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Do you have a type? Anonymous 03/13/2018 (Tue) 00:37:28 No. 3505
I'm a bit fed up by friends and family trying to "set me up" with someone.
So, just because everyone knows I like fat women - it seems that's what they are focusing on. So, in terms of general appearances, interests… as long as she's fat - set her up with me.

I doubt I'm not the only one who gets this. Btw, it's not so much family (but it has happened), but mostly friends, especially guys.

Anyway, my type is blonde, caucasian (pale!), not too short - wide hips, big belly, big butt. I tend to prefer them a little bit taller, (at least tall for women), because I also like them heavier. If that makes sense. Also, I prefer women with higher education, like myself.
Not really a "type" or dream girl as such
Hair color and all that stuff doesn't really matter

I just want a fat girl (especially belly and bigger boobs ^^) with a great personality…
That's all I ask for…
Some women don't distribute weight well. A big belly joined with a tiny, sad-looking ass is just not flattering.

SJW hair is a definite "no." Looks okay on other ladies, but on fatties it looks desperate. (I vote left, so it's not a political thing, but an aesthetic one.)

The rest is just miscellaneous stuff that I find attractive in any woman. Dark hair, an expressive face. I'm deadpan with auburn hair, so I guess I'm seeking out qualities I lack.
Nobody else has this thing were everyone just assume you like every fat girl, no matter what?
Creampuff
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>>3510

It's not just you anon, I get this too. Worst is when well-meaning friends don't get that fat means FAT and not just curvy or "thicc" – I've been set up on a couple of dates where from my perspective I genuinely didn't see any difference between them and a "normal sized" girl.

>>3507

Lol, I have the opposite problem. I'm center-right and couldn't date someone seriously committed to the social justice narrative, but when I see a pair of "problem glasses," I have an immediate gut reaction that "this girl is a qt, I bet she's my type." Lingering side effect of hanging around the old school emo/indie scene back in the day.
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>>3510
>>3515
I have been set up a couple of times with girls who are chubby at most/normal sized but at this point at least friends have seen me around larger and have the general concept. That's about it though; It's really amazing that people can't seem to see a difference and just see any fat girl as a check mark, regardless of shape or weight.

As far as OP question on type is concerned: pics related. As long as that general pear-shaped width is there. As long as the belly isn't completely dominating the frame I'm cool with whatever. I love glasses, dyed hair and pale skin but not having that isn't a problem. Didn't used to like tattoos but they are growing on me (the tasteful/decorative ones at least).

Anecdotally, it's really funny to be around guys who have no understanding of a girl's size. "Shit she's probably almost 400 pounds." Nope, that's about 250 tops, have you ever looked at people?
This is one of the many reasons I haven’t really “come out” yet. Too many people assume that being attracted to larger women means that I’ll sleep with anybody just as long as she’s fat. In other words, people think that I would have a one night stand with a “Mama June” when I would much, much rather go on a coffee date with a “Rebel Wilson”. Despite weight, I’m dang picky when it comes to appearance, especially the face.
As far as preferred body types go, pic of my shitty mspaint related. I’m not attracted to someone that is disproportionally fat in one or two places in their body. I’m not attracted to someone with a “hamhock face”, or that’s a huge belly or butt with tiny, stick legs and arms (no offense to anyone who is).

>>3517
What’s hilarious is that I see the opposite phenomena happen all the time. If someone looks absolutely huge, they “must be 300 lbs.” They can’t fathom that a person could be 400, 500, or 700+ lbs.—it’s just not possible in their mind. How could somebody get that big and not collapse in on themselves? Nope, it’s “massive = 300,” and they’re defying physics if they’re heavier than that.
> I’m picky when it comes to appearance, especially the face.

I've seen normies struggle with this. They're hung up on the notion that fat is "ugly" in and of itself. Having a taste for fatties doesn't mean that ugly girls turn you on, /bbwalt/ notwithstanding.

There are ugly or attractive fat people, just like with anyone else.

And the joke of is is, fat girls have the same hurdles to overcome as skinny babes. If sh'es attractive and single, chances are, she's tired of dating "creepers" who only want to get trampled or stuff them full of food, and is looking for a real relationship. No different from skinny women who get pumped and dumped.
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>>3515

2-3 months ago, I was waiting for a train next to two college legbeards who together must've weighed 500 lbs. One of them had a horrible blue haircut with shaved sides and thick black glasses, and the bench started to squeak and groan beneath the three of us.

