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"Kinkshame" thread Anonymous 01/22/2020 (Wed) 09:06:23 Id:9f28ca No. 91
Been wondering a long time about these things. >why is lesbian stuff such a common theme on bbwdraw and deviantart (fat art)? I don't see the appeal. It seems so fake and unnatural, no passion or romance. >why is femdom such a common thing in general within the bbw scene? I want to be the dominant partner in a relationship and I fantasize about a girl wanting to please me by gaining weight and not the other way around. There are so few erotic stories of about it, it's sad. >how do people see vulva sexy or beautiful (or genitals in general)? Vaginas are abhorrent and I am not gay. >inflation in every fat art thread, both here, 8chan and 4chan, why????! Imo, balloon bellies are not realistic, "normal" art and belong in /bbwalt/ instead. I just want some explanation. pic unrelated
>>91 > Lesbians are fake and unnatural Too true, we all know they don't have the ability to feel passion or romance in reality. That's why god hates them and heterosexual relationships are all perfect and without fault. >not enough stories of (insert my specific fetish here) Why don't you go write them then? >Vaginas are gross Very true but I guess they are at least better looking than dicks >Inflation in every thread Yeah that shit never stayed in the inflation thread I was being sort of sarcastic before but on this one you have a good point I can't stand banana galactic stuff Idk why i'm replying to your obvious bait I guess I'm just autistic
>>93 Not a bait, sweaty. I'm just saying I don't like it in my porn art. Why the fuck I would like to see two girls having fun with each other when I love to imagine myself dominating those girls? They should draw and write more submissive women, though I don't really need to see dudes in my art, I can picture myself in the works of art just fine. Instead of lesbians, there could be girls drawn, like in my fantasies, chasing me and wanting to please me. Just wondering why there is so much weird shitty porn out there when there are many great artists and so few works of art are about my kinks. I thought my kink was the most common one for fat fetishists. Maybe I was dead wrong.
>>91 femdom isn't even particularly prominent in bbw shit. most fat women are portrayed as some kind of sub, to food and/or their feeder. kinda seems like more of a you problem. maybe stop looking at femdom if you don't like it as for the yuri prevalence, heterosexual men (so probably not you i guess) just like looking at women in pornographic contexts without having to see a dude as well. it's not rocket science
>>107 I'm heterosexual. You understood me wrong. I don't like to see dudes in my porn. No dudes, no lesbians.
>>95 >They should be drawn chasing me and wanting to please me Yeah actually why don't they draw you specifically in the picture Yes I know what you meant. Maybe it's entirely possible that dudes like to imagine themselves in the scene, just like you said, and they want to imagine a threesome with those two lesbians? It can't be too difficult for you to imagine them making out before turning towards you and saying "now its your turn" can it? Maybe that's too complex for you.
>>91 >lesbians I have no problem with lesbian BBW art, videos or erotica. It's just that the actual romantic aspect is done poorly most of the time, so I guess I see what you mean there. >femdom Not personally into it, but I can easily see why some men want to be dominated by a woman who is physically bigger than them. I, for one, love having a big woman be on top during sex, but I know that's not really the same thing as being outright dominated. My last ex was ~300lbs and was a former amateur dominatrix (I know that sounds like bullshit but I'm telling the truth) so obviously some big women are into it too. On the other hand, as another poster has already said, I don't think it's nearly as prevalent as you're making it out to be. Certainly no more common than dom/sub content where the woman is the sub. >vaginas Can't say I see where you're coming from at all there, chief. I like looking at vaginas, eating girls out, whatever. My only personal weird hangup here is that I love it when thin women don't shave, but I much prefer a fat pussy when it's totally waxed. >inflation Only thing I 100% agree with you on. Don't understand it whatsoever and I never will. Following on from the inflation thing, and in keeping with the theme of the thread, I just can't get into anything that's too unrealistic. Stuff like: >girls being any bigger than ~1200lbs I.e. world record breaking weights. Just ruins it for me. >giantess Although again the connection with BBW fetishism is pretty obvious, I guess. >hypnosis I know this is mostly unrelated to BBW porn (although you do see it sometimes) but holy fuck I do not get hypnosis at all. Of all the shit that makes me say "that's literally impossible and just plain dumb", hypnosis is probably the worst offender in this category. >furry shit Pretty self explantory for anyone who isn't a furry. Finally, on a different note: I consider myself straight but I can't get into BBW porn/content at all if there's a fat/chubby man involved. Fat guys just gross me out, honestly. Probably makes me a hypocrite in the eyes of many of you, but oh well. I just strongly prefer watching fat girls get fucked by fit/skinny dudes. Probably because I like the contrast + it's easier for me to put myself in his shoes.
