. Had someone I met on there also call me an incel, so I'm over that entire shebang. I was just there to fap to the fat chicks anyway. 🤷🏼‍♂️
>>224 From what I remember of her back when I actually paid any attention to her statuses, she raised valid critiques once in a while. I can't say that's really one, especially given the obvious sarcasm here. >>225 >>226 >Throwing money at girls on Feabie ISHYGDDT
>>224 i find it hard to believe a real girl would have the name "fupatrooper69" but i guess it's possible if she prides herself on being funny or used comedy to get through being made fun of in high school >>229 >ISHYGDDT yeah, i was gonna say... why the hell would you just give some strange thot your money for nothing in return... that's just craziness.
Has anyone actually manage to hit it off with any of the social invertebrates on Feabie? I can't imagine anyone spending a nonzero amount of time with anyone on there without the the desire to paint the nearest wall with skull meat creeping up on them.
>>258 Depends on what you mean by "hit it off", because I've made months-to-years long friendships as well as met up with a few people, with varying degrees of success, but relationships and hookups haven't happened. Honestly, I've had the rest overall outcome with the people who don't constantly piss and moan in the feed. Also, I've have more success with women who are either vanilla or don't obsess over their enjoyment of kink-related stuff.
>>258 I have dated a few bbw and a few ffa feeders met through feabie. Gone to a few meetups. Generally have had a good time of it.
>be thot >post slutty pictures >get mad when mouthbreathers objectify you on your posts/DMs >make 9999th post complaining about this >make 9999th post complaining about how terrible men are, all while relying on them for their livelihood >profile is just cashapp venmo "spoil me ill spoil you" and a clips4sale >has Date, Relationship tagged in Looking For Man, it's almost as if you behave like a whore, people will treat you like a whore. And maybe all decent dudes have nope'd the fuck out by now so you're only left with dogshit.
I tried Feabs when it first started back in 2012/2013. I still check it maybe once a year out of morbid curiosity, and see a lot of the same faces that were there before still posting regularly. I suppose it works for some! I never met anyone new in person on there, but did start talking to quite a few interesting women while I was active. There was a reoccurring issue though. I'd like to think I'm excellent at communicating my intentions, but on more than a few occasions, I would be messaging casually with someone, and when the matter of meeting up came up, I would say something like "Absolutely! We should meet up sometime." (I kind of wanted to continue talking to someone a little first, so I know I'm meeting a someone I'd get along with when I'm not stuffing them full of copious amounts of food or fucking) and I would continue the conversation normally, hoping to gett to know them a bit more. On a few occasions, the other person would freak out, acting bitter like I ended the conversation or wasn't into meeting them. I'm not about to rush into driving hundreds or miles or having someone visit me who I barely know- but so many women were willing to dive head first into meeting, regardless of distance or situation. Same thing would happen if I didn't message someone back for more than a day. It was the days before the app, and I usually like to keep myself busy.But again, women on Feabie would get angry and assume I wasn't interested and end the conversation if I didn't respond soon enough to their liking. The fact that this happened more than once with at least half a dozen people (some of whom I STILL see posting on the main feed) is interesting. I can understand being jaded on a site like that, men are terrible, and I'll be first to admit it. Most dudes suck at banter and general correspondence, and message girls like they have their dick in their hand. But I was surprised to see so many women just saying "fuck it" without any patience or even asking for (or even being interested in) clarification. There are some cool, accepting, and genuinely hilarious folks on the site, but there's also a lot of tools, regardless of gender. I do worry that it suffers from being an echo chamber of sorts, it just seems like people on that site create and perpetuate drama where it's really not needed. Some folks seem to treat it more like Twitter than a fetish website, or seem to take it way to seriously. At the end of the day, isn't it mostly a dating/hookup site or a place to express yourself within your fetish?