Hypocrite that I am, I almost made a move, but I had to pick up my mom at the podiatrist's office. Bullet dodged.
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>>3505
I personally haven't had this sort of problem like you anon, but I can certainly see why what your friends/family are doing can be annoying.

For my "type", my perfect girl would probably be around 250-300, and around my height of 5'10", if not an inch or two shorter. Pic attached from Aurora's Set 54 video represents the size, just scale her up from 5'2" and thats basically what Im aiming for. Add to those criteria a pretty face, nice sounding voice, an appealing personality, a high level of intelligence, and some long, natural colored hair and shes golden.

Although realistically, any girl who has those personality traits, is between 180-300 (or carries their weight very well above that number), and hasn't been hit in the face with a hot shovel is good in my books. That and the girl not being a feedee. Nothing against the people who are into it, but that ain't the life for me haha
>>3525
> Add to those criteria a pretty face, nice sounding voice, an appealing personality, a high level of intelligence, and some long, natural colored hair and shes golden.


So, attractive? Christ, that's not a "type" that's liking conventionally attractive traits.
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For me it's pretty much all ssbbw level and within that level there are different types that tend to catch my eye. These 3 categories are some of my absolute favourites.
>>3528
Were pretty on the same page but for I have to swap out Asians for The Girl Next Door type.
I'm actually don't really have a specific "type", at least physically.

>Attracted to pretty much every race, but I have a bit of a soft spot for black girls in particular

>Prefer at least 2 of the three Bs (Boobs, Belly, Butt) to be exceptionally large, all 3 is perfect, even though it's incredibly rare.
>Prefer long, soft hair. Pixie-type cuts only work on petite girls to me. Color is irrelevant, barring non-natural hair colors, which are a yellow flag to me
>Prefer around my height, same height is ideal
>Anything from "Smallfat" to ~400 pounds is good. I'm not super attracted to women so heavy that they're on the verge of immobility
>Personality-wise, being intellectual is a huge plus. There's a huge difference between intellectual and pseudointellectual, mind you.
>"Nerdy" interests are a huge plus, as is being a bit outdoorsy, which is tough to find in bigger girls
>Must be super affectionate
>Doesn't have, nor want children
>Being the good kind of weird is a plus, being batshit insane is a huge nope from me. Basically, if you piss and moan all day on social media, you're not my type.

Thankfully, I don't have people try to "set me up" with girls. Probably due to A. People knowing that wouldn't work, and B. Me not really knowing people to begin with.
I don't know if it's genetics, or cultural, or what. But I like other black/latino men very much prefer the ultra-pear BBWs and SSBBWs. Even on a few skinny girls, if they have wide hips and a round ass, that's attractive to me.

The only thing that throws me off is a belly. Not necessarily a big belly, but a big, hanging belly. One that hangs down to her knees. If I see that, she would have to have an equally huge ass and hips to make up for it.

That, and mobility. She has to be able to lift that fat ass up off the bed and walk around with it. And scooters don't count.
>>3555

I don't really get the apron fetish, either. The take the most obvious example, Ellie is interesting to look at from a certain perspective. As in, "This woman is straight out of a WG fic" kind of way. But would she be my first choice, no.
>>3555
>>3556
Agree completely. That apron belly body type is really only fun in an online setting, walking around with them and seeing how disproportional they are feels very strange and isn't. I've been set up with a girl like this before and honestly it's crazy to look at. Whenever her belly wasn't in view (admittedly a rare occurrence) she didn't even look like the same person.
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My type:

Preferably Asian, though other races aren't a deal breaker. Someone like Sara Aikawa (seen in the gif) or an ssbbw version of Aya hirano. Long black hair is a definite plus, maybe with a couple blue highlights.

Personality wise, and this may sound a bit weeby, but maybe someone like Futaba Sakura from Persona 5.
>>3573
>Aya Hirano
Will anyone ever want a pudgy Aya Hirano with her insane personality intact?
>>3574

What did she do?
>>3587
She became one of the biggest names in voice acting from Haruhi and Lucky Star being such big hits before she metaphorically fucked her career and literally with every guy in her band except the guy on Bass (people have said he got bullied hard by the Japs).
She ended up also talking shit about her fans. All of this killed her music career and repulsed her Idol followers into leaving but now she refuses to get a tumor taken out of her head for fear of it killing her voice acting career from the chance of it altering her voice.
>>3588

Well, we all know madness and genius go hand in hand.
Pale, naturally blonde, shorter than me, with some arm and leg muscle, not just fat - kind of the well-fed retail worker look… at least in the upper 200s to mid 300s, depending on height. I'm down for short hair, piercings, and dangerhair colors, so long as it doesn't come with the SJW politics.

