/gen/ - General Discussion

Talk about whatever you like

Thank you AGAIN donators! Want to help save the site next month? Click here!
Mode: Reply
Name
Subject
Message

Rules | Max length: 9999 | Spoiler

Files
E-mail
Password

(used to delete files and postings)

No location
Drawing x Start Oekaki

BBW-Chan was saved by some generous donations, but stay vigilant! We'll need to do this every month from here on out >>>gen/6363

One That Got Away. KiloMikeSierraNineOne 11/03/2018 (Sat) 17:18:52 Id:fd9aa9 No. 5748 [Last 50 Posts]
I used to be on BBWCupid alot, at the time so was ColourMeArtistry before she had her social media presence. I remember I messaged her first, she was living in Manitoba and I am living in Ontario. It went from messages to phone calls and texts to Skyping. The only problem was, I was talking to too many women at the time, I wasn't emotionally available, plus I couldn't financially afford to travel from Ontario to Manitoba. She also was having a rough time in her life, she had just been in a car accident and was not in the greatest state; I didn't know how to deal with it and things slipped away. She moved on and her career is doing awesome I can see. I could've done better, oh well.

Do you have any stories of people that got away, that you regret not holding onto?
Pretty much everyone that I've come close to having any romantic interest in was far away, and at one point or another, broke contact with me for an extended period of time for whatever reason and got quiet when they returned, due to either just losing interest or getting into a relationship.

>Start talking to a girl
>Pretty much physically a perfect match for me
>Adorable as fuck personality
>Only real issue was some of the people she was friends with, but she usually didn't get involved in their bullshit in any capacity, so I didn't mind
>Cammed a few times, were wildly turned on just by the sight of each other
>Basically flirted hard with each other whenever we could, was heavily implied we'd probably just end up fucking like bunnies in person
>This went on for quite a few months, talks of meeting up IRL were hinted at (We're a few thousand miles away from each other, which is why it didn't happen sooner)
>Suddenly vanishes for several weeks, didn't reply to me at all on any platform I was connected with her on
>Apparently I wasn't the only one: She completely went dark
>Get slightly worried
>She returns, but in a relationship
>Predictably doesn't make it a point to communicate with me constantly
>We still are friends, just without the extreme horny factor

I'm genuinely glad that things seem to be working out for her. She definitely deserves that much. But I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a tad bit jealous of whomever she's with.
>>5750
I totally have had the whole, "I am with someone, but there is something still interesting about you..." vibe from women. Why bother me if you have a man in your life that you "love", he should have your full attention not me.

Also for me, most women that do interact are usually not conveniently locate near me.
Hmm... I have a somewhat relevant story that I've never known if I should have, or shouldn't hold onto.
Two years ago, when I was 17 I was at a party and started talking to this girl who was as old as me, relatively big, about 130-140 kg and smoking hot, and she's clearly into me.
After a while of talking with her she have told me that -she disrespected her parents so much that they stopped giving a fuck(?) and that she had crashed her car and has 2 DUI and is several hundred euros in debt due to that.
I felt like then it was kind of a deal breaker because that made her sound like a really shitty person, so I walked away from her. But after that I've been wondering if I did the right thing, because she was like a 10/10. Only way to make her better was if she was even fatter.
>>5874
You definitely made the right call. Sounds like the kind of girl that will be starting up shit on fat sites and constantly complaining about how awful men are a few years down the road.

The juice definitely isn't worth the squeeze.
>>5875
Agreed. Never stick your dick in crazy.
>>5875
>complaining about how awful men are
>The juice definitely isn't worth the squeeze.

are you beginning to understand?
>>5886
>I was going for "The amount of negative consequences that would come from the relationship makes the relationship not worth the effort"

No, I can't say I do.
>>5877

1000 times this. Had a few crazy women, funnily enough one after an another, thought I had turned into an idiot magnet.

I can't deal with nasty drunk women, if drink turns them that way it's only matter of time before they lose their shit sober at you. Best left avoided, no matter how sexy their fat might be.
I've recently experience developing feelings for a woman only to be rejected. Doesn't feel good, though I'm handling it better than I thought I would but I've been thinking of what could've been you know?