>>305 What I find interesting/ironic is that this whole dynamic is reversed for straight women on other dating apps/sites. I've had a moderate amount of success with Tinder and many of the women I've met through it tell me that a lot of men are like this; i.e. they throw their toys out of the pram if she takes too long to reply to a message etc. On the other hand, you're spot on with this: >Most dudes suck at banter and general correspondence, and message girls like they have their dick in their hand. Especially they bit after the comma. To anyone here who hasn't tried online dating: you would be amazed how far you can get by simply being respectful and not coming off as thirsty. if you'll allow me to go on a tangent, the reason I only use Tinder is because I live in a pretty small country, and Tinder is the only app/site with any decent number of users. For this reason, I haven't looked at Feabie at all.
>>306 That struck me as odd, too. I never had any issues like that with any other dating sites, but on Feabie, it just kept happening to me. I suspect part of it *could* be that since it's such a tight knit community (I remember a lot of members constantly being in tinychat rooms together), they could have talked about who they were talking to? And I, as a semi-reasonable and respectful adult was rarely just messaging with only one person if conversation was still casual. Of course I would get to know multiple folks at a time,; I would then single out the person I have the most connection with, and pursue that person accordingly. I'm not going to stop in my tracks to message with one person at a time exclusively. Even then, I'm just guessing with the info I have- it's only happened to me a bunch on Feabie, and once on fantasyfeeder, and that is the only reason I can even suspect. I've used Okcupid to great success, PlentyofFish (never again), and even Tumblr was a great way to meet people back in the day. But Feabie got cliquey in a hurry, and in a way that isn't really inviting.
>>306 >many of the women I've met through it tell me that a lot of men are like this; i.e. they throw their toys out of the pram if she takes too long to reply to a message etc. I've heard a lot of women on Feabie complain about guys doing this, to be fair. Never had a woman gripe to me about taking too long, on the other hand. >To anyone here who hasn't tried online dating: you would be amazed how far you can get by simply being respectful and not coming off as thirsty. This, seriously.
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>>316 This is a problem with people in general, I got unmatched on Tinder the other day because I didn't message them fast enough(I was dealing with a death in the family :/ ). People seem to have a problem with not being made your #1 priority as soon as you start interacting. Sorry, I don't go out of my way for someone I haven't met yet. Anyone else giggle at all the dudes LARPing as women and posting DAE MEN ARE BAD posts? I swear most of the userbase has serious mental issues, and it's obvious the copious amounts of pharmaceutical drugs are only exacerbating the problem.
>>326 >(I was dealing with a death in the family :/) Sorry to hear. I guess I'm speaking strictly from experience as far as timely responses or lack thereof go, wouldn't be surprised if it's not uncommon for it to go the other way around too. >I swear most of the userbase has serious mental issues, and it's obvious the copious amounts of pharmaceutical drugs are only exacerbating the problem. Honestly, I feel like the echochamber exacerbates things more than pharmaceuticals. All they see from people who don't lockstep with them is the fringe, so they presume that anyone that doesn't 100% agree with them is basically the same person as someone who actually believes that women can only ever exist to pump out kids and be subservient to the guy they're with. >That first pic This is something that could very well apply to both men and women. Most guys aren't attracted to women who act like giant assholes, and would prefer someone with a more kindly nature. I can't tell if Hedonismbot here believes that women should have a different standard of behavior because their outrage is completely justified according to him, or he's just oblivious to some of the genuinely toxic women on Feabie and other platforms because some of said women are probably friends with him (Your MischiefBiscuits, Bexxes, etc.). If you swapped the genders on most of the "Men are trash" statuses posted on there, you'd get temp, if not permabanned.
>>295 The amount of cope I see from thots is staggering. Here we see Fupatrooper bragging about being an ewhore, yet will routinely post about how there are no good men left in the world... Gee, maybe there's some relation to how she conducts herself and her ability to find someone who wants to seriously date her? No..couldn't be. Guys are totally okay with dating thots who sell softcore porn to betamales, right?
