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Fetish better as a Fantasy? Anonymous 09/02/2019 (Mon) 16:56:13 Id:e4d802 No. 8622
Is this fetish better as a fantasy? Ive always been into bbw and ssbbws, but always leaned more to the larger size in preference. A few weeks back I had sex with a 400 plus ssbbw that I was really getting along with, but honestly it was some of the worst sex ive ever had. I enjoyed being squashed by her, but thats about it. I know it could've just been me and her just not being compatiable, but its made me question my preferences. Anybody else have any similar expierences?
Absolutely. Listen, I love huge figures up in the high SS territory and even have a few kinks about some health concerns. Fact of the matter is though, it hurts me to see my partner in pain or suffering from obesity related health issues. I had a partner who was getting so big she never left the bed. She ate all day, huge amounts, only left the bed for food or the restroom, and showered like once a week. Now at that size, at that level of stagnation, and that bathing regimen you can imagine how smelly and nasty things got. I may like SS, but I don't dig slob or smells. They were enjoying the ride despite getting legs swollen to sizes you see on medical horror shows, and my heart was not only confused but hurting seeing the physical pain they endured. To this day I cannot help if they were enjoying it anymore, or just realized the situation and gave up.
Now that's extremely up there, not nearly many will ever get it that bad, but the slope is slippery. Furthermore, I have a weak mother who struggles with her weight and fitness, so she uses a wheelchair. I push her around when we go out, and while it's not bad and I'd do it for her anytime no question, that frankly is not something I can say I'd volunteer to sign up for with a partner.
Sex with big people is great, but I have a bad ratio where I'd get lazy fatties who sit there want want you to do everything, which is kind of a turn off for me personally. I love the fat, but cmon let's play! Don't just sit there waiting for my dick to be inserted like a credit card at the grocery store.
What made it so bad?
It depends how far you take it. I cant speak for anyone else but for me all my fetishes are more pronounced online than irl. I might enjoy watching boberry be boberry but about half as heavy is more fun, practical and easier in reality.
Im not really sure why this surprises people. The idea of an immobile gf, which I should say never appealed to me in and of itself, might sound erotic but how could anyone fail to see the endless problems it will create?
>>8622
Saucenao returned nothing, what's the source?
Sometimes i've stopped seeing somebody because the sex just felt "wrong" or not fulfilling. Other times its really surprised me and the sex was a lot better than i'd thought it would be. It's just one of those things

As far as liking big girls though, I think there's sort of a sweet spot. A person can still be pretty damn chunky at 200 or 300 without having a lot of health or personality issues.
There's plenty of cool fat girls out there too,
and that's part of the thing that always i thought was sexy, a girl that's smart and cute and popular
but chunkyyyyy
>>8637
This.
I agree with the other posters here. At a certain point, extreme fatness becomes a medical nightmare and a lifetime dedicated to caring for that person at the expense of most other personal development. Some people might be cut out for that sort of life, but I'm not.

Personally, I like to be with a partner that is heavy, but able to take care of themselves. The actual weight that people can put on and stay autonomous varies somewhat, so I don't have a hard cutoff, but my current partner is at around 280 pounds and is able to live well without any health issues to speak of (verified by her doctor.) I wouldn't want her to purposely put on any more weight, even if she was interested in doing so.

As far as fantasy goes, the sky is the limit. There's no real health risks in literature, and the few women who do get to that size seem to either do it as their own lifestyle choice (and profit from it) or are genetic anomalies like Boberry who are resistant to the normal health issues that come with extreme weight gain. For me that extreme level of fatness is best enjoyed as fantasy only.
>>8637
>personality issues
Sorry, is that an aspect related to gaining that I'm not familiar with?
>>8665
Many fat women are unbearably obnoxious and entitled
>>8684
This wasn't always the case though. This has only happened over the last 10 years because the internet has let them connect with a lot of crazy, mentally unstable people who have deep seated issues.
>>8665
I think it can be

being 400+ pounds seems like it can be really a struggle sometimes, and people deal with it in different way
I think it's important to know what kind of pressures your partner is under
>>8665
People who are fat are usually fat because of mental problems, like depression and anxiety. It's very rare for people to gain weight because they like how it looks.
>>8712

I'd have to disagree with this based on the personal observations of my SO and the women in her friend group (people mostly over 250 pounds.)

These are the reasons I've noticed they're big:

- Enjoy food (obviously.)
- Mostly dislike strenuous excercise.
- Have been large from a young age.
- Are large enough that when they do commit to losing weight, they don't see the results they want fast enough, which leads to giving up on the diet when stressors come into their lives. For example, my SO lost almost 40 pounds getting down to about 250. That's a huge amount of weight to lose, but she was still quite big. Then, life events derailed the diet and she gained it all back.
- Mostly in committed relationships where they don't feel they have to lose the weight for the sake of the relationship.

This might be an atypical group, but I wanted to put it out there that not all big girls are that way because of personality disorders or because they're depressed.

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