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What's your weight sweet spot? Anonymous 09/06/2019 (Fri) 17:43:14 Id:3ad7d5 No. 8652
1. What's your sweet spot when it comes to your ideal girl's weight? I'm talking real-world, not fantasy.

2. What's is everyone's general consensus on the over all sweet spot - how big can a girl get just before it starts impeding a normal life too much? (aka the point of no return)


For me, my sweet spot is around 350-400 lbs. Obviously this is dependent on her height and weight distribution.

As for an over all sweet spot I've observed from both various models over the year and past and current girlfriends that it seems to be around 450. My current girlfriend is around 468 and has started experiencing knee pain, back pain, and has started having issues fitting at some restaurants, airplanes and some theme park rides. She also seems more lethargic than she was at 400. She's also started...stinking and sweating a lot more. These are all things that have changed in the last 20 or so pounds she gained. I've noticed a similar trend in SSBBW models.
>>8652
Weight would vary too much depending on a number of factors such as height, and how much of the weight is Fat vs Muscle. Plus I think alot of models lie about their actual weight.

I'd say my sweet spot is women like Jenni Bombshell, Sugar Pear, Cherrylicious, Chocolate Pear, Melody Nyte, Asshley, and Valerie. They're all very big pear shaped women who carry their weight nicely, and a few them have cute bellies that go along with it. My limit would be anyone bigger than say Lady Seductress.

>how big can a girl get just before it starts impeding a normal life too much
If they look like Echo, it's too much. if they can't wipe their own butt, it's too much.
From a purely physical standpoint, keeping height and proportions in mind, I'd say my ideal is roughly in the 300-425 pound range, although there are certainly exceptions. The BBW that's the most attractive to me is a bit above 400, but she's more an exception rather than the rule.

Relationship-wise is a bit different, since I do prefer a fair bit of physical activity. So at that point, I have to find a balance between fat and function. So roughly in the 250-325 pound range, again factoring in height/proportions. Still enough fat to make intimate moments great, but not enough to severely impede physicality.
>>8652
>What's your sweet spot when it comes to your ideal girl's weight? I'm talking real-world, not fantasy.
About 225 pounds which is perfectly THICC, I don't understand how people find these massive lardasses attractive
A bmi of at least 50, with some upper limit, seems to be a sweet spot from what I've seen irl and online. I prefer tall girls around the span of 173-183cm (5'8-6 feet), which means they'd weigh 150-168 kilos (330-370 pounds) respectively. If she happens to gain a bit more than that because she just loves to eat that much, I certainly wouldn't mind, but with a bmi of 50 I'm already happy. The upper limit is safely before her weight becomes a major physical impediment, which is not OK and a big turnoff.
I'd say the perfect weight sweetspot is around 700-800lbs, and the more flab rolls, the better. There are exceptions under that, someone like Amber Rachdi who is just huge and sexy all over.

There's alot of odd observations here, like someone on a niche fetish board saying USSBBW is too much when equally, alot of folk would say a BBW is too much.

Also, people are equating weight to having sex or having a relationship, this is different to what your attracted to, no one is talking about going in a relatinship with someone that big.
I have a pretty big range. Depending on the person, anything above190-200ish pounds is ideal.

There's so much variance. People's bodies are all over the place with how much weight they can carry before hitting a sweet spot. Some girls start seeing health issues at 250 or less, while others (like Boberry) don't seem to have an upper limit. And of course, if the woman isn't happy at her weight that's also a serious issue for long term dating -- I like to date people who are confident and happy with their bodies.

My SO seems to equalize at around 290. I find her very attractive.
200-300
Between 200 lbs - 300 lbs, I don't know what the exact weight is for a woman to pass the point of no return but the best I can describe it is when they start to loose their curvaceous shape and start to look like a blob. Sure I'd may have some fun with woman who is a blob - I mean I just want to stuff a woman silly and to rub/play with her belly but in terms of dating, there's no way in hell.
Dating? 140 minimum (if they have a really big ass or huge tits) to 300, maybe 350

Hookup? 500 to 700 depending on how they're built, mobility level, etc.