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>>332 oops, didn't add the picture Xd
Too lazy to post screenshots but Feabie is melting down over petty drama yet again lol. The thots are swearing that this time it's serious and they're going to take their ball away and never come back but we all know they'll be back on the newsfeed a week from now as if nothing ever happened
>>335 You can tell if someone's in the Feabie clique if people start screaming when they get banned, even if it's only temporary. Just about every #freex campaign involves one of the people that degrades the quality of the site.
>>337 >>335 It's funny, the people complaining and hashtagging when someone gets banned are always the most insufferable.
>>337 >>338 It's always over the dumbest shit, too. On what website, in what universe, would "we're going to complain about you to the App Store and try and get your app removed until you respond to our tantrum" NOT be a banworthy offense?
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>>335 >someone tries to report the app to google/apple to try to get Grokio in trouble >encourages other sycophants to do the same >gets banned because you tried to fuck with the money stream I just don't understand how this could happen. Won't someone think of the thots!?!?! #MakeFeabieSafeForWomen
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They're really buttmad 😂
>>341 Hoes mad (x24)
>>341 Not only are they buttmad, but they're flat-out lying. https://www.fontsquirrel.com/license/lobster-two >Permission is hereby granted, free of charge, to any person obtaining a copy of the Font Software, to use, study, copy, merge, embed, modify, redistribute, and sell modified and unmodified copies of the Font Software, subject to the following conditions: >1) Neither the Font Software nor any of its individual components, in Original or Modified Versions, may be sold by itself. >2) Original or Modified Versions of the Font Software may be bundled, redistributed and/or sold with any software, provided that each copy contains the above copyright notice and this license. These can be included either as stand-alone text files, human-readable headers or in the appropriate machine-readable metadata fields within text or binary files as long as those fields can be easily viewed by the user. >3) No Modified Version of the Font Software may use the Reserved Font Name(s) unless explicit written permission is granted by the corresponding Copyright Holder. This restriction only applies to the primary font name as presented to the users. >4) The name(s) of the Copyright Holder(s) or the Author(s) of the Font Software shall not be used to promote, endorse or advertise any Modified Version, except to acknowledge the contribution(s) of the Copyright Holder(s) and the Author(s) or with their explicit written permission. >5) The Font Software, modified or unmodified, in part or in whole, must be distributed entirely under this license, and must not be distributed under any other license. The requirement for fonts to remain under this license does not apply to any document created using the Font Software. Literally nothing against a site using the font for commercial purposes in the way that Feabie is.
>>341 >>343 please help me delete my account so i never get mad about this shit again
And to think I was thinking about signing up for the place. These people are neurotic as fuck. How the fuck are they able function in their day-to-day lives without any self awareness of how nuts they look to every other normal person around them?
>>346 Honestly, this thread is an inaccurate representation of the site as a whole. The overwhelming majority of people on the site don't participate in drama bullshit, it's literally a few dozen people at absolute most. If you can ignore that little group of people, it becomes magnitudes more tolerable.
>>346 I just have an account just to see if there any fat girls that live near me and there are. I just don't pay attention to their bullshit. I had a few girls talk to me on there but they dropped it for some reason.
>>349 You're not wrong. Feabie is only bogged down by a (VERY) vocal minority. Even when there isn't drama, I think a lot of the folks that frequent it can be pretty interesting/fun to banter with at times, even on the main feed. It's just a bummer that a lot of the users can't be united by the love of fat and getting fatter- it's a polarizing, fringe fetish, so you'd think users would want to establish more of a sense of community between feedists. Maybe it's gotten better, it's been years since I've been active there.
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>>341 >>343 Amazing website, tbqh. I can't imagine getting upset over an account on a fetish website, or like, anything I didn't spend a significant amount of money on. Thots, man.