>>91 >why is lesbian stuff such a common theme on bbwdraw and deviantart (fat art) Less gay for you. >no passion or romance Almost everyone into fat sucks at romance. >>why is femdom such a common thing in general within the bbw scene Community is filthy with cucks >how do people see vulva sexy or beautiful (or genitals in general) Male feminists and degenerates. inflation in every fat art thread, both here, 8chan and 4chan, why????! Not many into fat have respect for their shit.
>Mutual gaining It's something really common and I really don't like it at all, its bare mention is a big turn off. I think it's because I'm skinny and a wannabe /fit/ that I dislike the idea of being fat, and also I love the body contrast and the idea of the girl being the lazy, greedy and big one.
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>>141 >mfw only dudes ask me to fat chat on Feabie >mfw old "kweens" want me paypal "feed" them
>>153 Can we get the Feabie lolcow thread back? I need some pointless validation of my feelings toward the SJW line-towing that goes on there.
>DD/LG Fetish/roleplay Absolutely the last thing I want. I gag when I see girls with pacifiers or acting like children. Oi mista. I ain't your dad. Any partner I've ever had that calls me "daddy" has me running for the hills. I'm an adult man looking for a peer- not some creep looking to indulge in a pedophilic fantasy. >Non Consent I hate consensual gray areas. I love massive fat women who genuinely love being massively fat, especially when they desperately want to get even fatter. I want their experience as a super fat woman and their weight gain to be pleasurable and fulfilling for both of us. >Findom I don't care about paying your bills or buying you superfluous bullshit if we aren't dating (or at least hooking up regularly). >Oil rubbing This shit is boring. I feel like every other model I've seen out there is doing tons of clips of rubbing oil or lotion of their belly. Yawn. >Fatties with thin faces What is this bullshit? I keep seeing people prioritizing fat women with thin faces. Fat cheeks, double (or triple) chins, and neck rolls are hot af. >Vore Nah man. Nah dude. Nope. So, since I've yucked other people's yums, here are some of mine: >Fat Chat Girls genuinely discussing their desires and fantasies regarding weight gain or habits of being a wonderful fatass just gets me going. Especially when they get worked up themselves. Ohhh man. >Fat in Public/Teasing When a girl voraciously eats two entrees at a restaurant with no shame? *fans self* If she jiggles her gut at me, or asks me to feel how full and swollen she is in public? Goodnight. >Outgrown/torn clothes/popped buttons Outgrown clothes with fat spilling out is a very beautiful thing, and the clothes giving way (especially during/post stuffing) is even better. >Here's one I don't hear often- environmental indications of weight/size I like 'em HUGE, so indicators of a woman's size/weight really gets me going. I love being in another room and hearing furniture, bedding, or flooring creak. I love seeing a partner get stuck in small doorways (or better yet, normal sized doorways), or booths at restaurants. I love that my suspension is basically ruined on one side of my car! Even heavy footsteps are great. Remember that scene with the cup of water from Jurassic Park? My ideal woman would scare the life out of Dr. Grant.
Here's some of the shit I'm not really a huge fan of: >DDLG Wasn't really into this fetish to begin with, and without exception, every single girl I've ever met who's openly been into it has been a super headcase. No exceptions. It's particularly bad if they obsess over "little spaces". >Polyamory Not sure if this counts, but this was something I was open to on paper once upon a time, but the girls that are about this lifestyle made me fucknope out of even entertaining the idea. >Findom If I wanted to spend money to be treated like shit, I'd just go to college again. >Double bellies I don't really necessarily HATE these as much as the other stuff in this post, but I strongly prefer single bellies, if given the choice. >Formless blobs of fat There's probably a better term for this, but by this, I mean women whose fat distributes in a way where their body no longer has a shape that can be described as anything besides "blobby". There pretty much has to be some semblance of shapeliness for me to find a BBW attractive. >Immobility Partially because this correlates with the formless blobs category, but also partially because I'd still enjoy doing actual physical activities with my partner. While a lot of BBWs hate that sort of thing, some are still interested, even with their figure. >Death feedism I cannot, for the life of me, really wrap my mind around people who get aroused by people noticeably struggling with their physical health. On that note, a pre-existing emotional bond is pretty much necessary for me to enjoy feedism in general to any degree. >Vore Do I really even need to explain this one? >Femdom I'm not really a fan of dom-sub dichotomies in general. The only way this is really palatable for me is if the only real restraint is the girl being on top, or otherwise physically restraining me without the use of external objects, such as handcuffs or ropes.