Model? the bigger the better but a lot of SSBBWs lose their good looks over 600 or 650, so around there
If it's a hookup scenario I'd probably be willing to go up to 600 pounds or like 100 BMI, whichever comes first. Obviously it depends on looks but I'd like to try that size once perhaps. The largest I've ever had was upper 400s and it was a real struggle to have sex with her on top.

In terms of what I actually find aesthetically appealing, I'm a fan of the 50 BMI range. Though I've never been attracted to thin or even plump women, I've tried to do enough research to make sure I can responsibly care for a partner at that size.

Fortunately a 50 BMI is pretty tame and can be perfectly healthy for a ssbbw, which is the size of my fiance right now. We pay a lot of attention to visceral versus subcutaneous fat build up and try to keep her mobility high despite the size. The biggest issues are societal accommodations like airlines and rides, etc. To be honest, I spend two or three times as much as most guys do just feeding her, I don't mind buying another seat and she's perfectly comfortable with that too.
Dating - 5'2" to 5'8" and 200-350lbs. Any combo.

Hookups - Height not as big a deal, neither is weight but have been with up 550lbs. Once over 400lbs, things usually get complicated. Walking, riding in cars, stairs, sex. It's a lot of fun, but daunting to think about dealing with it every day. I know, bit of a shallow take but the right girl could always change my mind.
My sweet spot= 450-550ish

For me its the larger end of the spectrum.I have dated and hooked up with women from 200-650ish and when I was with someone on the smaller end I felt that it wasn't fulfilling for me sexually or mentally. I do not view women as objects however Im proud of my preference in women and I love to have a very large women beside me. The trade off to that a some have stated is that yes you do have more issues with getting around and doing things (in my case planning a date around a woman thats well in to the 500s, you have to think about seating at restaurants and movies aswell as how far of a walk it is to the table and if there is a wait to be seated does she have to stand and so on)

Sexually ive never had an issue with a woman of any size, after a cretin size you have to be more creative in positions, and remembering her limitations with movement but its all a give and take if you want a woman in a carnal or sexual manor thats 600 pounds you cant expect her to to go the same way as would a woman of 120 pounds or even like a "bbw" half her size.
Appropriate that OP posted Heather (I believe that's her, at least) in the initial post. She's right in my sweet spot, I think.

I've dated everywhere between 135-370, and I've come close to dating a few superfats/infinifats after befriending them (in the 550+ range), but it never worked with distance. I've hung out with Heather and few other prominent superfats on a few occasions at bashes, and saw how they got around, what they needed, and what to consider when dating someone in that weight range. It sounds ideal, honestly.

My current s/o is around 370+ at the moment, and has been quickly trending upward recently. She still appears much less than that due to being actually quite muscular, and not just purely fat. I'm appreciating her upward trend of gaining at the moment, and honestly I wouldn't mind another 100-200 lbs on her, as I know she'll retain her mobility quite easily with how strong her core is.

That being said, I also don't mind a complete blob of a girl who needs a scooter, and I honestly enjoy the sexual struggles that involves the fatness/weight of a partner, so I could go even as high as 650+ and still be happy. Honestly, as long as they're enjoying their size/weight, I will too.
>>8652

1 What's your sweet spot when it comes to your ideal girl's weight?

She lost weight, gained some of it back and wants to lose it again. Currently 275-280lb US 20-22 (UK 24/26). She was up at 340 a year or so after we met and up another couple of sizes. I thought it was hot as fuck, and when she bought oversize clothes that was a massive turn-on, but IRL it had a few limitations, mainly travel. She could have gone to 400lb and I'd have been hitting on her even more. Age influences your decisions on what is ideal when you love someone and now hitting late 30s losing but still being curvy is probably better long term. I get it, we're not the one struggling with the extra weight.

2. Over all sweet spot

Chatted to a lot of ssbbw girls in my time, I was never one for asking outright, there'll tell you if they're happy with it, but if they are active, top end BMI of 60 doesn't make that much difference if they have always been active whilst gaining, but prob 50 if they aren't. Depends on the need for travel. Above XXXL, size US26/UK30 and air travel becomes uncomfortable.

I'd have killed for a 500lb girl, I don't cheat despite a lot of work travel, but fuck, there's a point where I'd be tempted.
>>8652
i'd like to have sex with women up to 500 or so, but i don't think i could marry a woman above 400 for fear of problems it could cause throughout our lives.

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