She is a sweetheart, but due to her past she has become emotionally numb which sucks, all I want was be smothered by her. Let me tell you fellas before I met her I greatly questioned if I would even like BBWs, I fapped to them but would I actually like them? After I cuddled with her I can safely say that I would love to cuddle with another BBW - they are big and warm, I felt safe.

I'm going to mope for a while before I start searching again.
My one that got away story: back in the day I met a girl through the personal ads in a local free paper. She was 5'11" and definitely weighed 300+. We only went out a couple of times. She was very pretty and there was nothing wrong at all but we just sort of drifted apart. I contacted her years later just to ask how she was going and if she might want to get together and talk. She said she was nervous because she had put on some weight since the last time I had seen her. I said that was fine and we had the "big girl" talk. then she said "no, I mean a LOT of weight". We never got together but I sure would have liked to have seen that.
>>6026
As long as you're not a colossal creep and/or douchebag, I'm sure you'll find something in due time.

>>6040
That's a real shame. Almost sounds like she wasn't convinced that you really didn't mind her getting a lot heavier.
Open file (81.20 KB 680x680 pepe-seppuku.jpg)
I once dated a 500 pound bombshell with a classic pear shape who was my ultimate fantasy in terms of physical appearance. She had a kind, warmhearted personality which in theory would have made great LTR/marriage material, but our relationship gradually stumbled on the fact that we didn't have much in common beyond our mutual physical attraction. Sweet and sexy as she was, she was an extremely "basic" person who didn't really have any interests or hobbies beyond watching prime time network shows and sharing mom-tier memes on Facebook. The sex was amazing and I still remember it vividly if you know what I mean, but as our relationship got more serious it became more and more stressful that we didn't have anything in common that we could share in our lives during the other 23 hours of the day. It was a hard decision, but I finally broke up with her because of this.

We were together for a little over a year and during that time she had a serious health scare where she was hospitalized for an issue related to her weight (complications of type 2 diabetes.) This was the first time as an FA that I had ever experienced the dark side of extreme obesity, and it forced me to think a lot more clearly about the difference between fantasy and reality. I knew I wanted an LTR/marriage with the possibility of kids, and this experience made me realize that if I were serious about building that kind of life together with someone, at some point my partner might have to lose weight for the sake of her long term health. The decision I made after we broke up was that I wouldn't get in a serious relationship with anyone unless I could honestly say that we would still be mutually compatible even if they weren't fat.

I still keep in touch with her casually on social media, and she did end up having WLS and slimming down to the low 200s. I've gotten a beer belly as I get older so I think she may actually weigh less than I do now.
>>6234
>She had a kind, warmhearted personality which in theory would have made great LTR/marriage material, but our relationship gradually stumbled on the fact that we didn't have much in common beyond our mutual physical attraction.

Sounds kinda like my ex. Granted, as far as her weight goes, it was probably somewhere in the 300 range, and was more of an apple than a pear. But god damn if I wasn't super attracted to her. After we broke up, it took a few months to talk again, but things went back to normal on both of our ends, to the point where we saw each other a good few times again, including cuddling on her birthday per her request. Unfortunately, I lost contact with her in my social media purge last year, since she had no other way of reaching her. In hindsight, I may have dodged a bullet, since her life goals changed since our relationship to be less than ideal on my end, and she was getting involved with some degree of political BS.
I did a play reading a few years ago and one of the playwrights was this BBW huge-titted gilf and I mean HUGE-titted. We collaborated on her piece and then after a little while, we emailed, texted then went on a date to the zoo and had our first kisses together.

Now I was in my mid-20s at the time and she was well into her 50s and eventually I started getting the impression that she was wanting more of a serious relationship and I was saying to myself "oh hell no that's not gonna happen", but of course I didn't wanna be rude like that and she kinda came off knowing that about me too as it would be a bit too complicated. So along with that, our personalities and outlook on life just didn't mesh so we ceased communication after a while. Absolute damn shame as one day I came over to comfort her a bit when she was sick, she was wearing a black tank top and her tits were just OVERFLOWING. I had baby oil in my pocket and while I was able to give her a slight massage, I wanted so bad to pour baby oil on those tits and fuck them like there was no tomorrow, but alas that did not happen and never would have a chance to. Ever since then, I've longed for a BBW/SSBBW gilf with insane tits for me to fuck whenever I please. Only time will tell.
>>6270
Even if she got away, I'm jealous that you even got to do the stuff that you did. That kind of woman sounds right up my alley.
Spent a few weeks talking to a chick on reddit who was like 550 pounds or so. She was trying to lose weight at first but my fat fetish kind of got her to quit her diet. Wish I would've gone for it but she was on the other side of the country.
This post got me thinking of my "One That Got Away" and it was rough.