Can we add complaints too? >Content Variety in Hardcore Porn I stand what I've said before. All the good hardcore videos were made between 2006-2009, and a few others in 2010/2011, when BBW Superstars/Hunters were around, and occasionally when Bangbros had fatter women like Anna Rose in their videos. I personally am not interested in BM/WW (too each your own), but holy shit there are like 100 of those for every other pairing, and either you get some old fuck, or that creepy bald guy who looks like he has aids. The content that doesn't fall under this is so rare that often times I've had to buy it because no one shares it. It's literally a niche in an already niche category. I would have loved to have seen a Devious Video or a Melody Nyte (one exists) video without a black dude (Again to each his own). Or hell, Sugar Pear a myriad of other models on Mercedes's site. >BBW Cults I get it. You love Boberry/Rand/Jae/etc. I don't care for them personally. The most difficult thing is cult like worship like this means getting videos from lesser known models is more difficult if not impossible. That's fine, but guys, there's a big sea out there of lesser known models that are good too, and in the case of Rand, there are asses out there that are filmed without 999999999 Instagram filters and shitty music. >>91 >Few Erotic Stories There is definitely a severe lack of BBW related erotic stories, even more so if you want BBW+Another Niche. Even the ones that are out there sound like they were written by people who have never had sex or thought about it much and just wrote them for clicks. I want to add to yours. Not only are their few stories, there is also a huge lack of GOOD erotic audio. >>169 >>172 >DD/LG Why is this so prevalent all of a sudden? Been searching for good JOI videos and all women keep moaning "daddy". If it's not that, it's older BBWs referring to themselves as "mommy". >Findom Half the women doing this think they'll get rich quick without actually every doing anything. >>172 >Formless blobs of fat I agree with you. I'm attracted to the female form, and a blob isn't that. >Femdom Femdom is too broad a term I think. There are things like you say are definitely palatable like a woman being on top. I'd personally be okay with her largely being in charge, but nothing like whips or anything. Sort of a "Gentle" femdom if you will.
The fetishes I really hate are piss, shit and farting. I honestly have no idea how anyone can be into these. Just the thought of them almost makes me throw up
>>91 >why is lesbian stuff such a common theme on bbwdraw and deviantart (fat art)? I don't like hard core porn, or watching any other man when im beating my meat. Lesbians are just a stand in for guys like me, who likes seeing fatties get groped and what not, but them doing the deed. Most often you'll see lesbians in the softcore stuff and regular relationships in the harder stuff. >why is femdom such a common thing in general within the bbw scene? I never noticed that, I guess it usually being a skinnier guy with a larger woman, so the weight difference leads to that maybe.... >how do people see vulva sexy or beautiful (or genitals in general)? Same, not gay either but seeing any sort of genitals is a big turn off for me. Maybe thats another reason why i like BBWs, they often get to a point where they are so big that you can see their entire body naked without having to look at their genitals. >inflation in every fat art thread, both here, 8chan and 4chan, why????! I guess the two are loosely related, I guess one could make the jump from BBW/Weight gain to belly stuffing (filled with food) to inflation( filled with liquid or air). I however will never understand how people are attracted to circles with arms
>>176 >Femdom is too broad a term I think. There are things like you say are definitely palatable like a woman being on top. I'd personally be okay with her largely being in charge, but nothing like whips or anything. Sort of a "Gentle" femdom if you will. I was thinking more the BDSM side of it, so with whips and the like. Even most of Gentle Femdom is too rough for me. Like, I can only do extra-gentle femdom.
