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Plus-Sized Gatherings TheNamelessLoser 04/23/2019 (Tue) 17:48:55 Id:aec8a5 No. 7282
Thread for sharing stories, asking questions, and having discussions about Plus-sized Social Events.
went to my 1st one this weekend. damn near all ssbbw's (yes, majority ssbbw) drinking, turning up. more kept coming in , even the person taking the money at the door was thick af. open to grinding etc, yes it was a city thing

long story short: if you see one near you, even in the next city..GO
These events are usually pretty fun, but I try to keep these things at an arm's distance. This community is VERY small, and everyone talks to and gossips about everyone. The bashes are where most of this drama goes down.

Just know that anything you say or do with anyone WILL make it back to their friends, and to more people from there.
>>7752

This, cosigned in my own blood. The bash scene is very welcoming to newcomers, but part of the reason for that is that once you've been around long enough to get to know people, you'll realize that everybody who's been around for more than a year or two knows everybody else. There's a lot of "musical beds," where everyone you meet will be the ex-gf/bf of someone else you just met. This can be a terrible drama minefield, especially if you're a newbie who doesn't know the details yet.

The advice I wish I had gotten when I first got involved in "the community": do your best to be cool with everyone, but listen to your brain as well as your dick and don't be afraid to take things slow, make friends and get the lay of the land before you dive into a hookup, much less a relationship. You might step on a drama landmine without knowing it by hooking up with someone who's on the rebound, trying to make someone else jealous, etc. If you do, just try not to take it personally. There's always drama at these things, it comes with the territory.
>>7753

That said, don't take anything I said here as discouragement from going. Bashes are a fucking blast, and the vast majority of people you meet will be chill, it's just that like all small social/party scenes there can be a "fishbowl" effect that amplifies drama.

The positive side of bashes, like >>7511 said, is that you'll be surrounded by cute as hell women, many of them DTF and most of them open to making new friends even if they're not looking for a hookup. I'm a relatively introverted guy, but I never had trouble meeting people. And honestly, being in a situation where I'm actually attracted to most of the woman I'm looking at is such a weird yet awesome experience. Is this how normies feel when they go to a normie bar or club? I don't know, but it's a thrilling feeling.
Does anybody know of any gatherings in the UK or Ireland? I'm from Northern Ireland so preferably ones in Ireland or Scotland.
>>7755

There's Club Indulge, but it's in London.
>>7754
From the sounds of it, it's kind of a damn shame none ever happen near me.
>>7758

They're worth traveling for, if you have the funds. I would regularly travel to Boston from a couple states away for Heavenly Bodies.
>>7759
Huh, apparently they stopped doing events in 2016.

Are there any lists of bashes anywhere that you're aware of? Ditto for anyone else who may be watching this thread.
>>7762

Good question, I've been off the market for a while now so I'm no longer a regular. Living Large Chicago seems pretty active but beyond that I don't know. Heavenly Bodies shut down because Heather (of Big Cuties, who also ran HB) moved to the west coast.
>>7757
All the women in the club indulge gallery are pretty butters, that's a bit shit.
From what I've been told, these events are basically pointless for single people since most of the women there bring dates. Seems like the kind of thing where if you're male and showed up without a date expecting to hook up with someone there, you'd be treated as just another thirsty creep and curse yourself for being born male as you leave the building feeling even more lonely than before. In other words it doesn't sound fun.

I could be totally wrong though.
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>>7923

>From what I've been told, these events are basically pointless for single people since most of the women there bring dates. Seems like the kind of thing where if you're male and showed up without a date expecting to hook up with someone there, you'd be treated as just another thirsty creep and curse yourself for being born male as you leave the building feeling even more lonely than before. In other words it doesn't sound fun.

All I can say is that this hasn't been my experience, and that you should probably consider the source of the guy who told you this before assuming it's accurate.

A lot of people do come as couples just to catch up with their friends from the scene. And obviously, bashes aren't orgies where women will throw themselves at you just because you have a dick. If you go in thinking that, you're going to have a bad time. If you have poor social skills and actually do come across as thirsty and creepy, then women are going to pick up on that and avoid you. So if you would be standing awkwardly in the corner not talking to anybody at a normie party, going to a bash isn't going to fix that. But if this is a problem for you (not you personally >>7923, just people in general) you should already be aware of it and working on self-improvement.
I've been going to the Vegas bash for nine years in a row. (Ten coming up this summer.) And several of the Jersey bashes before Stu took them over.

They're pretty fun. Lots of attractive women and like >>7754 said, a lot are really friendly and willing to make new friends. That said, I would personally avoid going just to fuck solely. It's a bit skeezy. (Have I gotten laid at a bash? Absolutely, but I didn't go just to get my dick wet.) Bashes aren't primarily for fucking, but that doesn't mean one can't get pussy (or dick) if they want to find it.

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