When I was 30 I met a chick who was like 22 from a now defunct forum that was associated with a bash community in the east.

I'd met girls from there before without having ever (at the time) been to a bash.

I started to notice a pattern: Catfishing to my benefit. All three of the girls I met from this site:

1) Never once brought up size, sex, or food.
2) Initiated contact.
3) Seemed down for ANYTHING as long as you showed up.
4) Were bigger than the photos could depict and were generally lite on experience.

This girl checked off all of the above but still, was a unique. Adorable smile, long luxurious dark hair, smoldering eyes and sheer size. She looked 320 from the pics so you might assume she might be anywhere from that to about 375ish.
I later figured she must be in the low 400's judging by googling her panty size (she left a pair at my apartment once).

Dudes I've seen in the bash thread on this site have hit her up before. Remember fellas the community of massive cuties who meet guys online is a limited one.

She was so nervous when she came to my house she was visibly sweating, I found this intensely hot. Moments after addressing this, she'd stripped nude and was bent over my sofa. We fucked several times that night and shed suck the soul out of me each time. This went on for a while. Each time I'd marvel at watching her ass jiggle with each smash. She'd say I looked at her "constantly, like a piece of meat", later that night admitting that she loved and needed that look.

Her massively wide, floor-shaking frame was thick everywhere; down to the cankles. Belly, thighs, buns, arms, the whole deal. She responded with profuse gratitude, passion and emotion.

We ended up getting emotionally involved and that shit fizzled quick and that was mostly my fault. She ended up meeting some douche on tumblr and went with him for a while.

I found her number in an old phone and sent off a text saying I missed the old days. Ever since I get photos of belly, smile, thighs and ass in the mirror, all day every day.

We have plans to get together next weekend. I'm glad I saw the post. Not trying to let her get away again. She's long haul material.

But how would I know?? I could never quite could see past those jiggling booty cheeks.
>>6651

>Dudes I've seen in the bash thread on this site have hit her up before. Remember fellas the community of massive cuties who meet guys online is a limited one.

Lol, I'm married now but I was pretty active in the East Coast bash scene in the late 2000s-early 2010s. It really is a very small world, and that's not always a good thing. Even before social media there was a gossipy "fishbowl" aspect to the scene that could get pretty nasty -- I feel like I dodged a bullet by meeting my eventual wife (a BBW but not someone involved in the community) on a normie dating site.

Can't recognize the girl from your description, but she could well be a name/face I'd recognize, although your description doesn't sound like anyone I actually dated or hooked up with. As a bbw-chan regular over the years, there's at least one person here who I'm pretty sure I have a former gf in common with.
>>5748
Yeah, I miss my ex. I had a crush on her since I was a freshman; I'm fucking 25 now. I feel retarded for letting her go. We're still friends, but she'd moved away a few years ago. She's still casually talks about wanting to fuck every now and then; she is in an open relationship. She's trying to become an Instagram BBW model. I think she's got it: Huge tits, big ass, and carries weight really well.

Good on her. I think she might be gaining as well. Although, I'm not sure. I wish I could indulge in a night with her again... Fuck.
>>5748
>He passed on that
You just fucking played yourself.
Ok I'll give you a one that got away story.

> Be me, in a relationship but off at Uni.

> In a module my course shared with people from other departments I notice this girl in one of our group work sessions she's fidgiting with her pants, she pulls them down below her belly and overhear her say "Oh that's better" her goup work partner goes "what the matter with you?" she goes "Well I've gianed the Freshman 15 and then some".

> Later after the exam for the module I see her talking to a lady friend of mine and so go over.

> I'd guess this girl was maybe 5'0 -5'3 at most and easily 260lbs

> We start chatting nonsense about the exam and stuff and she stop and goes "Would you like to join me for dinner, then after we can head back to mine, I've got some booze in and we could see what happens" then winks.

> I trying to be a good boyfriend politely decline and say I'm in a relationship already I'm sorry.