Personality-wise, I'd hope for someone who's generally chill, with a competitive streak, into similar hobbies and not totally politically opposed to me. Someone who would enjoy living innawoods, hiking, shooting, or just staying inside playing vidya or watching movies. Preferably into feeding and willing to play around with some mutual gaining, probably more as a seasonal thing than a permanent one.
>>3573 Give us the sauce for that Sara Aikawa gif please
Big belly type, 300 to 400 pounds. Make sure you grab it, jiggle it and slap it hard when you are behind her, so she really knows how you like it. Slim yourself down by working out and dieting, so you can really get in deep into the doughiness of her body. You get into the perfect position when all of your legs are behind her chunky legs, top to bottom.
I agree that not all BBWs are created equal in terms of attractiveness. A cute face is important. So is distribution. There has to be a general fat distribution, not all concentrated in one place. As others have said, those all-belly BBWs are not all that hot. But a big belly along with thick thighs, big ass, etc. I can totally enjoy, especially if it's in the lower belly.

Shape wise, there's sort of a ranking for me. The all-time sexiest women I've ever seen have been BBW/SSBBW with huge bubble butts and flaring hips. Plump Princess comes pretty close, especially when she was around 370-375 lbs. But I've known a couple of women who were hotter.

Second tier is a nice big belly as described above.

Not crazy about super-fat arms or lots of back fat. Big boobs I can take or leave TBH

One really uncomfortable thing for me is that although in terms of body type I'm very attracted to the prototypical 'black woman' body (bottom-heavy) I viscerally prefer caucasian and Latino women. Rationally I think about that and wonder if it's some kind of sexual racism, but I'm talking about what gets me off. Not a matter of choice. Any thoughts about this?
>>3980
My tiers of fat body types go as follows:

>Tier SSS: Big boobs/ass/thighs, big, shapely tummy

>Tier S: Same as above, but with flabby, hanging tummy
>Tier A: Big ass + shapely tummy or Big boobs + shapely tummy
>Tier B: Big ass or boobs + flabby tummy
>Tier C: Big, shapely tummy, but un-notable boobs/ass
>Tier D: Flabby tummy + un-notable boobs/ass
>Tier E: All tummy, no boobs or ass
>Tier F: All tummy, no boobs, "Cottage cheese" flat ass

>One really uncomfortable thing for me is that although in terms of body type I'm very attracted to the prototypical 'black woman' body (bottom-heavy) I viscerally prefer caucasian and Latino women. Rationally I think about that and wonder if it's some kind of sexual racism, but I'm talking about what gets me off. Not a matter of choice. Any thoughts about this?

There's nothing wrong with having racial preferences if it's just something your body is or isn't attracted to naturally. Personally I have a bit of soft spot for black women myself, as pointed out in the post I made here last month: >>3552
>>3984
i was with a D tier but worse cause instead of un-notable boobs/ass, it was un-notable ass/almost deformed looking boobs that made me gag once in awhile if i thought about it. made me feel like a douche but i cant help what im attracted and not attracted to
>>3987
My ex was tier C, maybe B if I'm feeling generous. But her appearance was completely unrelated to our breakup. There's no shame in being attracted or not being attracted to certain people.
>>3984
My gf is definitely an S. Huge hourglass shape, but her tummy is just okay. Could be rounder. Her sister has a much bigger and rounder belly despite being overall slimmer, but her boobs are tiny. My gf is a fucking titcow. Which I guess doesn't matter because I'm much more of a belly man. Oh well.

She's about 290 right now, and I know that realistically, that's near the limit of my preference, but lately I have just been super into girls who are just full-on massive, like 400+. My gf and I have been eating terribly lately and I've realized and respect just how much of a dedicated fucking glutton you have to be to get so big. The mentality of it is so fucking hot, a woman just mindlessly feeding her most basic desires for pleasure and not giving a fuck how wide she gets.
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>>3980
> I'm attracted to the prototypical 'black woman' body
>I prefer caucasian and Latino women

Probably not worth overthinking it. Big black women turn me on, but if I had the choice, of course I'd go with the light skinned variety. Simply because I'm "white" (or at least I pass for white) and it's less work trying to relate to them.
>>4009
I'm mildly jealous, I honestly value huge tits over a huge belly. That said, my "ideal" is about 250-275, but I also have a soft spot for the 400+ range. I enjoy the general softness more than the mentality, though.
Whats the name of the girl in your initial post anon?
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>>4322
Loey Lane. The love of my life :p
Well I guess my GF is my type ;)
Huge and sticking out double belly, some really big boobs and a noz flat, but not too big ass as well as quite a lot of back fat
Also, massive double chin and arms, rather big legs (but not too much in comparison to other parts)
Also definetly as big as some of our beloved SSBBW models ;)