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I don't hate DD/LG play- you do you, bro- but goddamn it feels like a giant meme that everyone's just participating in, waiting for someone to show a sign that says "jokes over, everyone go home!" Fuck, sometimes it almost feels borderline Chris Hansen territory, like "You have a problem and need to talk to someone" level. >Femdom Depends. I'm down to try, but it really depends on someone's personal feelings and viewpoints as to what femdom "is". Some guys seriously think a wife who makes more than them is femdom, for instance. >>177 Absolutely agree. I understand where those fetishes come from, but there's a line where your fetish is indicative of something actually *wrong* with you that one should seek a professional; sometimes, that fetish gets there. >Formless blobs of fat, expansion ect. I find more and more on here and boards like chounyuu/expansionchan (remember that?) that these fetishes really bleed together, and I kind of see them as all being apart of a bigger "whole" of a love of size and weight, revolving around contentment. For me I like the exaggerated proportions, but it shows the problems our fandom has with women who reach that USSBBW territory- they don't look like our fap material. The human body doesn't always balloon up to a 600lb cherub with a bean-bag belly, watermelon size boobs and planetary bubble-butt ass. >>183 >Like, I can only do extra-gentle femdom. Do you mean more of a caring/supporting role? I like when >>176 said >Femdom is too broad a term I think. I think (I'm sorry if I'm assuming) you're thinking of femdom and dominance as all leather and chains- but it can be caring in dominance, like a caregiver putting their foot down on an issue. Do you have a partner? Have you ever talked about it, researched, ect.?
>>187 >but it can be caring in dominance, like a caregiver putting their foot down on an issue This was what I was trying to get at when I said Gentle Femdom. Thanks for explaining it better!
>Why are there so many loli fans here? The name of the site is BBW-Chan. Big. Beautiful. WOMEN. Little girls aren't appropriate by the site name alone, let alone for supposed adults. If we wanna talk about a fetish that signals someone needs to see a professional, I think the loli fetish indicates someone clearly hasn't grown up, or there are some serious problems. ...and now that my Nomex suit is on...
>>192 I will never understand how someone can find women under 20 attractive, they don't even look like women yet. To take a quote from the Simpsons: https://tv.getyarn.io/yarn-clip/e0eb6a31-2e01-4c6f-8984-b5a998bf74da
>>187 >I think (I'm sorry if I'm assuming) you're thinking of femdom and dominance as all leather and chains To me, that's standard femdom. Apparently even in the "gentle" femdom community it's fairly prominent, even if the nature of the restraints are more, well, gentle. Granted, most of my knowledge of it comes from lurking forums on it, so I could just be looking at the wrong part. Like, i'm all about the affectionate part of it where the woman takes charge, but not really much beyond that. >Do you have a partner? Negative.
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>>192 >Why are there so many loli fans here >many I don't think the posters in the loli thread ever got far into the double digits. Loli is allowed because anime makes it so that you can never be sure about a characters age and a lot of people into weight gain tend to ignore the age of characters from their youth and ones that they really like even if they say they're against loli and all that would make it moderating hell.
>>199 If you say so. I don't know how people can fool themselves into thinking they are fapping to anything but children when they are stuck obsessing and Stanning about animes and characters that are set in high school or lower.
>>91 >how do people see vulva sexy or beautiful (or genitals in general)? >Vaginas are abhorrent and I am not gay. sounds like you *are* gay, bud. (i agree with you about dudes in porn though. i don't understand how everyone else can ignore it. i can't watch it if there's a guy in it even if he's fully clothed. idk why)
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>>230 >honey please get down and eat me out oh yes munch that carpet ooooh real men can please their lady with cunnilingus oh ah ah that really tingles my hairy cunt queef coochie Mmm... Yes, "delicious". I will never fucking lower myself to do something as disgusting and submissive as that.
>>274 You'll never attempt to satisfy a woman for once in your life? You're posting on a fringe kink anon board after saying you find women's sexual organs disgusting, yet you won't 'lower' yourself to pleasuring a romantic partner. The irony must be lost on you.
>>274 Big yikes. Is your masculinity so fragile, that it's threatened by going down on a sexual partner? It's not belittling, and it doesn't make you a "submissive". It makes you selfish and immature. I'm not trying to belittle you, but frankly no woman (or person, for that matter) deserves a sexual partner who is actively disgusted by any part of their body. Would you want to be with a partner that finds your genitals repulsive?
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>>274 hey look i found a picture of you (your autism is showing, kiddo)
>>277 he'd never tell us the truth, but if this guy isn't a virgin ii'll eat my hat. he sounds like a 16 year old boy who gets bullied by femanons on /r9k/
anyone who hates yuri/lesbian is homophobic

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