How about some productive conversation?
How does a /pol/ack-like man date a decent woman? No she dosen't have to scream "da jooz!1!" at everything, or even be aware of things like Central Banking or immigration trends. She just has to be "not liberal" and good relationship material.
As a disclaimer, I'll use the term "liberal" here to define those pushing LGBT rights, more immigration, more feminism, more censorship of "hate speech", etc. You know, those people. I am not a "hateful gnatzee that wants to gas 6 gorillion children", and I am not Alt-Right, so put away your ad hominems. It seems that both sides here are just shouting at strawmen of their own creation. The left doesn't really understand the disunited and formless workings of the current /pol/ type men and /pol/acks often condemn all left wingers as the shrieking rainbow-haired harpies we're all so familiar with. In this thread there have been a few liberals or left wingers who have managed to disagree respectfully, so let's try to aim for that in the service of productive discussion. If your only response is "Fuck you ebil gnatzee!" or "Go die of AIDS Libturd hurrdurr!" then kindly fuck off.
Now, to begin: I think we can agree that modern men have become weak soy-filled wimps, and women have become deranged golddigging thots. But what about the men trying to become the opposite of today's numale videogame obsessed wimps? Where are similar women trying to regain their femininity and classical beauty (or just women that won't flip out if you mention you don't like illegal immigration)? And more relevant, how do you find such women who are ALSO okay being plump and jiggly?
The common advice has been "look in churches, look in the countryside" but these approaches are flawed. It's almost a well known joke about how slutty a pastor's daughter is, and Anons have reported finding awful quality women in churches as well as small towns. "Small town girls" can be insulated from the madness of modern politics, but often they jump on the cock carousel and all the "popular" things as soon as you move her closer to a big city. No, it's not about finding a magical unicorn high up on a mountain where no climber has been able to reach, it's about finding women who are inherently different from the herd and have the strength of conviction to have different values than those peddled in universities and on the tv.
Looking over the women of /r/redpillwomen (I know I know, plebbit) you find the ideal women - family oriented, typically rejecting aspects of modern feminism and liberal identity politics, traditionally minded, and actively working to better herself to become a "better wife." It's truly extraordinary, seriously. Go lurk. But the problem is that particular sub is mostly a hub for already married women to seek self improvement and companionship from other women. Trying to enter that sub saying "Uhhh, anybody wanna date me?" will get you rightfully thrown out.
So how do we find those kind of women? And how do we find the 1% of those 1% who are okay being your beautiful butterball? I've seen too many posts of Anons who marry a sexy landwale and make a good wife out of her, but eventually her seeking self improvement leads to her wanting to lose weight, which strains the relationship tremendously. She has to be genuinely okay with being fat from the beginning, or she's a ticking timebomb waiting to get the confidence to start working out and "become thin and sexy again."
Do you stick to fatty dating sites and try to filter the vast majority of those women? If so, how? Opening a first date with questions like "What's your opinion on abortion?" and "What's your relationship with your father like?" seems like a terribly autistic thing to do, yet at the same time it's almost necessary if you don't want to waste time on women who eventually turn out to be your typical modern woman with "Muh career in the city until I turn 40" and "Muh liberated women's freedumb (to be a slut)" but x50 women in a row.
Or, do you hang out around conservative clubs and gun groups looking for a decent woman that clearly values family and the old way of doing things? If so, how do you bring up the fact that you like fat women and would like your future wife to stay fat and jiggly without immediately sounding like some kind of weirdo?
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