> See nothing of her for the rest of the year as we have no more shared modules

> 2nd year we have another shared module but it's based on group work and split into 2 session groups.

> Both session groups go on a field trip together initially and during this I see her again, at the end of the trip on the way back to the coach I end up walking next to her.

> She's clearly bought bigger clothes, clothes with actual extra rooms. I can't tell her weight because some of the stuff is baggy on her.

> We end up split into session groups but she ends up in a different session group to me so I don't see her again for the rest of 2nd year.

> 3rd year starts and I end up breaking up with my then GF

> 1st semester I have 0 shared modules with the girl

> However I see her in the local pub once at lunch with some of her friends as I'm with some of mine. It's clear she's gained.

> Her previously baggy clothes are tight on her.

> Can see from the back her Jeans have rolled down a bit and a large muffin top is rolling over the sides

> Can see she's wearing a G-string that's super tight almost cutting into her rolls.

> She was eating one of the giant burger the Pub does like so big they have to stick a Kebab skewer into it to stop it falling over.

> I notice later she's also got a deserted after a burger that would have left me full for most of the rest of the day and made it so I had at best a light dinner in the evening.

> 2nd Semester comes round as we have a shared module

> I keep trying to get to talk to her but her friends keep rushing her off to other work etc.

> I watch as she seems to be gaining rapidly

> Pants now tucked under her belly and her belly rolling over a Batman belt buckle

> Notice one day in lectures she has to shuffle along the row to the end because she can't stand straight up to get out because her belly would be smushed into the solid fitting desk infont.

> Nearing the end of the module we go on a field trip.

> After a short bit of actual work the lecturers tell us to explore.

> I go round in a group with some of my friends, her and some of her friends.

> She and her friends decide to play on a playground thing.

> She hangs off some rope netting for a few seconds but that's all it takes, her "The Flash" hoody rides up as does her shirt exposing her big belly, she drops down and runs over her belly hanging out before realising and tucking it back in.

She's easily 360lbs by this point.

> We go for dinner

> Everyone else bar a few have brought a packed lunch, some get cooked food from a cafe on the field Trip site.

> She comes back with a full meal and eats it all

> She then goes for desert too and eats that.

> I can see her belt straining

> after 30 minutes we all as a group start going round more of the place.

> I end up going into this giant Mole hill exhibit thing.

> It's pretty dark in there

> find she's in there too.

> Both lots of our friends have seemingly vanished.

> We get closer to one another under the pretext of trying to read some information thing in there.

> Feels like a moment from a movie as we both seem to be leaning in to kiss

> Friend of mine suddenly calls my name and breaks the moment appearing not far from us.

> Girl in question sort of turns her face away I can tell a bit embarrassed / blushing over the moment that almost happend.

> I walk back with her

> She buys a lot of sweets in the souvenir shop

> Eats most of them before we're heading back to the coach.

> I hang back with her because she's stuff full and struggling

> Try to chat a bit

> just before getting on the coach she says "I really like you, but I've just started dating a guy whose been my friend since 1st year and I don't won't to ruin things even though we only started dating 3 weeks ago"

> I agree and suggest maybe we can still chat.

> she says ok

> Don't hear anything from her after this.

> Friend (from the first time the girl asked me to join her from dinner) tells me at the Summer Ball some girl was asking round for me.

> Turns out she'd broke up with her BF and seeing some of my friends at the Summer Ball she though I might be there and we could have some fun.

> I didn't go to the Summer Ball because I was single and screw $100 a ticket asking price.

> I later try and add her on Facebook.

> She likely doesn't recognise me because I look quite different on Facebook.

> I message her. Her message settings are friend only.


She really was the one that got away for me. I can't help but think she'd have been perfect too. I mean she piled on 100lbs easily in 2 years and definately wasn't going to be slowing down. I'm sure if I'd been dating her she'd have blown up even more.
She also wasn't shy about letting her belly hang free etc. From what I could tell personality wise she was really sweet and quite nerdy.
Body wise she seemed to gain all over with fairly wide hips and thighs but I'd say the majority of the gain was her belly and breasts with her belly easily surpassing her breasts.
>>6773
Yeah, I know I did.

Delete
Report/Ban

Captcha (required for reports and bans by board staff)


no cookies?