I had my share of bullshit with the Feabie Modstaff. I got fucking banned from there for two weeks for some thor reporting to them about a photo I posted on Curvage! Think about that one... I emailed the modstaff to find out why I was banned, and they gave me some generic answer about posting in other sites. I hid my post, and asked which photo was Feabie property. Had no clue. Also, am a mod at Curvage, and I suggested that instead of banning people, giving them a warning, and I don't know, making it apparent what photos are fucking theirs by using a watermark. It doesn't help at all that a lot of users are posting the same photo to multiple social media platforms. Instead, they told me that I had to take down any photos I see on Curvage immediately. Nobody is special, they can fill out a dmca request like everyone else. I don't have time to do their job for them on a site that's not theirs. That site, and their shit modstaff can lick my balls.
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So who do we think the Feabie admins who "attend events and have lots of friends in the community" are? I have some educated guesses. And is the language about how they're not "male-identified" a weasel word for their not being biological women?
>>359 >And is the language about how they're not "male-identified" a weasel word for their not being biological women? It's probably them trying to avoid accusations of bigotry because saying just "male" is transphobic nowadays, apparently. Also wouldn't be surprised if at least one or two admins were trans. Honestly, I don't know how they can continue to support groups of people that unconditionally hate them and what they do. Every time they capitulate to the clique (see also: adding a "Don't mention Feabie to media outlets" rule after the Mamahorker shitshow), it's never enough. Seriously, if they just told said people to fuck off, the losses to the site would be minimal. Most of the people on the site don't give a shit.
>>359 Fupes did you steal this screenshot and put it on imgur
I used to have a paid account. Since have gone to the free account and also deleted the phone app. The only reason I still even have an account is to periodically check if there are any new girls in my area who are worth talking to. I just got annoyed with the constant bitching and keyboard warrior stuff on my TL. Also got annoyed with the fact that the vast majority of the girls are EXTREMELY liberal to the point where they'll refuse to even talk with a moderate like myself
Can't help but feel bad for some of the users of this site, contrary to most people here. One girl recently broke up with their partner and wrote about how they have no friends to talk to about it. I can already see the flood of messages she would get from her 1000+ followers from guys who say they would be her friend but obviously have ulterior motives. (Although ngl it kinda turns me on how they have clearly fucked up their life whilst also being huge and fat)
the drama this week was entertaining, but seeing the drama llamas perpetuating the false idea that feabie suddenly allows 17 year olds to join is tired. And complaing about the photo rules that haven't been changed in 2 years. theres plenty of legitimate beef to be had with the admins, no need for this false outrage. detracting from the real issues really. but they dont really care about that, they say they do but they start drama over little stuff for some clout. Also had a lol at the feabie blackout they tried pushing, that all 3 people participated in. wow I'm sure that really showed the admins and proved a point. at least it made the site a bit more enjoyable for those 24 hours lol. and im glad they banned the girl who reported to the app store. what did she expect? thatd thgey roll over and allow it? and who tf is she to put one of the few places feedists have at risk? for what other than some bs clout. also, i used to know someone who was in a groupchat with some of these people and the hypocrisy is comedic. they'll talk about how they reported someone but then be in the newsfeed posting #FreeSoAndSo. i bailed on meeting up with a girl once because i realized she was friends with a lot of these people and figured that was a goood indicator of who she really was..
>>351 sauce?
>>305 >(I kind of wanted to continue talking to someone a little first, so I know I'm meeting a someone I'd get along with when I'm not stuffing them full of copious amounts of food or fucking) and I would continue the conversation normally, hoping to gett to know them a bit more. >>308 >I suspect part of it *could* be that since it's such a tight knit community (I remember a lot of members constantly being in tinychat rooms together), they could have talked about who they were talking to? And I, as a semi-reasonable and respectful adult was rarely just messaging with only one person if conversation was still casual. I've been in a relationship since before Feabie came out so I've never used it for dating (I made an account just to check it out but noped out quickly.) But this is one of the worst things about the online fat community, which is a small world where everybody knows everybody. As someone who knew he wanted an LTR with the possibility of marriage, the fishbowl effect made it impossible to have a casual, "getting to know you as a person so we can decide if we want this to be serious" kind of dating relationship. Even with women who are good people and don't get involved in drama, the moment you cough in their direction, EVERYBODY in the community knows about it, making the space in between "NSA hookup" and "we're getting engaged and moving in together" a giant minefield of gossip and drama. I feel like I dodged a bullet by meeting my eventual wife (who's fat, but not involved in the community) on a vanilla dating site.