All in all she's just perfect on the outside as well as on the inside :)
>>4325
I adore her body. It's just a shame about her personality, really.
>>4336
Really? I've heard she has a great personality, and that she is really fun and sweet. As for her body, she's always been really hot, but the recent weight gain is just amazing.
I think my type is SSBBW, USSBBW
I'm not a masochist or a sadist or anything but I find the struggle to move, and the helplessness a turn on.
Immobility is pretty sexy but then again its more of a fantasy.
A like a HUGE like HUGE belly and ass preferably one the drops to or near hear knees or legs.
I dont think i have any "real" racial preferences but sometimes a certain tone on a girl is just a good addition
I want my girls ass to drop off of normal chairs and be like I said HUGE
I want her belly to have huge rolls (although on some girls their bodys just dont naturally make rolls and im glad to make an excception, but their a plus!)
Hairstyle just depends on the already stated assets but ya know iron sharpens iron
Face is a definite must have because ive seen thin women with a face to die
thunder thighs and big thighs and calves are amazing to
Thers probably more that i just cant think of
but im going to leave it their for now
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>>4359
I just find anyone who's into 'body positivity' or 'fat acceptance' obnoxious as fuck.
>>4368
Ehh, there are people who are into those things that are still genuinely good people. Problem is, that a lot of people use those things as excuses to constantly shit on skinny people, ironically enough.
>>4368
I don’t. Exhibit: your post
>>4379
How does my post demonstrate that fat-acceptance types aren't obnoxious? Because she's cute?
>>4368
yeah same. its like, yeah i already find you attractive stop shouting about how everyone should find you attractive
and just be happy someone is.
>>4519
It's a lack of modesty at best, egotism at worst.
Lot of people commenting that they want big girls with "high levels of intelligence"…

I don't think intelligent people let themselves get to weights like that
>>4617
Why not?
Is intelligence somehow bound to being super healthy?

There are some professors, doctors (even some med. doctors) who smoke and/or are overweight, just as a very striking example…
You can't argue that these people are not intelligent ;)

My gf (330 lbs/150 kg) isn't stupid either…

The world isn't as simple as you make it here ;)
Xi-kind's (as a evolution from Humankind, which is evolved from Mankind) final form will be ascension to great FATness.
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i'm a girl who has a boyfriend and none of my family knows i am into fat woman so i don't have anyone trying to set me up with big girls, but i'll be honest, there's very few times where i saw a big girl that i didnt think was attractive as hell. so even if that were the case and i was single, i'd happily be set-up with big girls. so long as they were actually big. i'd even settle for slightly chubby.

but if i had to get extremely picky and suddenly magically summon a girl to be my girlfriend in thin air, and get well into my preferences, im fine with any hair color, but i like black hair, long, or short, but i'd like it floofy hair. i'm fine with how the girl looks, even if shes unconventionally attractive in the face, as long as she has a cute small nose and plump lips, with a nice smile. bonus points if she's really tall (i think short girls are cute, but i'm EXTREMELY short , im a few inches shorter than 5ft, and i am SO SO SO into size difference) and i want her to have BIG CROOKED teeth!!!!!

as for body, definitely need a big belly with rolls, dont care if it's drooping or not. boobs take it or leave it, though i really prefer them a bit smaller in comparison to the rest of the body. THIGHS THIGHS THIGHS, huge thighs!!!! i want the thighs to be bigger than me. and wide wide wide hips with a nice plump butt. i love beccabae's figure so much so a girl with beccabae's physique is just incredible to me. i'm fine with cellulite or even body hair.

like i said, im really not picky when it comes to big girls, but if i had to get picky, i guess this is what i'd go for if i could "build my own gilfriend"

in terms of personality, just a nice person who doesnt like to complete. maybe docile and gentle. shy and who likes to play board games. just good company, and quiet and patient. who likes to go out to eat but also like staying in and cooking for the both of us.

it's nice to fantasize about this sort of thing.
pic related, i'm really into asian girls, especially if theyre japanese.
>>4617
lol you’re an idiot.
>>4368
That's pretty much perfection right there.

But yes why are all the hotties so obnoxious? ;-(

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