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BBWs and You (or me) Anonymous 05/04/2019 (Sat) 21:19:23 Id:b58c51 No. 7392
I've had this fetish throughout my entire life ever since puberty, but recently I feel like this fetish is getting a bigger control over me. I feel like I'm coming back to this place more and more every month and my crave for watching women indulge themselves grows.

Whenever I see a hot or attractive woman, my first thought is NEARLY always "Alright, but she'd look way better with 200+ lbs"

I see attractive girls in bikinis and I just mostly think how amazing they would look as lardwhales. How good it would feel to stick my hand in the soft doughy flesh of their guts.

Does anyone else have this problem? I hope it doesn't come to the point where I don't find ordinary women unattractive anymore.
I think this is where the "durrhurr body positivity bad" dipshits tend to bite themselves in the ass.

When you can't see the objects of your attraction as anything but that, it makes it hard to normalise your attraction to them within yourself and that makes it harder to, you know, act like a normal fucking person.

So yeah, figure out what it means to just have a normal sexual expression and get that shit under control because that fear will prove completely justified if you don't.

My genuine, 100% earnest advice is to learn how to have healthy, non-sexual interactions with women without regard to your attraction to them. That'll clear it right up.
>>7395
I see your point. I have an okay social lifestyle (I'm in college myself) and have a couple of female friends if that proves anything. Actually, in my normal life, this fetish doesn't really do much in terms of control. I see them as normal people.

I should've elaborated in OP I really only experience this in the internet. I never have this phenomenon occur IRL thankfully. It's just a problem for me trying to find porn online.
I used to have this problem but then suddenly I went from liking supersized women to only liking thick girls with an hourglass shape lol
>>7396
I mean I think you just need to be remember the people behind the pornography you consume are, like the people who write the books you read or who produce the youtube videos you watch or whatever else, creators.

They might be creators of a different kind, but they're just people doing a kind of craft.

I think that kind of separation can help keep you from going all "UNGA BUNGA ME HORNY" all the time, especially as it relates to indulging in your kink.

Like, you know, sometimes looking at something sexual isn't about getting rocks off but can just be about appreciating something that happens to be sexual. Developing that appreciation of a sort of unpersonal sexuality is healthy.
i mean..that's just a fantasy. there's nothing wrong with just thinking that you'd prefer a woman a certain way. i think most men do that in some form
Is it possible that this is being stoked by a stronger desire for sex in general, rather than the preference itself getting stronger? I noticed that I looked up allot more porn when I was single (though obviously I still do, cuz I'm here answering your question.)

As for having this preference, I wouldn't worry about how attracted you are to "ordinary women". 4 in 10 American women qualify as obese now, and being over 300 isn't even that unusual*. For all intents and purposes, you DO find "ordinary women" attractive.

*In 2004, 3 million people in America (or 1.5% of the population) were over 300 pounds, and that number has likely gone up substantially since then: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18036363

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