>>374 > I feel like I dodged a bullet by meeting my eventual wife (who's fat, but not involved in the community) on a vanilla dating site. I consider women being involved in the community as a warning sign these days.
Does anyone remember a gal named Explorer? She disspeared, but I don't know why. Suddenly she was just gone. I talked a lot with her.
I got banned for using a VPN a couple months ago, which I guess is a thing they do now? Honestly I'm glad it happened, I was spending too much time on there and the community keeps getting smaller and smaller anyway. I got tons of nudes though so no regrets.
>>367 >Also got annoyed with the fact that the vast majority of the girls are EXTREMELY liberal to the point where they'll refuse to even talk with a moderate like myself Honestly, they're probably doing you a favor by not talking to you. >>369 To some degree, I agree with you. There's certainly no shortage of users who have had shitty upbringings, with body mockery being a part of their emotional issues. I've noticed this usually leads to one of two things: The first are the people who lash back out at society, the ones that call basically everyone that doesn't completely agree with them trash. The latter are ones that still suffer from some degree of depression or similar, but genuinely try to improve themselves and the world around them. I genuinely feel awful for the second group, not so much the first, since they're merely perpetuating the negativity they were raised upon. Actually spent some time with a girl off Feabie some time ago who fell into the second category. Was probably the most genuine and enjoyable-to-be-around person I've hung out with in a very long time. I hope with every fiber of my being that things turn around for her, she genuinely deserves it. >>371 I looked at the tag, and lo and behold, only like 1-2 dozen people actually posted in it. Out of literal thousands of people that are online at any given moment. I could count the number of people that actually changed their profile pics because of it on my hands. >i bailed on meeting up with a girl once because i realized she was friends with a lot of these people and figured that was a goood indicator of who she really was.. Probably not a bad idea. I've come across a grand total of one person in that crowd who's a genuinely decent human being who is just stuck with a shitty crowd. Beyond that, the people who are in that group, I've found are either impossible to approach, or simply not worth putting effort into communicating with. >>374 The fishbowl effect only really seems to apply to women who are involved with the community. The ones that are disconnected from it seem to be fine. Also worth noting that most of the disconnected ones are vanilla, which seems to make them easier to talk with for the most part. >>376 Can't say the name rings a bell. I've had a few girls suddenly nuke their accounts without a word to me, even if we'd talked for months or years. >>381 I'd guess it's an anti-troll measure.
>>391 Too bad this happens to other guys too. She was gorgeous, funny and Norwegian. Young, fat smart and all you could ever hope for a BBW to be.
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>>326 >Anyone else giggle at all the dudes LARPing as women and posting DAE MEN ARE BAD posts? Oh my god, this. I have IRL trans friends who are good people with real world accomplishments and who just want to be trans and get on with their lives, so I do my best not to take these people as representative of the trans community as a whole... but pretty much every online kink community these days is plagued by creepy "trancels" who think that ~zomg I'm totes gay, DAE hate men~ is a magical password into the DMs of biological females. Pic related, I didn't even need to click on their profile to know by the tone of their written voice that it was one of these, and of course I turned out to be right.
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>>428 Yep, we got a live one here
I have no idea why I'm bothering arguing with someone on Feabie on what's going on with the whole Ohio University thing. I already know it's not going to convince anyone there.

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